a question for all the ladies

[kirknewton]

Hello ladies I hope you are all having a wonderful day!!!!

My question is, when having sex with a client and having sex with someone you love or care about does it feel just as good?
I know emotionally it is different but the sex it's self feel just as good?

thanks.

 

[Symone]

Hmmm this always makes me wonder... why would you think questioning an SP's PERSONAL sex life would be an acceptable thing to do?

 

[Symone]

While I find his question a little odd, nobody is demanding a response from you. Other SPs may wish to share their thoughts even if you don't.

Not at all shocked by you post
If another sp chooses to blur the lines and discuss her personal sex life on a forum where a version is offered commercially, well that's her business.

I am asking. Why a hobbiest would think it is acceptable to question an sp's personal sex life and than compare the two version to one another. I am not stomping my foot here tiger just reeelax

This is a reoccurring topic clients have brought up over and over. From a 19yr old student to men that are close to retirement educated professional men. Why do hobbiests think it is acceptable to question an sp's personal sex or dating life!?

I agree with you goooorgeous Ms Charlotte!

 

[oil&gas]

While I find his question a little odd,

I would never question my MPA if her friendliness was just a ploy
to win a bigger tip from me. Consider that SPs promoting their business
being one function of this forum the OP's question is more flippant
than odd.

nobody is demanding a response from you. Other SPs may wish to share their thoughts even if you don't.

 

[punter]

The question shoes how much (or little) the OP knows about women.

 

[Titalian]

I realize that this question was posted to women, but I'll answer this on a males perspective. Yes there is a
difference and not necessarily on the act itself (everyone loves to be stimulated physically) but mainly
on the connection or bond we have with that person, which makes the act so much more fulfilling, granted your in love.
I'd be very ignorant to think otherwise from women or Sps for that matter.

 

[MissCroft]

My question is, when having sex with a client and having sex with someone you love or care about does it feel just as good?
I know emotionally it is different but the sex it's self feel just as good?

Maybe I'm different but, yes, I feel that the physical sex can be just as good. I might be more physically turned on by a romantic partner though....

 

[IRIS]

A little thing makes big different between clients and love. Call it condom.

 

[foxxxy lady]

A little thing makes big different between clients and love. Call it condom.

straight to the point as always Iris lmao.

 

[Ridgeman08]

A little thing makes big different between clients and love. Call it condom.

Hahah, EXACTLY! The difference between love and lust= .045mm!

I've often heard ladies say they hate condoms as much as guys do, but they are a necessary evil in this hobby.

 

[red]

Wouldn't it be sad if there was no difference?

These SP's are human beings and just regular gals when not working. Jumpin jehosophat

 

[Hiding]

I'll take the contrary view (giant shock!). Does it feel as good, physically? Sure.

Psychologically and emotionally, they are very, very different. It has nothing to do with a "0.045 barrier" or even the focus of the interaction (yes, I DO go in thinking "I hope he does XXX" - I usually ask). It's all about the connection; how well you know someone, how you can respond to their body, and what your relationship is like. Sex is a physical expression of your relationship.

Hence... 2h minimum for new considerations.

Honest intimacy is way better.

 

[Titalian]

I'll take the contrary view (giant shock!). Does it feel as good, physically? Sure.

Psychologically and emotionally, they are very, very different. It has nothing to do with a "0.045 barrier" or even the focus of the interaction (yes, I DO go in thinking "I hope he does XXX" - I usually ask). It's all about the connection; how well you know someone, how you can respond to their body, and what your relationship is like. Sex is a physical expression of your relationship.

Hence... 2h minimum for new considerations.

Honest intimacy is way better.

I'm not sure if its cheaper. but I know there's no time limit at least at the beginning.

 

[pipefitter]

You never know ,as a client the Sex might be better ,the ladies are exhausted at the end of the day and may just want a back rub and cuddle all night

 

[katcalla]

I share different experiences with different partners-clients or not-and each one in and of itself is different from others-and that's what I like about it. To answer OP's question-if I may, sex is also a technique, so yes, it can be just as good or better. But let's be honest, that's not what makes sex good...

 

[MissCroft]

Does it feel as good, physically? Sure........................................Psychologically and emotionally, they are very, very different.

Exactly. The OP was asking about the physical feeling and I agree it can feel just as good. An orgasm is an orgasm. And I've had some of my best ones with strangers.

 

[Titalian]

Exactly. The OP was asking about the physical feeling and I agree it can feel just as good. An orgasm is an orgasm. And I've had some of my best ones with strangers.

On that note. :wink:

 

[MissCroft]

Love Frank.