Joe Cocker's "You can leave your hat on" would've been much sexier if he said "You can keep your heels on"!!!
I like my long legs, and the model look that comes with them when I wear my heels. I like to keep them on until the end of a date. There's something wild and sexy about wearing VERY HIGH heels, especially during a sexual act. I think heels are and must be part of the seduction game. They're made to impress.
I'm 5'9" without my "special effects". My heels start at 3" and my highest stripper shoes are 6". The higher, the sexier in my opinion. Unfortunately, some guys are intimidated by women taller than them, a few even ask me to take my heels off, to my disappointment!!! Since I prefer greeting gentlemen with heels on, I feel I have to remind them how tall I'll be with my shoes before they come knocking! But as I often say, I like a man with the Napoleon Complex. :wink:
For me, I'm about the same height but I usually stick to kitten heels or 3-4 inches max.
There is something to be said about a softly understated Manolo pump or cute nude or white Miu Miu or any other good quality brand.
I only wear extremely high heels like those of a red bottom caliber on request but I find that my clientele usually prefer moderate level heels instead of the uber high platform stripper heel type as well.
I usually open the door in a lingerie set (tasteful bra and underwear from victoria secret, la perla, or agent provacateur for the gentlemen who appreciate fine taste, stockings, garter if it works with the outfit, or a bodysuit/leotard - I'm a classical ballet dancer so I got tonnes - or an actual dinner/dancing little black dress type of get-up). It varies on the type of appointment, where we are meeting and how long it is for. Longer appointments usually mean multiple outfits.
I've actually been on some outcalls wearing nothing but a knee length trench coat and some heels. Classy on the outside, yet unbeknownst to the world what lies underneath my cashmere veil...:wink:
The shock factor kills me every time lol.
I think that if the gentleman has a specific request for shoes, a minor mention like "I also adore a woman in heels :wink:" would suffice and would help the lady immensely to prepare for your appointment, so she can be at her very best for you. Because if it is quite important for you and the female isn't used to them or decides to dress up a different way without knowing your preference, you could unintentionally set yourself up for a minor disappointment.