Establishing a relationship with an SP makes for a better session

[Experienced1]

So last year i think i had 4 hh sessions with different sp's , i wanted to hobby more often but i was being patient with my SO and seeing if she would come around in regards to sex.

Needless to say she has not come around and sex is not a priority for her , and oral sex is a choir for her !!! lol ( NO enthusiasm no motivation on her part )

I dont have time or patients for online dating and no time for a girlfriend.

So Saturday night i had a huge urge for some good fun, my first mistake was trying to see a SP for the first time on a saturday nite after 7pm at the last minute without confirming during the day or the day before.

I actually did confirm with one SP to go and see her in T.O sat nite but she took the night off and never replied to my text. ( first time seeing her )

to make a long story short i texted 3 others i found on BP, 2 said would you like to confirm i said yes , and they never responded back, and the last one said she wasnt really working tonite even though her ad is up. lol

i Ended up just going home cause my phone died.
( and i didn't have my charger on me )

My point is having a regular SP will gaurantee you getting an APPOINTMENT for sure, if an SP gets a call on a sat nite from a Joe Blow and a regualar customer for a session they will accomodate the regular client everytime. This aint Rocket Science.

Lets face it we waist SP's time , and SP's waiste our time on alot of occasions for whatever reason. Especially when have never met the other person.

Instead of surfing SP's i think the relationship way is the best way for quality, time management . Having a regular means you know you will get laid with no first timer tension.

Way back in the day i had a relationship with an MP but stopped going to see her when she became to complacent and she talked more than she performed !! lol !! And on my last session with her , her phone rang and she had a full out arument with some guy on my time !!! lol

Sex is better when its relaxed and the other person knows you., and when you call them you know you can get an appointment and not bumped !!! ( and you dont waste your valuable time )

Regular sex is better than first timer sex.!!!

 

[Rank5]

I never seen the same SP twice....

But I am inclined to agree with you. Hoping to find a regular this year...

 

[Lily Divine]

It can make for a better time, and other times you will find nothing ever lives up to that first incredible encounter. Variety can be the spice of life, but maybe the problem is a hh appointment is not always given priority by women.

I find it interesting that you cut ties with a MP for those reasons. It is a two way street when it comes to this at times... I've cut ties with gentlemen for similar, or worse because familiarity breeds contempt (they get rough or aggressive). Please don't get me wrong. I have had the pleasure of ongoing liaisons with most of those whom I see. It is only a few I have had to stop visiting with.

 

[Lily Divine]

Familiarity does bring contempt. I strongly prefer repeating with a handful or even 1 or 2 whom have proven to be exceptional. I also feel that being fully honest with one another about everything is so much of a stress relief. Having someone able to listen to you without judgement but still being able to give you meaningful feedback is so much for fulfilling and in my mind when it works well is the epitome of chemistry.

Aside from booking which is much easier to do I place a high premium and value on having a sounding board with genuine and thoughtful conversations. It also opens the door to unfiltered witty banter especially when two people share the same type of humour and values.

This is the experience I typically enjoy. It truly makes my play time more enjoyable as well. There is nothing like having an intimate relationship with someone where there is complete honesty, and no expectations beyond the time you are able to spend together.

 

[Titalian]

So last year i think i had 4 hh sessions with different sp's , i wanted to hobby more often but i was being patient with my SO and seeing if she would come around in regards to sex.

Needless to say she has not come around and sex is not a priority for her , and oral sex is a choir for her !!! lol ( NO enthusiasm no motivation on her part )

I dont have time or patients for online dating and no time for a girlfriend.

So Saturday night i had a huge urge for some good fun, my first mistake was trying to see a SP for the first time on a saturday nite after 7pm at the last minute without confirming during the day or the day before.

I actually did confirm with one SP to go and see her in T.O sat nite but she took the night off and never replied to my text. ( first time seeing her )

to make a long story short i texted 3 others i found on BP, 2 said would you like to confirm i said yes , and they never responded back, and the last one said she wasnt really working tonite even though her ad is up. lol

i Ended up just going home cause my phone died.
( and i didn't have my charger on me )

My point is having a regular SP will gaurantee you getting an APPOINTMENT for sure, if an SP gets a call on a sat nite from a Joe Blow and a regualar customer for a session they will accomodate the regular client everytime. This aint Rocket Science.

Lets face it we waist SP's time , and SP's waiste our time on alot of occasions for whatever reason. Especially when have never met the other person.

Instead of surfing SP's i think the relationship way is the best way for quality, time management . Having a regular means you know you will get laid with no first timer tension.

Way back in the day i had a relationship with an MP but stopped going to see her when she became to complacent and she talked more than she performed !! lol !! And on my last session with her , her phone rang and she had a full out arument with some guy on my time !!! lol

Sex is better when its relaxed and the other person knows you., and when you call them you know you can get an appointment and not bumped !!! ( and you dont waste your valuable time )

Regular sex is better than first timer sex.!!!

What a post, and so true. Thank you for this. I always hear it from my regulars, about "the time wasters" who think this is a joke.
Well its not. Its actually extremely disrespectful and says much about the character of the clients who do this, unless the cancellation, is truly legitimate.
Bottom line, if your going to make an appointment, keep it! Or at the very least, let her know that there might be some issues with timing.
Don't do it on a whim or a thought be serious about meeting her. When this is done regularly, She will respect you more, than your expectations with her could go through the roof .
And yes you will get priority, when booking again !!! As the OP said, this is not rocket science.

 

[LiveInTorontoPartyInMontreal]

I totally agree with the OP, but my dilemma is who do you book ?
Do you just book in rotation to keep up the PR ?

 

[jcpro]

So last year i think i had 4 hh sessions with different sp's , i wanted to hobby more often but i was being patient with my SO and seeing if she would come around in regards to sex.

Needless to say she has not come around and sex is not a priority for her , and oral sex is a choir for her !!! lol ( NO enthusiasm no motivation on her part )

I dont have time or patients for online dating and no time for a girlfriend.

So Saturday night i had a huge urge for some good fun, my first mistake was trying to see a SP for the first time on a saturday nite after 7pm at the last minute without confirming during the day or the day before.

I actually did confirm with one SP to go and see her in T.O sat nite but she took the night off and never replied to my text. ( first time seeing her )

to make a long story short i texted 3 others i found on BP, 2 said would you like to confirm i said yes , and they never responded back, and the last one said she wasnt really working tonite even though her ad is up. lol

i Ended up just going home cause my phone died.
( and i didn't have my charger on me )

My point is having a regular SP will gaurantee you getting an APPOINTMENT for sure, if an SP gets a call on a sat nite from a Joe Blow and a regualar customer for a session they will accomodate the regular client everytime. This aint Rocket Science.

Lets face it we waist SP's time , and SP's waiste our time on alot of occasions for whatever reason. Especially when have never met the other person.

Instead of surfing SP's i think the relationship way is the best way for quality, time management . Having a regular means you know you will get laid with no first timer tension.

Way back in the day i had a relationship with an MP but stopped going to see her when she became to complacent and she talked more than she performed !! lol !! And on my last session with her , her phone rang and she had a full out arument with some guy on my time !!! lol

Sex is better when its relaxed and the other person knows you., and when you call them you know you can get an appointment and not bumped !!! ( and you dont waste your valuable time )

Regular sex is better than first timer sex.!!!

Duh! You should have at least two comfortable regulars. They are very hard to find because lots of SPs disappear, others are too busy/popular, etc.

 

[Toke]

I agree with the benefits of being/having a regular, however, I've sometimes seen the experience lessen as some SPs take the 'relationship' for granted. But I'd still prefer 1 or 2 regs.

 

[bazokajoe]

Lots of truth to this thread. A now retired SP used to be a regular of mine.We stay in touch with each other and get together once and awhile.It's so nice to see someone without first time pressure and the comfort of knowing each other. We always have a great time together and truly enjoy each others company.

 

[Luton]

I have always enjoyed having one or two regulars but I also agree that often an SP will take your relationship for granted in that situation.

 

[nobody123]

and oral sex is a choir for her !!!

Does that mean she hums during bj's? You have some nerve complainin'!

 

[Experienced1]

Fuckin spell check !! Lol

Chores

 

[scouser1]

Unless I'm in a relationship with a woman I've found I have no desire to have sex with her more than 3 times, civilian or pro.

 

[legmann]

Establishing a relationship with an SP makes for a better session

Not a hard and fast rule by any stretch. I've had numerous first-time and single encounters with a number of SPs that were incredible.

other times you will find nothing ever lives up to that first incredible encounter.

True, in some cases. (As above)

Familiarity does bring contempt.

Certainly can happen; not so much 'contempt' but a move into territory whereby the encounter either becomes overly-predictable or your familiarity with the other person (for whatever reason) begins to take away from your enjoyment of the physical. Sometimes though (as others have documented), a provider you have seen many times might begin to take you for granted or at least stop putting in the effort to make every meet enjoyable.

That said, while I love variety and the excitement of trying someone new, I do have two regulars that I enjoy being able to text at whatever hour for a no-surprises encounter. For the most part, the 'familiarity' only helps and makes each time a great one. When that ceases to occur, it is either time to move one or at least take a long break away from each other.

 

[MadonnaLove]

Yes having an intimate relationship with a client that you like brightens your day when they call again. So treat her well and I'm sure most would fit you in their schedule.

 

[oil&gas]

Unless I'm in a relationship with a woman I've found I have no desire to have sex with her more than 3 times, civilian or pro.

This makes me wonder about the reliability of survey reports of
couples in their 20s to 30s doing it no less than 3 times a week.

 

[IRIS]

I'm more comfortable and open-minded with my regular clients. As I told the second or third session is better usually.