The vaginal orgasm doesn't exist - it's the clitoris that holds the key

[cdnsimon]

now THAT'S trolling! you completely ignored both my giving you the benefit of the doubt, and my valuable information....(you're welcome btw)... and cut straight to the defensive.

Seriously? You come on an forum about sex ask what a clitoris is and expect people not to think you're trolling? That's like asking what the reel is for on a fishing chat forum.

One could also have assumed you were too young to be here, if that's the case you should log off immediately.

Serenity now! *insert George Costanza accent here*

Giving someone a compliment in the same sentence that you insult them (a backhanded compliment http://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/_/dict.aspx?rd=1&word=a+back-handed+compliment ) - is not something I'll thank you for giving. You needn't concern yourself at all with my participation on this forum. If a moderator or Fred has something they wish to raise with me, I'm sure they can do so on their own volition.

No need to be so sensitive. Pun intended.

:rofl:

 

[lomotil]

I sort of agree with this, but with some reservations, I believe every part of a woman's body is erogenous.

If a woman is comfortable with you and you know what your doing,
Kissing the side of her neck up near her ear and gently massaging and softly kissing her breast,
teasing and just glassing over her nipples with your mouth as well as her lower abdomen and her inner thighs.
By the time you get to her most sacred area, there have been so many signals sent from her body, to her most erogenous zone,
that she will be ready for the big one. and when you do get there, keep teasing her softly, let her ride the edge.
She will love you for it or at least admire you.

A woman's body to orgasm, is a journey, gentlemen JMT !

This works well during the initial infatuation phase but soon becomes deja vu. She might fake it for $ome good coin for a time though.

 

[JoeyJames]

I agree with all the BS calls. All of our non-clitoral orgasms could not have been imagined. Although nice, steamy reads, all of these recipes for female orgasm (which the original article sort of is too) are malarky too though! There's no one way to do it! For example, if whomever mentioned cervical attention tried that on me, I'd be swatting him away after a few minutes. Ouch (the rest of your ideas sounded lovely, btw). But then whatever works one day, might not another.

The real myth, imho, is that women are the only complicated creatures & that one day we'll find the magic formula to make everyone cum. Sometimes you men are complicated too! You're not all the same, and we need to read you like you read us! Then there's this whole idea that more and more men are having trouble climaxing these days because of desensitization, blah blah... I've met a number of clients over the years who suffered from various forms of what has been dubbed sexual dysfunction as well... I'm rambling. Most of us on this board are lucky and experienced enough to realize that sex is an awesome game with a million ways for everyone to win, and the fun part is finding new ways with and for new people. I think those sad scientists should give it a rest.

 

[Titalian]

I agree with all the BS calls. All of our non-clitoral orgasms could not have been imagined. Although nice, steamy reads, all of these recipes for female orgasm (which the original article sort of is too) are malarky too though! There's no one way to do it! For example, if whomever mentioned cervical attention tried that on me, I'd be swatting him away after a few minutes. Ouch (the rest of your ideas sounded lovely, btw). But then whatever works one day, might not another.

The real myth, imho, is that women are the only complicated creatures & that one day we'll find the magic formula to make everyone cum. Sometimes you men are complicated too! You're not all the same, and we need to read you like you read us! Then there's this whole idea that more and more men are having trouble climaxing these days because of desensitization, blah blah... I've met a number of clients over the years who suffered from various forms of what has been dubbed sexual dysfunction as well... I'm rambling. Most of us on this board are lucky and experienced enough to realize that sex is an awesome game with a million ways for everyone to win, and the fun part is finding new ways with and for new people. I think those sad scientists should give it a rest.

In the hobbying world us men are also under the gun, meaning time wise, and on initial first time visits, not really knowing the sp, doesn't help either.
I've been seeing this certain sp for 2 years now, and she knows exactly what to do with me, how I like it and how to get me off in the allotted time.
Your right though it isn't an exact science. There are a lot of variables.

 

[JoeyJames]

In the hobbying world us men are also under the gun, meaning time wise, and on initial first time visits, not really knowing the sp, doesn't help either.
I've been seeing this certain sp for 2 years now, and she knows exactly what to do with me, how I like it and how to get me off in the allotted time.
Your right though it isn't an exact science. There are a lot of variables.

No doubt you are, and I don't deny that you men probably have the harder job figuring us out! First visits and new people can be a lot of fun, but there's a lot to be said for knowing what makes someone tick, eh? I don't know if it's the same for men and women or not & won't pretend to, but there have been a few times here and there where I've seen men who never finished, and it was absolutely crushing. Of course, all said that they had a problem on their end and that it wasn't abnormal for them not to finish, and for all but one, I can assume this is true, as they became regulars, and the problem disappeared as we got to know each other. My point being, I know that for some men the female orgasm is super important, and I know that for me it's practically unbearable if I feel like I haven't done my job, so to speak. It would be so easy if there were fewer variables or a recipe, but probably not so much fun.

 

[Titalian]

No doubt you are, and I don't deny that you men probably have the harder job figuring us out! First visits and new people can be a lot of fun, but there's a lot to be said for knowing what makes someone tick, eh? I don't know if it's the same for men and women or not & won't pretend to, but there have been a few times here and there where I've seen men who never finished, and it was absolutely crushing. Of course, all said that they had a problem on their end and that it wasn't abnormal for them not to finish, and for all but one, I can assume this is true, as they became regulars, and the problem disappeared as we got to know each other. My point being, I know that for some men the female orgasm is super important, and I know that for me it's practically unbearable if I feel like I haven't done my job, so to speak. It would be so easy if there were fewer variables or a recipe, but probably not so much fun.

Oh Btw, I realize that my short essay up top, was a little over done. I believe I was fantasizing, But I truly remember and enjoyed those times.

 

[JoeyJames]

Oh Btw, I realize that my short essay up top, was a little over done. I believe I was fantasizing, But I truly remember and enjoyed those times.

Oh, it led me to a little fantasizing too ;P Lol! Plus, maybe it helped some people learn some things....? Never bad things, either of those.

 

[Laird]

Who cares? You go to an sp to fuck her. For that one hour she is your property. As long as you cum, that's all that matters.

Don't tell me you think you are going to make her orgasm haha. No matter how big or small your dick is, she is wishing she was dead for that one hour of her life.

 

[Evangeline Grace]

Well I don't need a study, because I am a woman and I don't often have a clitoral orgasm unless I am masturbating with a vibrator.... I do however have orgasms that make me gush like a fountain and can soak down the bed through a bunch of towels and everything. It doesn't happen all the time, and I cannot control it, but it certainly does happen. I have also had the orgasmic contractions by having my partner use a large sex toy on me, so this report is a crock lol. I think us ladies know what happens with our own bodies.

I study Tantra and the body has more than one type of orgasm, for both men and women.

 

[Lily Divine]

Who cares? You go to an sp to fuck her. For that one hour she is your property. As long as you cum, that's all that matters.

Don't tell me you think you are going to make her orgasm haha. No matter how big or small your dick is, she is wishing she was dead for that one hour of her life.

I am torn between feeling disgust that you think so little of SP's and feeling sorry for you because you think so little of yourself and any men who hobby!

 

[foxxxy lady]

I am torn between feeling disgust that you think so little of SP's and feeling sorry for you because you think so little of yourself and any men who hobby!

Lily , I tend to agree with you I think he needs a sex lesson and when he is able to make a women cum he may not be so delusional. Maybe he was brought up that way to think women don't like sex, It's not his fault.

 

[Lily Divine]

Lily , I tend to agree with you I think he needs a sex lesson and when he is able to make a women cum he may not be so delusional. Maybe he was brought up that way to think women don't like sex, It's not his fault.

Amber I think you and I could teach him a thing or two! If we did it together I would finally get to meet you (instead of being in the next room over or one floor away!).

 

[Evangeline Grace]

Who cares? You go to an sp to fuck her. For that one hour she is your property. As long as you cum, that's all that matters.

Don't tell me you think you are going to make her orgasm haha. No matter how big or small your dick is, she is wishing she was dead for that one hour of her life.

I have had really awesome times with clients, and even had some make me squirt, no problem!!

 

[Ridgeman08]

Who cares? You go to an sp to fuck her. For that one hour she is your property. As long as you cum, that's all that matters.

Don't tell me you think you are going to make her orgasm haha. No matter how big or small your dick is, she is wishing she was dead for that one hour of her life.

You and I sir, have diametrically opposed views on what makes for great sex!

If all you need is a release? Seriously, take care of yourself boy.

 

[foxxxy lady]

Amber I think you and I could teach him a thing or two! If we did it together I would finally get to meet you (instead of being in the next room over or one floor away!).

I would love that and if he isn't onto it i would still love to do a duo with you

xo amber

 

[Butler1000]

Who cares? You go to an sp to fuck her. For that one hour she is your property. As long as you cum, that's all that matters.

Don't tell me you think you are going to make her orgasm haha. No matter how big or small your dick is, she is wishing she was dead for that one hour of her life.

The only reason I can see him reaching this conclusion is the number of women who have told him they wish they were dead after having had sex with him......

 

[thumper18474]

I would love that and if he isn't onto it i would still love to do a duo with you

xo amber

AHEM...HELLOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!:thumb:

 

[CharleyYaYa]

Eznutz,

Trust me, they can cum.

I haven't been with a ton of girls, but I've been able to make every one ejaculate.

It's so intense for them that they sometimes almost pass out, are totally exhausted at the
end while at the same time being in shock because they are amazed at the stream of liquid
that flies out of them.

It's so intense that I've had some cry from the pleasure.

Weird but true.

And let's get this out of the way, it's not urine! It's a fluid released by the Bartholin glands.

Learn it and apply.

The rewards are immense.

 

[GameBoy27]

And let's get this out of the way, it's not urine! It's a fluid released by the Bartholin glands.

So these are the source of the copious amounts of fluid released when a girl squirts?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bartholin's_gland

I just wish as part of the research into trying to determine the source of the fluid, they'd measure the amount of urine in the bladder before and after a squirting along with the amount of fluid released. I can't find any study using this method which seems strange to me. It would certainly determine once and for all if it was urine or not.

 

[CharleyYaYa]

Hey GB27,

Well, research or not, it doesn't look smell like urine and it doesn't taste like urine... ;-)