Taking an SP On A Trip
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I've had a few sleepovers at my place. They are quite fun with the right lady: cooking up a storm together while bbqing, glasses of wine, showers, oil massages, spooning naked after sex; breakfast, then another round Having one with an Asian lady this coming weekend. Have seen her at an incall location frequently and have mentioned overnites at my place to which she responded that she wanted to come to my place...so now that my wife is out of the country for a bit, it's going to be BBQ rib steaks and dessert on the weekendNo I read your post and I think you get it
The only experience I haven't tried is bringing an sp over to play house. It's definitely a crazy fantasy I have but one I'd never risk.
Nope. 60 acres rural property. Very well treed too. Totally private! Never close blinds,no locking car nor house doors
Depending on what might amuse the sp, I have during past guest visits done forest hikes, atv rides, a bit of horseback riding, or runs on the Harley. Also taken a half day for swims and paddles at Bon echo park......I should be being paid for all the entertainment I'm throwing in! The only thing I'm actually really missing is a hot tub, pool, and sauna..other than that these occasions have always worked out well, and I've posted I think, at least three or 4 reviews of them here over the years.its all good....well, It's all been totally fucking awesome to be honest
Yup. To date..only one... Hey bring a gal, a few steaks. I've got plenty of bedrooms...we can switch em up. My gal will be costing me $1200.00 from 7pm til noon the next day...but she's already asking if she can come at high noon rather than early evening...for the same rate. Unfortunately I'm going to be tied up most of the afternoon with business....dang
In the past, I've discreetly posted threads in the outcall section here, asking if anybody knows of any sp willing to travel to my area, all expenses paid for an overnite or weekend visit. I would usually have three or four Pm's in my inbox from ladies in no time
Fortunately, at present I'm on great terms with a lady who manages an Asian incall service, so I'm kind of a preferred customer, thus not anticipating any issues, should the new bill pass. I've been a steady client for several years now,
I think you hit the nail on the head when you said there are as many variations as there are couples doing this, really you have to find what you are comfortable with and see if it works with the lady you want to see. The most important part of the arrangement is communication, it's important that you discuss the details of the trip with the lady you will be travelling with and ensure that she has similar expectations as you.
From my own experience I find that I can gauge our compatibility for travel while making arrangements fairly well but I've done this a few times now and like anything the more you do something the more comfortable you become doing it. I don't mind travelling with a stranger, we don't generally have to meet in advance to have an enjoyable weekend away, but I will insist that we plan our visit together with a few emails. The process will let me know expectations, decision making and conflict resolution (which will happen).
I can also assess communication styles, for me that's something that is very important on an extended date, you want to be sure that you are a match. The difference between shorter dates, not sure what your usual date is but for example a dinner date of 4hrs and a 48hr date, is that in 4hrs it's very easy to be on your best behaviour, to be "the person your dog thinks you are."
When it's just 4hrs I can smile, make small talk, direct conversation away from topics that I choose not to speak on and never have an upset stomach, headache or injury. When we are spending two full days together you are going to know if we go out for dinner and something didn't agree with me, if perhaps we had too much wine the night before and I wake up with a bit of a headache, or if we go for a hike and I should cut myself in the bushes you just might see me cry. I am a real person over those two days, some people love that connection, the fact that it's more intimate and 'real' but others do not.
As for the details like 'how much sex?' and 'what services are included?', honestly if you are concerned about things like this I am never sure that a weekend away is something someone should be seeking. It's not about that but more about the experience as a whole, in general these dates have a more natural flow. Sometimes you will find that just like in a new relationship you will not end up leaving the room, it's 'bunny time' but sometimes you find that because of plans you've made or perhaps because of your previous history with the companion you brought you will have less physical interaction but a lot of outside activities (scuba, snowboarding, diving, etc.) and then more of a romantic coupling at night/morning. It's all quite unique and hard to predict in advance without knowing who you are with and the dynamic between the two of you.
I got this offer a few times, because they knew I like go to the Caribbean area, but I refused that always. I asked them: Why you want to bring more fish to the ocean?? Go with your friend and lots of nice girls just waiting for you, and you can fuck them all day for a small amount. Am I right?
Yes. I know lots of guys that go to those poor countries and bang pretty locals all week for a box of Playtex.I got this offer a few times, because they knew I like go to the Caribbean area, but I refused that always. I asked them: Why you want to bring more fish to the ocean?? Go with your friend and lots of nice girls just waiting for you, and you can fuck them all day for a small amount. Am I right?
Maybe some do. I bought a house for a pretty mexican girl who treated me very nice.
I said that tongue-in-cheek (IOW, with the remoteness of your abode and privacy, you can have a few ladies over lol).
A box of Playtex?
You're exaggerating (unless you're speaking of some poor African country).
You can have the company of an astounding lady in Havana from 60 CUC and up (the finer ones ask 100 or more). In some cases, a guy can haggle for less than 60 for an evening, but why be so cheap? I've been more than 100 CUC generous with ladies that I have a connection with and who I repeat. I even sent left-over money to a sweet gal via a Terbite visiting friends in Havana.
I go to Havana and am lucky to meet the right GFE gal that I enjoy spending time with. I'm too old just for wham bam thank you ma'am lol. In some cases, I was glad after they left my room. In other cases, I tipped them to stop bothering me ("tranquillo Senorita"). The girls there do not advertise, there are no review boards, so you are playing Russian roulette if you haven't properly screened them at a club, but sometimes that's not a guarantee.I got this offer a few times, because they knew I like go to the Caribbean area, but I refused that always. I asked them: Why you want to bring more fish to the ocean?? Go with your friend and lots of nice girls just waiting for you, and you can fuck them all day for a small amount. Am I right?
So there's something to be said about going with a fine lady that you click with from Canada or wherever home is, to an all-inclusive resort and spend quality time with.
For the ladies, it is a fun trip! It's not just about sex when it's an extended stay. Good for you.
Totally erroneous, and that philosophy begins undercutting the escorts' business and ends with clients not getting served. The comment itself has the resonance of the "all working women care about is money" idea, painting this as a bad option for anybody seeking authenticity here. Tsk tsk!voidphase said:
...and I'd like to go on to say that SPs are individuals who often arrange trips on individual bases. There appears to be much more leeway with respect to how these arrangements are formed so, unfortunately, you may have to use your intuition here. No one else is going to have the perspective you do about how you, the individual, meet session by session with your SP, the other individual in this equation.
Ask yourself this question. If one of your clients (of whatever business you are in) whose company you enjoyed invited you on a trip, but you were expected to perform your professional services for much of the trip (be they legal, accounting, consulting, or whatever it is that you do), what fee would you set?
If you're an attorney and a client offered to take you to the Caribbean all expenses paid, but you'd be expected to spend a few hours each day reviewing contracts, attending meetings drafting letters, etc. for no extra fee, or for a greatly reduced fee, would you do it? If not does that mean you don't care about the client?
If you're an attorney and a client offered to take you to the Caribbean all expenses paid, but you'd be expected to spend a few hours each day reviewing contracts, attending meetings drafting letters, etc. for no extra fee, or for a greatly reduced fee, would you do it? If not does that mean you don't care about the client?
