do Sp's ever feel lonely?
- Thread starter asterwald
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I imagine they might feel lonely during the time outside of
the social appointments booked with their favourite SPs.
A retired SP once told me that the job could be incredibly lonely. Imagine being sharing the ultimate physical intimacy, fawned over by men all day and told how much they adore and love you...yet you spend each evening home and alone.
A contrast of extremes.
A contrast of extremes.
Sorry to wake you up, But Us male hobbyist's are not immune from what you are describing.....
I can only speak from my own experience... as an SP yes definitely as I do not have the acquaintance of other SPs... IMHO not necessarily a bad thing. the upside of being an SP is that you learn to read people and, in my case, I've become very selective to whom I let close (network=networth) in my civilian life; I interpret being lonely different from the feeling of loneliness. I provide companionship and I aim at creating a connection complementary to the sexual experience yet I find it that by creating an image and a 'brand' version of yourself, like any job, constantly researching, leads to loneliness.
I'm never really lonely since I started sorrounding myself with the right people and getting in touch with other SP's but it is really frustrating having to answer the "what do you do for a living" question when meeting new people. Of course I have a cover, but I hate lying. I have to be careful who I associate with though, because even the people who claim to be open minded and say things like "I would do what you do if I could" eventually show their true colors and describe sex work as vile and repulsive. A lot of people look down on it and have a bunch of negative opinions and labels they'd like to share with me, but I leave those people in the dust. I don't really have time to deal with people's hang up's. Either they like me or they don't. If what I do for a living makes me less of a person to those poeple, I'm better off not knowing them.
It's kinda like being a spy, in one aspect of your life you try to be your optimal self while not letting any of your personal life show, and then in your personal life you often have to hide or mask aspects of your work life. It can be lonely if you do not have a good support system in place. I am fortunate to have both SPs and civilians that I can talk to about both aspects of my life simultaneously, I can not imagine not having that.
I enjoy meeting new people and fuckig them, I guess im sexual alien from another panet.
+10000 everyone gets hungry, angry,lonley and tierd. it is not looking through each other, it is seeing each other through, thanks bazokajoe for your intelligent and humane reply
xo amber
