You may be the only one who was a friend of her husband, and if he ever finds out and flips his lid he may single you out as being the one guy he can actually get back at. His perspective is likely going to be significantly more emotional and less objective than yours. You were supposed to be his friend after all.
Friends wife is an sp wtf???
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Why so judgemental? How many of you (us); are doing the dirty on our SOs with all these beautiful women?
I think there's a certain 'degree' of friend here to consider.
Is this a lifetime buddy that the OP would take a bullet for or someone that he has a more short term casual relationship with?
If the former I would admit it would be tough to do. But if it were the latter, then its different IMO.
There's a lot of hot MILFs in my neighborhood and I know their husbands and if I could discretely bang some of the wives I probably would. But one of my best friend's wives. No way. Even if she came on to me.
I don't think the OP is in the wrong here. But then again, who am I to judge?
CB
I think there's a certain 'degree' of friend here to consider.
Is this a lifetime buddy that the OP would take a bullet for or someone that he has a more short term casual relationship with?
If the former I would admit it would be tough to do. But if it were the latter, then its different IMO.
There's a lot of hot MILFs in my neighborhood and I know their husbands and if I could discretely bang some of the wives I probably would. But one of my best friend's wives. No way. Even if she came on to me.
I don't think the OP is in the wrong here. But then again, who am I to judge?
CB
I haven't used the word "wrong" either, I am just predicting a fairly unpleasant outcome if the husband finds out his friend paid his wife for sex. Unlike the anonymous strangers that presumably are her other clients I would expect him to take action against his "friend".Why so judgemental? How many of you (us); are doing the dirty on our SOs with all these beautiful women?
I think there's a certain 'degree' of friend here to consider.
Is this a lifetime buddy that the OP would take a bullet for or someone that he has a more short term casual relationship with?
If the former I would admit it would be tough to do. But if it were the latter, then its different IMO.
There's a lot of hot MILFs in my neighborhood and I know their husbands and if I could discretely bang them I probably would. But one of my best friend's wives. No way. Even if she came on to me.
I don't think the OP is in the wrong here. But then again, who am I to judge?
CB
Whether that is an angry phone call, a very public outing, a punch in the face, or a determined campaign for vengeance will really depend on whether the guy stays cool or flips out irrationally when he finds out.
It is like walking up to someone, spitting in their face, and being surprised when they react, to me.
It is a short term casual friend.Would I do my best friends wife?--NO.My original question was should I do an overnight with her? It was her suggestionWhy so judgemental? How many of you (us); are doing the dirty on our SOs with all these beautiful women?
I think there's a certain 'degree' of friend here to consider.
Is this a lifetime buddy that the OP would take a bullet for or someone that he has a more short term casual relationship with?
If the former I would admit it would be tough to do. But if it were the latter, then its different IMO.
There's a lot of hot MILFs in my neighborhood and I know their husbands and if I could discretely bang some of the wives I probably would. But one of my best friend's wives. No way. Even if she came on to me.
I don't think the OP is in the wrong here. But then again, who am I to judge?
CB
Perhaps we should give the OP the benefit of the doubt as he knows her and her disposition.
Maybe he's confidant that she won't blow it.
However, as I said, it is riskier, therefore, your comments shouldn't be dismissed outright.
Maybe he's confidant that she won't blow it.
However, as I said, it is riskier, therefore, your comments shouldn't be dismissed outright.
Maybe you have never been in a relationship that broke down. Not everyone brings Spock logic to a shouting match. And not everyone keeps cool headed when they are drunk. And some people get a guilty desire to confess everything.
If she is really doing this I would wager there is a reasonable chance that she is hoping to get caught. Maybe not consciously, but at some level she may be bottling up a lot of angst about the relationship and hoping for a big cathartic blowout. In that case she may gleefully spill everything to create the biggest possible train wreck. I have seen people act directly against their own interests when relationships flame out, either out of unmitigated spite or out of a delusional belief that telling all will fix it.
Anyway, whatever happens is no longer up to dominator, his quality of life going forward is now subject to the arc of an obviously troubled marriage.
That's a tough one. Again, I'm assuming that the guy isn't a close buddy.
The initial meeting happened, she was there, you were horny, she was horny. I would have probably had a hard time saying no to her and kicking her out.
However, once you cum and the fog lifts and she's not there, it would be easier to say no and NOT book the overnight. Just don't make the call.
However, if she suggested it and she's cool with it......and if she were to call you......I don't know...tough call.
CB
The initial meeting happened, she was there, you were horny, she was horny. I would have probably had a hard time saying no to her and kicking her out.
However, once you cum and the fog lifts and she's not there, it would be easier to say no and NOT book the overnight. Just don't make the call.
However, if she suggested it and she's cool with it......and if she were to call you......I don't know...tough call.
CB
I wouldn't do an overnight because more time with her is riskier for a provider whose association is already risky to begin with.It is a short term casual friend.Would I do my best friends wife?--NO.My original question was should I do an overnight with her? It was her suggestion
However, a discreet wham bam thank you ma'am session is repeatable.
Overnights are certainly a cash cow for the SP - not to mention safer.
Might be a pragmatic suggestion for her rather then anything else - the devil you know - so to speak...
If your flush and into it - harm [if any] has already been done.
Might be a pragmatic suggestion for her rather then anything else - the devil you know - so to speak...
If your flush and into it - harm [if any] has already been done.
Agreed. Post the link. Make your story seem more legit.First it would be No risk to her that you give us link to who this is on Backpage....... since we don't know her or her husband. Just to make this tale a little more believable.
>>> 2) THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT...... will this fall into the zone of mutual attraction & thus soon an affair??? Ya see she WANTED an overnight. I gather since you know each other prior on a social level you guys are FRINDS. Soooooo if there is mutual physical & personal-friends ATTRACTION ...... that this will slip into an affair regardless of money involved.
>>>>3) If there is only attraction on your part then you will get into a mess & hurt. THIS IS VERY DIFFERENT than seeing an s.p. in a normal circumstance BECAUSE you 2 have had & likely will have non business social time together. I am FEELING in any scenario you are heading into a messy situation
I live in a different province. I am only here for a short visit.I said I would post link when I leave next week although I have given it to a few Terbites who PMed me. I usually come back only once or twice a year so a full on affair is not possible.Agreed. Post the link. Make your story seem more legit.
Agreed. Post the link. Make your story seem more legit.
I live in a different province. I am only here for a short visit.I said I would post link when I leave next week although I have given it to a few Terbites who PMed me. I usually come back only once or twice a year so a full on affair is not possible.
Dominator, I would just PM the link. You never know if a friend is lurking (probably not but just in case), although that ad is pretty discreet.
it is discreet.GPIDEAL is one I did send link too. Just did not want her dealing with a lot of Terbites at onceDominator, I would just PM the link. You never know if a friend is lurking (probably not but just in case), although that ad is pretty discreet.
Not sure why discretion is an issue. She's openly posting on BP, so she wants clients. What's the reasoning for restricting her potential business?it is discreet.GPIDEAL is one I did send link too. Just did not want her dealing with a lot of Terbites at once
