Friends wife is an sp wtf???

[Mr. Piggy]

I read through all 6 pages of this god damn thread... Still no fucking link to this woman..

We don't think we will get one either.

 

[Insidious Von]

Turtle turds.

Let's assume that the husband doesn't know. It would only better a matter of time. Then he would hunt the OP down and hang his balls from his rear view mirror.

Cuckolding and Penthouse Forum (does it still exist) don't mix.

 

[dominator]

I did send link to the guys who Pm me. Some people on here are dragging me through shit but in the mean while they are on TERB which I am sure their SO has no idea about. I am a single guy who does not have time for relationships nor do I want to put an effort into either. I make a very good living and like some company time to time.It just so happened that my friends wife was an sp. I believe it would be up to her to tell him what she does and not me.

 

[dominator]

I was only asking for advice ---- do not need critics or give a flying F what your opinion is of the situation[/QUITE


If you don't give a flying F about my opinion then why comment about it ? Here's some advice if your so concerned about your '' friend'' why would you go thru with the initial appt on the first place then have her stay several more hours and why consider am overnite with her if your such a good friend ? Here's the advice be a better friend ! Unless of course this is just a made up situation them the advice would be try to be a better friend to yourself . I think may have touched a nerve ? It makes no sense think about it ! Bbd

First off spell check is your friend--use it. I never said nor mentioned he was a good friend. We all have good friends,friends and people we know. Went through with initial appointment because she was hot. I was hesitant on overnight because friends do talk to friends and I am not sure how many guys I personally know have used her services.Not something usually brought up in my crowd

 

[dominator]

Hopefully things stay cool with your friends. I'll be honest you've lived through one of my fantasies.

Done something similar with a civilian. I let it fade out because she's far away but no one ever knew and it was a hella lotta fun!! And she and I and her hubby are still friends.

Is it wrong? Probably but as Dominator said, were on terb. It's all not good frankly. But we do it anyway

Exactly!

 

[peter4025]

I did send link to the guys who Pm me. Some people on here are dragging me through shit but in the mean while they are on TERB which I am sure their SO has no idea about. I am a single guy who does not have time for relationships nor do I want to put an effort into either. I make a very good living and like some company time to time.It just so happened that my friends wife was an sp. I believe it would be up to her to tell him what she does and not me.

I agree with you. You are both adults so keep seeing her.

 

[Mr. Piggy]

I did send link to the guys who Pm me. Some people on here are dragging me through shit but in the mean while they are on TERB which I am sure their SO has no idea about. I am a single guy who does not have time for relationships nor do I want to put an effort into either. I make a very good living and like some company time to time.It just so happened that my friends wife was an sp. I believe it would be up to her to tell him what she does and not me.

I don't think you did anything wrong. You hired an escort that turned out to be your friends wife and you didn't know that beforehand. I would have gone through with it as well. The only way I would ever call it off if I knew the escort, is if she was a blood relative or related by marriage.

 

[fuji]

I did send link to the guys who Pm me. Some people on here are dragging me through shit but in the mean while they are on TERB which I am sure their SO has no idea about. I am a single guy who does not have time for relationships nor do I want to put an effort into either. I make a very good living and like some company time to time.It just so happened that my friends wife was an sp. I believe it would be up to her to tell him what she does and not me.

And you think this is going to go well for you when she tells him?

 

[dominator]

I don't think you did anything wrong. You hired an escort that turned out to be your friends wife and you didn't know that beforehand. I would have gone through with it as well. The only way I would ever call it off if I knew the escort, is if she was a blood relative or related by marriage.

I agree with this!

 

[GPIDEAL]

And you think this is going to go well for you when she tells him?

Why would she do this?

Why would she destroy a source of income too?

 

[dominator]

And you think this is going to go well for you when she tells him?

Please explain to me why this would happen? Do you not think she would like to keep that part of her life private?

 

[dominator]

Yes spell check is my friend but auto on my phone is not let's just say my smart phone is not so smart sometimes . You wear many hats I see ...the terb spelling and grammar police as well as well as other desirable qualities . Not all of us were born in this country and for some of us Englih is a second language , thanks for the spelling lesson . Oh just a heads up you might find some more mistakes Im on my phone again I make a practice of not using a computer that is not mine to access terb and I not at home to use my own .

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You seem to make a lot of assumptions. If you want actual facts--ask

 

[jblitz]

Hey dominator
I try ping you but your msg folder full can you send me the link thanks.

 

[fuji]

Why would she do this?

Why would she destroy a source of income too?

I can think of lots of reasons.

He catches her one day and she confesses everything. Or she just feels really guilty about it. Or she mistakenly thinks her husband will be understanding if she tells him. Or the relationship falls apart and she turns vindictive and uses it to hurt her ex. Or she gets drunk and blurts it out. Or she gets into a shouting match and says it in anger without thinking clearly. Or she tells a friend and is overheard, or the friend betrays her confidence and tells her husband.

Who knows maybe she will take it to her grave as a closely guarded secret. Or maybe she sucks at keeping secrets.

What I do know is that the whole thing now hangs over dominator's head like the proverbial Sword of Damocles. It is now completely out of his control, and one day the whole thing could explode.

Maybe our hero Dom will be engaged to be married himself in a few years when this ticking time bomb explodes, there is a fiery breakup, and his now former friend storms in angry as fuck to tell dom's new fiancee, his boss, his family and anyone else who will listen (hey maybe a Facebook post tagging Dom to everyone) exactly what he did. Remember the husband has nothing to lose outing his ex wife if he finds out and they break up over it, he is not involved other than as a victim.

Tick tock. Tick tock.

 

[Mr. Piggy]

So, help me if I am in left field here. It is ok for you to have sex with your friends wife, and for you to keep it a secret from him? How, precisely, would you define friendship?

You have missed the point altogether so there is no need for me to explain.

 

[dominator]

I can think of lots of reasons.

He catches her one day and she confesses everything. Or she just feels really guilty about it. Or she mistakenly thinks her husband will be understanding if she tells him. Or the relationship falls apart and she turns vindictive and uses it to hurt her ex. Or she gets drunk and blurts it out. Or she gets into a shouting match and says it in anger without thinking clearly. Or she tells a friend and is overheard, or the friend betrays her confidence and tells her husband.

Who knows maybe she will take it to her grave as a closely guarded secret. Or maybe she sucks at keeping secrets.

What I do know is that the whole thing now hangs over dominator's head like the proverbial Sword of Damocles. It is now completely out of his control, and one day the whole thing could explode.

Maybe our hero Dom will be engaged to be married himself in a few years when this ticking time bomb explodes, there is a fiery breakup, and his now former friend storms in angry as fuck to tell dom's new fiancee, his boss, his family and anyone else who will listen (hey maybe a Facebook post tagging Dom to everyone) exactly what he did. Remember the husband has nothing to lose outing his ex wife if he finds out and they break up over it, he is not involved other than as a victim.

Tick tock. Tick tock.

WTF??? Are you a drama queen? That is a whole lot of shit you have dreaming in your head

 

[GPIDEAL]

I can think of lots of reasons.

He catches her one day and she confesses everything. Or she just feels really guilty about it. Or she mistakenly thinks her husband will be understanding if she tells him. Or the relationship falls apart and she turns vindictive and uses it to hurt her ex. Or she gets drunk and blurts it out. Or she gets into a shouting match and says it in anger without thinking clearly. Or she tells a friend and is overheard, or the friend betrays her confidence and tells her husband.

Who knows maybe she will take it to her grave as a closely guarded secret. Or maybe she sucks at keeping secrets.

What I do know is that the whole thing now hangs over dominator's head like the proverbial Sword of Damocles. It is now completely out of his control, and one day the whole thing could explode.

Maybe our hero Dom will be engaged to be married himself in a few years when this ticking time bomb explodes, there is a fiery breakup, and his now former friend storms in angry as fuck to tell dom's new fiancee, his boss, his family and anyone else who will listen (hey maybe a Facebook post tagging Dom to everyone) exactly what he did. Remember the husband has nothing to lose outing his ex wife if he finds out and they break up over it, he is not involved other than as a victim.

Tick tock. Tick tock.

Don't you think that her offering full service to strangers behind her hubby's back is enough of a deterrent (or admission)?

This wasn't an affair.

If she was caught, why would she elaborate on the most objectionable details (fucking your friend for money)?

As for Dominator, he would deny and just say she's being vindictive (assuming she doesn't keep any proof).

I'll agree though that it's more risky seeing her than an SP who he has no ties to in the real world.

 

[dominator]

Don't you think that her offering full service to strangers behind her hubby's back is enough of a deterrent (or admission)?

This wasn't an affair.

If she was caught, why would she elaborate on the most objectionable details (fucking your friend for money)?

As for Dominator, he would deny and just say she's being vindictive (assuming she doesn't keep any proof).

I'll agree though that it's more risky seeing her than an SP who he has no ties too in the real world.

Agree with this but am I the only one? Absolutely not! She is a SP and good for her if she is providing a service.Just by happenstance that we knew each other. So is she going to out every guy she met? Highly doubtful.Am I going to out her? NEVER! Continue with what you enjoy--life is short!

 

[dominator]

Then you are not a very good friend.

Not really looking for your opinion----may I suggest you read the thread first?

 

[fuji]

Don't you think that her offering full service to strangers behind her hubby's back is enough of a deterrent (or admission)?

Maybe you have never been in a relationship that broke down. Not everyone brings Spock logic to a shouting match. And not everyone keeps cool headed when they are drunk. And some people get a guilty desire to confess everything.

If she is really doing this I would wager there is a reasonable chance that she is hoping to get caught. Maybe not consciously, but at some level she may be bottling up a lot of angst about the relationship and hoping for a big cathartic blowout. In that case she may gleefully spill everything to create the biggest possible train wreck. I have seen people act directly against their own interests when relationships flame out, either out of unmitigated spite or out of a delusional belief that telling all will fix it.

Anyway, whatever happens is no longer up to dominator, his quality of life going forward is now subject to the arc of an obviously troubled marriage.