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FlorenceYi

FlorenceYi

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I get that the member posting this wasn't the original sp who wrote it, but this was a great read regardless so thanks for posting!
side note: 500/hr in some american cities is like the 250/hr in Toronto. Some girls at that rate get 9-10 clients/day back to back and can experience a lot of resentment from just over-working. Everyone can rant irresponsibly when over-worked. I'm not for that life, but if they can do it and only come out with more or less harmless rants like these - hats off to them!
 
Sophia Sinclair

Sophia Sinclair

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funfactor said:
Reading through the original rant I think there is a lot of truth in there, for the sp, as well as for the client.

Guys who are saying they just want to please are really saying they want to connect which means interaction rather than just taking. For most men who partake I would hazard they are married with children. Somehow the intimacy is gone. Some chose the route of the affair which allows for the connection but takes a ton of time and takes away from the home life. A transaction with an sp is simpler cash for sex. Or at least on paper it is simpler. For myself, at least, I want more than mere flesh against flesh (or latex to be specific). There has to be some fun or else I will be the limp dick guy. Maybe for a yonger guy hormones will carry the day but as you get a little older there needs to be more. it is getting the right mix without getting mixed up that is vital.

With respect to hygiene I can sympathize as can anyone who has the misfortune to go for an hour ride to the airport with a cabbie who believes showering once a month is more than enough. Yuck!

Talking about spouses with sp's is wrong. You are doing something that societally is labelled as unethical. Why unburden to an sp? Better get a psychotherapist, they are cheaper.

With respect to being good looking, that is so personal. One mans art is another mans trash and visa versa. Giving a pass to any guy who is hot enough to get any chick is a little lame. I have read on here raving reviews of some chicks who I have met and wonder what the hype is about. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and so I would challenge that there is no guy/gal that would be appealing to all. I would argue that any guy on here who get chicks it would just be a question of time, effort and stretching form the comfort zone. Let's face there is a lot more fugly guys walking around with hot chicks than visa versa.

To me the best encounters occur when you meet an sp who either enjoys her work or at least has come to terms with it and has learned to be pleasant and interactive. From my perspective Sinful Sophia is the best of the best in this regards. If there is any sp I would have concerns about developing a crush of it would have to be her. It has little to do with the sex rather it has to do with her genuineness (Not to say the sex isn't great it is). She would be the equivalent of the cashier at the store who gives you a longer than necessary smile that tells you she is really there rather than in la la land. I think the mind is the bodies biggest sex organ. Any sp who wants to up her game should keep this in mind. If you do not want to be treated like a commodity do not act like a commodity. Voice your likes and dislikes such as no dry fingers to your client, most guys are quite open to hearing and learning (Once it gets through their hormone overloaded brains allow double the time to process such requests). I would wager that any sp who gives balanced feedback, positive and negative, will be elevated to a higher status compared to an sp who just vacates for the time she is in the room.

Just like in any other business there are two types of approaches; transactional and relational. It has been proven over and over that relational approaches yield better results. Rather than just ranting anonymously only take a few positive steps:
1) Screen for those gentlemen who will be purely transactional- these are the guys who will treat you like pond scum- avoid at all cost
2) Change the paradigm from you are doing some loser a favour to you are providing a valuable service to a fellow human being
3) Assure that while you are providing the service you communicate what is working and not working in a manner similar to the way you would if you were working at a high end boutique
Also at then end of the day if some encounter is not working for you remember you have the option to stop and give back the money. This is not about slavery this is about service, a very personal service at that.

Cheers all
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funfactor,

I'm glad this thread got necrobumped today as it has allowed me to take heed of your earlier missed comments. This truly is one of the most flattering things ever said about me on this or any other board. As much as I enjoy hearing that I'm attractive to the members or well versed in certain arts ;), having someone note my sincerity in what I do is the ultimate compliment.

Thank You and I'm sorry I was remiss in not seeing this sooner!
 
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Lily Divine

Lily Divine

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Oct 14, 2013
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TeasePlease said:
LOL. Not all. But, let me ask you this - how many SPs do you think truly enjoy their job? I mean, actually love what they do?
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Some of us genuinely enjoy playing with those we spend time with and only come out to play when we are in the mood to do so. In that respect I love it.

I don't know if I would love it if I was attempting to facilitate volume vs quality of enjoyment as I do now.
 
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IM469

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Lily Divine said:
Some of us genuinely enjoy playing with those we spend time with and only come out to play when we are in the mood to do so.
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So much for equality of the sexes ... I have the same feelings as you but it costs me hundreds of dollars over the year. :rolleyes:
 
Lily Divine

Lily Divine

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IM469 said:
So much for equality of the sexes ... I have the same feelings as you but it costs me hundreds of dollars over the year. :rolleyes:
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Funny it costs me hundreds also.

Essentials:
Gas - $5-25 depending on where I am driving (doubled to go home) if I drive myself. A driver is $50-100
Hotel room - $85-190 a day/night
Condoms - $3-7 per round of play time (damn that MSOG)

The trimmings and trappings that seem to be required:
Makeup (expensive habit since I am not 12 and don't wear crap makeup) - Estimated cost per wear is around $4
Clothing (because sexy clothing is expensive) - $15-70 per wear (ever had a $200 outfit last 3 encounters? That's special!)
Shoes (not under the heading of clothing and also expensive) - $40-200/pair and some are never worn outside or for more than an hour at a time
Sex toys, accessories and lube - Lube is $15/2 months, toys are $30-300/2 months, anything that goes along can be an additional $5-100/2 months

Additional expenses related to the industry:
Additional phone number - Everything I have costs me around $115/month
Ads - $105 for a single ad/monthly. If I add the 2nd monthly one I am looking (terb) at it is another $89. If I opt for something like backpage it is a minimum of $10/day

Any SP who requires child care to get out of the house is spending $20-100 every time.

But yes of course you are correct... It only costs you hundreds over the year.
 
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Ok I have booked an appointement to cut my dick off and never ever bother anybody anymore I am very sorry I was born a man and maybe my ex will take me back:confused:
 
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