Had a hard time deciding which thread to jump in on; the one I ended up deciding on or this thread regarding Kayla:
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?477159-any-info
Seeing as how I was the one to start this particular thread, I chose to go in through the front door so to speak.
It wouldn`t have seemed decent to jump in on a thread that, based on it`s title, doesn`t identify the subject. I, for the life of me, cannot figure out why some on here start threads without identifying in the title who they are reviewing or asking for information on. At least the last 4 digits of the phone number would help.
Anyway, that isn`t why I chose to reply. I will say as well that if I didn`t burn my bridge to Kayla with our text communication this morning, the following likely will.
As has happened to a few people who have contributed to this thread, I as well had an appointment set with Kayla a while back, when she passed through Durham Region, and she slept through our appointment time. I was pissed, she apologized, so I let it pass without posting a negative review. Essentially gave her the benefit of the doubt as we had, I think, built up some respect for each other.
I even visited Kayla in Markham a few weeks ago as I really enjoy (or now enjoyed may be the apt term) being with her. I don`t travel well (little bcd I mean) but went anyway. We drank some wine and had a good visit otherwise.
Then came last night and this morning. Kayla sent me a text message last night to let me know she was in Durham Region. I had a commitment last night already so asked her if she would still be here on Saturday. Kayla replied that she would be here in the morning. I knew that she was a night hawk so maybe I should have passed and suggested next time but I wanted to see her so I asked what a good time would be for her. She suggested 8:00 am. We even agreed to go out for breakfast after our play time.
I asked if she wanted me to send a message earlier this morning to confirm and Kayla answered `Yes plz`. So, at around 6:45 this morning, I sent a smiley face text to see if she was up. No surprise but no response. I even sent her friend Chloe a text (I knew she was visiting Durham Region with Kayla based on her ad) asking if she knew what the chance was that Kayla would be awake in time for our appointment. Hell, I even asked if I could see her instead if Kayla slept in! No response from Chloe either.
Well, 8:00 am this morning came and went so, in frustration, I sent Kayla a text shortly after 8:00 worded `Kayla, Kayla, Kayla
At around 9:45 she replied saying sorry I slept in. My reply was short and curt. She explained that she set her alarm for me but didn`t hear it, again apologizing. I told her that I partly blamed myself as I should have known better. What I meant by that was I knew based on her sleeping in on me once already and many others reporting on here, that I should have used the head atop my shoulders and suggested that we meet next time she is here.
We had a back and forth text discussion, not a pleasant one, but I will give Kayla credit for apologizing at least three times. It just seemed to have become an easy and regular cop out apology from Kayla. It just seemed to me that her take on this was, as long as she apologizes, she is off the hook. It matters not, it seems, about the inconvenience to me or others.
I asked why would she book an appointment with me for early this morning if she knew quite well that she would sleep in. I had even allowed her to set the time as I am fine with as early as anyone wants. I am awake by 3:00 am every morning. Kayla suggested 8:00 so I said ok.
Maybe I was harsh with her and I encourage and invite opinions on that. I am torn because I like Kayla a lot and would prefer to see her again. I know that chance has died with our text conversation today, combined with this post if she happens to read it. I just didn`t want to sit in the bush and sugar coat my experiences with Kayla, that being only posting the positive ones.
Thanks for reading.
