Ashley Madison

Just found out a girl I was really close friends with is now an SP

Frosty

Active member
Sep 1, 2001
2,009
0
36
Toronto
If you were best friends or even great friends then you shouldn't have lost contact with her in the first place. Unless she lived in a different country, there's no excuse. It just sounds so fishy, now you really wanted to seek her out after look on backpage.
 

thirdcup

Well-known member
Jan 4, 2005
1,340
113
63
Directly above the center of the earth
Good reminder for escorts - never ever show your face in your ads.
Never say never. It's entirely possible that if she kept her face hidden, and then he booked an appointment, then what..... ?

Undoubtedly this has happened with other SPs and their would be clients.

I don't know what a good solution would be.
 
Jan 7, 2014
311
0
0
Never say never. It's entirely possible that if she kept her face hidden, and then he booked an appointment, then what..... ?

Undoubtedly this has happened with other SPs and their would be clients.

I don't know what a good solution would be.
If that unlikely event happened, at least it would have been an honest circumstance. Good reason for a peep hole on the door.

Showing a face in the ad has a high risk for her.
 

scdave2003

Well-known member
Oct 19, 2010
1,006
31
48
S. W. Ontario
Google her real name, search canada411 or other online phone directory. If you find her call and reconnect. Since you are divorced you now are in a position to have a deeper relationship with her. But don't contact through her escort ad, it will set the wrong tone. If you do connect via her ad act surprised and play the misery card, I'm divorced, lonely and missing someone, holy shit it's you Sue - be completely surprised to see her.
 

superstar_88

The Chiseler
Jan 4, 2008
5,663
1,232
113
Are facebook friends real friends?
 

aussie9

aussie9
Dec 15, 2011
312
0
0
I was looking through bp and stumbled upon an add with a picture of a girl that looked familiar, as soon as I enlarged the picture I knew it was her. Me and this girl were really close for about 5 years we would pretty much talk daily, in the past 2 years we lost contact and stopped talking. I want to talk to her but I feel as if she knows its me she won't reply out of fear of me telling others about it. What should I do?
Wow! Sounds like that burst your bubble. Move on from that...run Forest...run!!!!
 

aussie9

aussie9
Dec 15, 2011
312
0
0
An escort I know had an old high school flame try and contact her through the industry because he recognized her photo. Man, was she PISSED!!!!!!!!!!
An escort I know had a similar experience, but he was a high school friend who showed up and had become a cop. He took advantage of the moment, threatened to expose her to her family and then raped her bareback.
 

fuji

Banned
Jan 31, 2005
80,010
8
0
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
is.gd
An escort I know had a similar experience, but he was a high school friend who showed up and had become a cop. He took advantage of the moment, threatened to expose her to her family and then raped her bareback.
I hope she called the SVU and the SIU.
 

FTWWTF

Well-known member
Aug 3, 2011
1,496
30
48
You should rent a hotel room. Book her for an appointment. Then when she knocks on the door. Whip the door open and yell SURPRISE. You will laugh, she will laugh, and the 2 of you will be friends for life. And your session will be the best you ever had :)
 

asterwald

Active member
Dec 11, 2010
2,585
0
36
Another way is to ask for bbfs, stalk her from a number , blackmail her with bad reviews and get on her blacklist. And when meeting her in normal life ask say SURPRISE! She will love it. Especially after not seeing each other for so long.
 

harryass

Well-known member
Oct 27, 2010
3,245
929
113
I was looking through bp and stumbled upon an add with a picture of a girl that looked familiar, as soon as I enlarged the picture I knew it was her. Me and this girl were really close for about 5 years we would pretty much talk daily, in the past 2 years we lost contact and stopped talking. I want to talk to her but I feel as if she knows its me she won't reply out of fear of me telling others about it. What should I do?
If she wanted at all to be friends with you, she would have contacted you in the past 2 years. DONT CONTACT HER AND MOVE ON!
 

james1961

Banned
Jul 2, 2013
862
0
0
forever w/Mrs. James
I am going to give you one piece of advice, the same as MPASquared. DO NOT CONTACT HER THROUGH THE BIZ. That will be ( most likely ) the last time that you talk to her. If you are friends and you want to reconnect, it will have to be through normal channels. Once that connection is made, you have to bring your relationship up to speed before even thinking about this subject.

Next, start mentally preparing yourself, cause it will be a bit of a game changer, but love/friendship is always the most important thing between 2 people.

2nd piece of advise

DON'T LISTEN TO ANYTHING ELSE THAT PEOPLE SAY HERE. I can't stress this enough
 

ICEman72

Member
Apr 4, 2011
753
0
18
Downtowner
An escort I know had a similar experience, but he was a high school friend who showed up and had become a cop. He took advantage of the moment, threatened to expose her to her family and then raped her bareback.
Wow!!! Nice guy.
 

Yoga Face

New member
Jun 30, 2009
6,328
19
0
on the other hand i suspect she would like to have friends outside of the industry know what she does if they are non judgmental


i saw a lawyer prof at york discuss the supreme court decision on prostitution on The Agenda and he stated female students will admit to him they make money in the industry because they know he will not tell and is completely non judgmental

but they approached him
 

waba

Active member
Jun 18, 2012
3,255
12
38
I don't know about you guys but if she was really hot. Just pretend you forgot about her and go see her. Then let the rest flow from there. If she don't want to continue, just tell her don't worry you won't tell anyone about this and leave. Jesus christ, maybe she wanted to fuck you all these years too. Never know man. JUST DO IT and find out rather than regret it for the rest of your life.
 

richaceg

Well-known member
Feb 11, 2009
14,900
6,854
113
The only fighting chance you have of knowing how she's doing is to provide a link, and i will provide you every information I can get once I book her.
 

fuji

Banned
Jan 31, 2005
80,010
8
0
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
is.gd
Good friends don't lose contact with a good friends in other words ...if she was such a good friend to you why would you have not respected that friendship enough to inform her you planned on deactivating your facebook and call her right away to make sure she had your new number . It makes no sense ...sorry !

Misty
This isn't really true, I have lost contact with people who were good friends. However, there is usually a reason, like the friendship was based on interests or circumstances that have changed. In that case let the friendship go, there is nothing more awkward than trying to force yourself through the motions of a friendship the air has gone out of, and it will only serve to sour the good memories you have.

Obviously don't contact her through her booking info, but why even contact her at all?
 
Ashley Madison
Toronto Escorts