I agree that not all of us are for everyone and I think that's why we need to let the Op express how he felt and take it for what it is. No point in questioning why the OP went to see Amber if she wasn't his type. That's not always obvious until he gets there .As the Op said, he thought he'd join the conga line. I for one can say it's truly difficult to try and ignore all the great reviews Amber has received: one has to think from the reviews, Amber is great with everyone. Unfortunately, that's not always the case and not always obvious when the wrong head is doing the thinking. I know Amber is not for me and maybe that why I may understand the OP's position. When there is no connection , everything tends to bother you: it may be the lack of tidiness, bruises, etc. All in all, if the OP had enjoyed the connection, all that would not have been important. I do agree with Amber though, the mileage and baggage comments were uncalled for.
All that said, I think we have to respect the OP's opinion: it is a review board after all. It may make those who may not be suited to Amber's energy, to pass on Amber and thus avoid any more negative reviews and then , everyone is happy. As Amber has said, she could take one someone else, someone that may be better suited to her.
Just my 2 cents.
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