Dating in Toronto - from an Asian guy's perspective?

ironsman1

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Hey just a question for all you Asian guys in Toronto. Is it easier to get an Asian girl there? I live in Ottawa and am I having a bit of trouble finding an Asian gf since they are all going for white dudes. Most of my exes have been white so I think it's time to find a nice asian girl to make mom happy lol.

Is this a small city thing, or is it like that there too?
 

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You're asian and you dated white girls????? I never seen that pairing before. Asian girl with white guy i see all the time but never the opposite.
 

blazer7

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Wrong area - the incall section?

I am from a small town south of Ottawa, have lived in Toronto for the past while and am Asian. Yes, it is easier in Toronto to find and date an Asian girl. My opinion is that it's a numbers game. There's more Asian people in Toronto vs Ottawa.

Half the girls I've dated are white. Girls in Toronto are pretty open minded. Seeing many people of various backgrounds is the norm here.
 

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You're asian and you dated white girls????? I never seen that pairing before. Asian girl with white guy i see all the time but never the opposite.
Must not be worldly at all, I know soo many Asian guys white girls, I dated an Italian chick just because I grew up in an Italian area. Maybe the majority is white guys with Asian girls.

Hey just a question for all you Asian guys in Toronto. Is it easier to get an Asian girl there? I live in Ottawa and am I having a bit of trouble finding an Asian gf since they are all going for white dudes. Most of my exes have been white so I think it's time to find a nice asian girl to make mom happy lol.

Is this a small city thing, or is it like that there too?
Varity of Asian girls in Toronto, I have a few asian friends (girls) that are on online dating websites. I know one that found someone online who is asian as well they are still dating.
 

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dis is an escorrt site,,,not a datting site,,,,
Dude why are you allowed to post here? You go out of your way to mispell things and comma comma comma between words as if to throw people off about who you are. Are you a banned shill handle possibly belonging to a well known shiller and trying really hard to not get recognized? You would be more incognito if you simply DIDN'T post instead of posting drivel.

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They all hang out on the blue boards now where they desperately need content to drive eyeball. So called Big fish in small pond strategy. its a ripe territory to prey on newbie hobbyist. Like cult brain washing ? lol

Dude why are you allowed to post here? You go out of your way to mispell things and comma comma comma between words as if to throw people off about who you are. Are you a banned shill handle possibly belonging to a well known shiller and trying really hard to not get recognized? You would be more incognito if you simply DIDN'T post instead of posting drivel.

Stay Gold,

Don Ron :)
 

NightOwlTO

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Most asians in Toronto only date asian guys, so Ottawa must be different.
This is complete nonsense, as any average afternoon on the streets of Toronto will confirm. Last weekend I walked my dog from downtown to Leslieville and back, and by the halfway point I'd already seen more white guy / Asian girl couples than I could count on my fingers. There are at least half a dozen such couples living in my building, for that matter.

Do you ever actually walk around downtown? Or do you just drive around the burbs from parking lot to parking lot?
 

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ironsman1: The answer to your question depends on how old you are, how old you're looking for, and what you do for a living / how much money you make. It's hard to generalize but my only advice on landing an Asian GF would be to look like you make a decent amount of money and aren't too averse to spending it.
 

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I think your over thinking the whole thing..to find an asian girl isn't hard..as long as you have the right chemistry, the balls to start a convo and the right attitude..you could find a decent sweet asian girl no problem..be it here or ottawa or any other part of the world.

It's just like finding any other girl..you all have to start off at some point and if it's right..it's right..

yes toronto i would assume would have more choices of asian girls..but if your not gonna take the first step, don't expect them to dive in your arms..

i have lots of white friends..and know lots of mixed couples..chinese guy with a white girl and brown girl with a chinese guy..just to state a couple of mixed couples.

but anyways..if you want more playing area..i definitely think toronto has more options..that's just my 2 cents =)
 

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If you go to pacific mall, for example, most chinese girls are with chinese guys. If it were true that chinese girls wanted white boyfriends, then there would be 100s of white guys at pacific mall with their girlfriends, but this is never the case.
 

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Are Asian girls all about the money? What if I have swag, good looks and charm? :( lol

Stay Gold,

Don Ron :(
there are 2 types ..just like any race i believe..

but to be a little more specific..if we talking about chinese asian girls..

the ones from China that look hot and dress to impress are probably gold diggers..some of the Hong kong girls too but majority i would say from China..

then you have the canadian born chinese (CBC) that are more down to earth and realistic..in my opinion..i always stay away from china girls cuz i had so many bad experiences and i just can't stand them anymore, loud and obnoxious LOL and the sex is just 'whatever' LOL

so if you got swag..find one that can speak english and wasn't born and raised in china =P

just my personal opinion..
 

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Hey just a question for all you Asian guys in Toronto. Is it easier to get an Asian girl there? I live in Ottawa and am I having a bit of trouble finding an Asian gf since they are all going for white dudes. Most of my exes have been white so I think it's time to find a nice asian girl to make mom happy lol.

Is this a small city thing, or is it like that there too?
I may not be an Asian guy, but as an Asian female who has dated Asian and non Asian men before becoming an SP, I thought I would share my personal observations regarding the differences between the ways non Asian men and Asian men approach women. I hope you don't mind.

I haven't dated too many Asian men because I find that whenever I know they are interested in dating me, they never come out and say it. At least with the Asian guys I tend to meet, I find that they like to spend a LONG time keeping things platonic in hopes that one day after playing the "Mr. Nice Guy" game for 6 months, we'll be sitting across from each other at a café, lock eyes, and I'll realize that I'm madly in love with him and the friendship will just magically become a romance. On the other hand, whenever a non Asian guy is interested in me, he tends to be more direct in his approach. He'll chat me up for a bit before asking if I would be interested in grabbing a coffee or having lunch with him at another time. Non Asians are less likely to play games which land them in the "friend zone" so to speak, which I prefer.

I'm not saying that this is how you specifically are going about approaching Asian girls, and I very well could be biased, unaware that this is some cultural thing that they do in Asia, but this has been the complaint of a few other Asian females I know who grew up here as I did. Maybe this is a factor in why Asian girls in Ottawa prefer white guys over Asians?

Best of luck, and hopefully you find that nice Asian girl soon :)
 

chiggaboi

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If you go to pacific mall, for example, most chinese girls are with chinese guys. If it were true that chinese girls wanted white boyfriends, then there would be 100s of white guys at pacific mall with their girlfriends, but this is never the case.
in all fairness..i think that's a little harsh..pacific mall has a lot of 'fobs' which means they can't even speak a line of english without being laughed at..most of the ppl there are from china and i think they would prefer to see their own race due to language barriers for one.

i'm chinese and i wouldn't even consider starting to look for girls there..i'd rather hit a local bar downtown and go from there..cuz mostly the local chinese ppl (CBC, born here) would really know where to go and hang out, rather then going to a karaoke or a chinese bar.
 

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I may not be an Asian guy, but as an Asian female who has dated Asian and non Asian men before becoming an SP, I thought I would share my personal observations regarding the differences between the ways non Asian men and Asian men approach women. I hope you don't mind.

I haven't dated too many Asian men because I find that whenever I know they are interested in dating me, they never come out and say it. At least with the Asian guys I tend to meet, I find that they like to spend a LONG time keeping things platonic in hopes that one day after playing the "Mr. Nice Guy" game for 6 months, we'll be sitting across from each other at a café, lock eyes, and I'll realize that I'm madly in love with him and the friendship will just magically become a romance. On the other hand, whenever a non Asian guy is interested in me, he tends to be more direct in his approach. He'll chat me up for a bit before asking if I would be interested in grabbing a coffee or having lunch with him at another time. Non Asians are less likely to play games which land them in the "friend zone" so to speak, which I prefer.

I'm not saying that this is how you specifically are going about approaching Asian girls, and I very well could be biased, unaware that this is some cultural thing that they do in Asia, but this has been the complaint of a few other Asian females I know who grew up here as I did. Maybe this is a factor in why Asian girls in Ottawa prefer white guys over Asians?

Best of luck, and hopefully you find that nice Asian girl soon :)
Lani is right, this applies to anybody ending up in the friend zone regardless of race or nationality. Guys we need to assert ourselves to get what we want :D

So Lani, how yuu doooiiin ? Let's go for dinner some time :hippie:

Leading by example!

Stay Gold,

Don Ron :cool:
 

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I may not be an Asian guy, but as an Asian female who has dated Asian and non Asian men before becoming an SP, I thought I would share my personal observations regarding the differences between the ways non Asian men and Asian men approach women. I hope you don't mind.

I haven't dated too many Asian men because I find that whenever I know they are interested in dating me, they never come out and say it. At least with the Asian guys I tend to meet, I find that they like to spend a LONG time keeping things platonic in hopes that one day after playing the "Mr. Nice Guy" game for 6 months, we'll be sitting across from each other at a café, lock eyes, and I'll realize that I'm madly in love with him and the friendship will just magically become a romance. On the other hand, whenever a non Asian guy is interested in me, he tends to be more direct in his approach. He'll chat me up for a bit before asking if I would be interested in grabbing a coffee or having lunch with him at another time. Non Asians are less likely to play games which land them in the "friend zone" so to speak, which I prefer.

I'm not saying that this is how you specifically are going about approaching Asian girls, and I very well could be biased, unaware that this is some cultural thing that they do in Asia, but this has been the complaint of a few other Asian females I know who grew up here as I did. Maybe this is a factor in why Asian girls in Ottawa prefer white guys over Asians?

Best of luck, and hopefully you find that nice Asian girl soon :)
Ok as you can probably tell from my handle, I am asian. What Lani says is.... surprisingly accurate... at least with me.. as it has landed me in the "friend zone" too many times. I never really thought about it till now and seeing it posted here and just kinda slapped me awake now. (if this sounds like I am being sarcastic, I am not). This is probably one the best pieces of advice I have heard in a very long time.

I only started to be more forward and although Im still not having much luck, at least I don't get trapped in the friend zone anymore.

Lani, bravo, good advice, why couldn't I have gotten that advice years ago.
 
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