Well I had my first experience with a sp and it was ok, it was no fault on her I just had some technical problems and the whole thing was off but on her side she was great. I will post a review the second time I get to see her again so hopefully I won't have such bad luck. Anyway, I was going down on her and after awhile her legs were squeezing my head then she told me to stop. Is this normal, do they ask you to stop going down on them? Since it was my first experience I didn't want to be rude or controlling. I've went down a some girls before but didn't do it for long because of odors., searching through a large forest... Now, I kind of really love going down on a girl who clean and shaven and taste great. Do you think I would get a discount if I just wanted to do that with a sp for the majority of the time? Also is there any remedies for technical problems that are over the counter.
So I was going down on sp and then..
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When a woman orgasms, she is very sensitive down there. You will learn to back off during these precious seconds and most women will let you resume. I typically move my tongue down onto her labia more, away from the clit, stroke her inner thighs, insert my tongue into her, and just a couple odd, very gentle, flicks on her clit. You will pick up on clues on if and when she is ready for you to resume daty.
I'm not sure if many SP's will offer a discounted rate for an oral only session, since their time is money, but you can try asking, respectfully. As for the technical issues, places like GNC and Nutrition House carry products that claim to offer erectile help, but I can't say for sure how well they work, or what they are even called. If you can summon up the courage, go into one of those stores and ask.
I'm not sure if many SP's will offer a discounted rate for an oral only session, since their time is money, but you can try asking, respectfully. As for the technical issues, places like GNC and Nutrition House carry products that claim to offer erectile help, but I can't say for sure how well they work, or what they are even called. If you can summon up the courage, go into one of those stores and ask.
thanks for the reply man, I'll back off a bit when I get idea. Yeah I was trying to remember the abbreviation but didn't come to mind. And yeah since going to the doctor and asking for viagra is a last thing for me, I wanted to see if there something of those sort that would help.
On the technical problem, since it was your first time with an SP, I'm guessing it was just nerves. Try to stick to the same Sp for a while to get comfortable and it might work out for you.
As for the SP asking you to stop, all are different. Just do as the lady says and you'll be fine. Stop doesn't mean "stop forever" for all. Ask her and let her know you enjoy giving and would like to try again and again. I doubt you will be turned down. However, don't bet on a discount...you are paying for her time. What you might get is preferential treatment when it's time to book if she's a busy lady.
Thanks a lot for the advice guys, I didn't look at it that way about the discount. I'm glad I posted here cause I wouldn't want to offend a lady from the get go. Also never though about her trying to keep schedule and I lol at the tap, I remember that episode. I think it be better if I ask for a little more time to do daty, communicating to the sp more from the start would be better since she might be a busy girl that day. Yeah it might of been nerves, the whole awkward situation of meeting someone beautiful and getting it on from get go is a new experience to tackle.
Some gentleman aren't aware of their facial hair rubbing against our sensitive lady parts. In my personal life I've had to stop someone due to that. If I was to stop anyone during a session it would be because I am dying to return the favour!!
Oh I was baby skin smooth. A habit i pick off from one of my exes who preferred shaven guys.
I was also wondering if any the guys had a routine before they visit a sp. I've kind of freaked out before meeting my sp and I bought like all these fancy smelling shampoos soaps, mouthwash and was like chewing on 4-5 gums (live near shoppers drug mart that opens till 12). showered twice, already showered but seeing the sp was a last minute thing.. The only thing I didn't put on was my aftershave because a friend of mine told me it was overpowering smell.
I was also wondering if any the guys had a routine before they visit a sp. I've kind of freaked out before meeting my sp and I bought like all these fancy smelling shampoos soaps, mouthwash and was like chewing on 4-5 gums (live near shoppers drug mart that opens till 12). showered twice, already showered but seeing the sp was a last minute thing.. The only thing I didn't put on was my aftershave because a friend of mine told me it was overpowering smell.
I shower, shave, mouthwash and brush teeth right before leaving for the appt. If the lady would like me to shower once at her place, that's fine too. I sometimes ask the lady if she prefers aftershave/cologne or not, but generally I just do a quick spritz with my cheap cologne, which isn't overpowering by any means. Although, there was a thread on the London board some time back about favourite colognes, and this one lady I was booking had commented on there. So, sparing no expense, I stopped by the Bay on the way to the appt, found the cologne she liked and did a quick spray with the tester lol.
Just say you have to give it the wife test, and it doesn't work bringing home that little piece of cardboard, she needs to smell it on you lollol I did that before a date once, the person behind the counter gave me a strange look but I just smiled and walked away
