Maybe the lady feels you are becoming too close or attached to her, and gave you that price hoping it would shock you back to the reality of the situation. Or the agreement you proposed could be outside her comfort zone for some reasons, so she gave you an unacceptably high price.
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It doesn't matter how much money you give her . She will not remain exclusive to you at all . If you really think so then I have some ocean view home in Arizona that I can sell you to keep her in .
Seriously she needs to see men . They make her feel important , beautiful and wanted . She will not sit around waiting for you to drop by . She will go out with her friends , have a few boyfriends on the side .
The exclusive part will not exist . Guaranteed . Your money will be wasted . Then again if money is no object then who cares . Right !!!
Seriously she needs to see men . They make her feel important , beautiful and wanted . She will not sit around waiting for you to drop by . She will go out with her friends , have a few boyfriends on the side .
The exclusive part will not exist . Guaranteed . Your money will be wasted . Then again if money is no object then who cares . Right !!!
Ideal face.
She tried to get me to book an extra hour to go for dinner during that time. I am usually a good poker player in business so tend to not show my cards. My IQ dropped about 50 points because her face was so pretty. Couldn't stop looking at it, and ended up showing my cards.
She tried to get me to book an extra hour to go for dinner during that time. I am usually a good poker player in business so tend to not show my cards. My IQ dropped about 50 points because her face was so pretty. Couldn't stop looking at it, and ended up showing my cards.
look at the bright side - you can still see her when you want but it sounds like your illusions have been shattered - on the other hand she is not married to you so you can search for another face and keep all your assets...
Dam this pic looks like Belinda Stronach , she doesn't need your money!Danjay, why not take a photo of her and COF all you want for free?
70 guys per week? That would be 10 clients per day. I doubt most SPs are that high volume. Maybe a very few but I don't think an SP could handle 10 men a day on a constant basis, every day of the week, week in and week out, month in and month out.
Agreed.
And before jumping on how the SP in question was out of line for suggesting a very high price, maybe we need more details.
For example, how well does she know the OP? I would not enter into such a relationship with someone unless I already knew and trusted them very, very well.
Consider what she may be giving up - independence, freedom, her already established clientele base. 5k a month may seem like an offer an SP should not refuse, but it really depends on her relationship with the OP, and also what she may have going on in her personal life. Also, what is expected of her for that 5k a month?
I have also been asked for similar arrangements, but I have never taken someone up on their offer because I was not willing to give up my independence and freedom, and I was simply not comfortable being dependent on one person. I guess for the same reasons I would find it hard to be a stay-at-home wife!!
With the right person, I would consider the offer, but there would have to be a lot of trust and affection already established for this kind of thing to work.
xox Charley
Do you think the sp in question is reading this thread ?
How will she respond to this dirty laundry being aired?
How will she respond to this dirty laundry being aired?
She said all these facts very matter of factly. I am sure she would love for someone to pay her 30k per month cash. I just don't feel comfortable going over 5k. To meet three times per week for dinner and sex is not too bad. Dinner at upscale restaurants paid for, as well.
She's just not that into you. Based on your posts here I imagine you should heed the advice that you are are best booking sessions with agency girls. Don't seek a girlfriend or even a mistress when using an agency. And don't comparative shop as to what some other guy pays for a mistress. You are likely going to pay a higher ick tax than others.
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ideal or attractive face, seems to be the top reason you want to go exclusive. Is that the only reason???? Bad plan. It looks like you are even saying your little head is doing all the thinking instead of your big head.
Also perhaps asking her to go exclusive looks like you want to be controlling from her POV.
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I would re-read that and ask yourself if that is even possible. Women dinger sore, and where is the time to shower and freshen up between appointments.
There are many girls out there that would take that kind of arrangement because it makes financial sense, and for some is easier to deal with than a cycle of men.
There is the other side of this that a woman may not want to be exclusive, risk forming an emotional attachment, not that into you, etc. etc. etc.
Consider visiting a site like seekingarrangement - you may have better luck there and find someone just as visually appealing.
Also, realistically, what you offered is more than what a lot of women in this industry make - so it isn't a far fetched idea to propose something like that to someone you may be interested in
(all of that said I see that you were reprimanded by an agency for asking a girls real name, etc. I suggest taking some time to learn about sex worker ettiqute prior to pursuing something more exclusive. We all have personal lives and some have professional lives outside of the trade that we want to keep seperate - privacy is one of the most valuable and priceless things that a sex worker has)
I think you gotta ask yourself..is she as into you as you are into her....from your post.. Personally I don't think so...(but I could be wrong)..
I had thought about it too...but its gotta be an exclusive arrangement for both.
She sees nobody else...and neither do you...is that what you were suggesting?
I would do it in a heartbeat...with the right lady, but It seems that most.. not all aren't looking for that..
Her own apartment....
leased vehicle...
travel...
5,000-7500/mo.
I had thought about it too...but its gotta be an exclusive arrangement for both.
She sees nobody else...and neither do you...is that what you were suggesting?
I would do it in a heartbeat...with the right lady, but It seems that most.. not all aren't looking for that..
Her own apartment....
leased vehicle...
travel...
5,000-7500/mo.
I agree with the posters that have suggested that she is just not interested in this arrangement with this particular client, and so made up a story about sky high volume and income. Danjay should move on to someone else.
I already said the dirty laundry suggestion was not to be taken literally. ;-)
Bingo.
She basically threw out a ridiculous number that either she knew you wouldn't go for or if you did she'd be laughing all the way to the bank.
IMO, a beautiful woman (escort or not) can do better than $5K a month. That's only $60K a year to be a kept woman and if she's hot enough to have guys looking to pay her to be their girlfriend then she's hot enough to do better than $60K a year.
I know a couple beauties who have sugar daddies and although they haven't told me the exact amount they're getting I know for damn sure it's more than $60K a year. $30K a month does seem excessive but I'd guess that somewhere in the $100-150K range would get you a beautiful woman for a year. Maybe a bit less if you're paying all sorts of expenses, trips, clothing, etc.
One of the girls I know had her house bought for her and cars are the norm. $5K a month? She'd laugh at the OP too.
p.s., they're never as "exclusive" as the guys paying would like to think. Trust me on that, LOL! :eyebrows:
I think you and yolosohobby are talking about different dirty laundries. You are talking soiling bedsheets (not literally) and yolosohobby is talking about privacy.
This is why I want to learn an online hustle and be able to work from anywhere in the world.
I'd rather live in Thailand or the Philippines and bang hot tail for pennies on the dollar.
I'd rather live in Thailand or the Philippines and bang hot tail for pennies on the dollar.
