You are ignoring 20% of men get 90% of the action. This is NOT because the rest of the guys don't/won't approach girls. The 90% get rebuffed BECAUSE the women have these " requirments " ..... basically No guy other than the Mr. Hollywood ( TALL, dark, handsome ) I knew soooo amny guys like that who hd 3-4 girls they were sleeping/dating at the same time. And soooo many guys who couldn't get a chance for many , many months.
I had one phone girls, 37 years old. 3x in a row she dates guys off POF, .... the Tall,Dark,Handsome. EVERYTIME: soon found out these guys married & having a few girlfriends. YET a large group of legit single guys on there appearently can scaresly even get 1 date. I think the media has really inflated womens requirements: unrealistic & extreemly superficial.
Yes Women on general have standards.
So do you men. I, like every other woman, am really not interested in men that do not meet or exceed my standard.
Before I hit puberty we used to compare 'boy friends'. Nothing much has changed. Just what impresses us as we mature does. Socially functional has always been high points
, Bright is often valued highly. Success is an amazing aphrodisiac. Lots of money is sexy. Handsome scores hi as well. Funny / supportive / etc are all worth points. Now since we are pretty much finding men whose point score is above our minimum..... why would we lower our standards?
Oh learn from an early age that we cannot all be 10s, 9s, or even 8s. We lower the bar until we find men who are attracted to us and respond to them.
Men have a few choices. Become successful. Develop social charms. Get their act together. or simply stop hitting on women above them. At school I knew several girls who would date anyone with a pulse who was mildly polite.
Oh Oh I forgot. You can go hire an SP
. Your money is very handsome charming and can talk for you