What's the deal with............

[freespirit]

clients who call and don't leave a message? Do you think we're just sitting on our business phones waiting for them to ring? It could be that I was in the bathroom or with a client. Why do clients call and not leave messages?

Not judging.............just asking. It's very frustrating!

 

[destillat]

because leaving a message opens up the potential for an unexpected callback at an inconvenient or dangerous time?

 

[freespirit]

Ok, I get that. But in MY message I indicate to leave a time I can call back (or not at all). Are you guys really that impatient??

 

[nobody123]

If I don't get through to the SP, then I am going to call another one and try and book with them. I figure rather than clutter up your voice mail with useless blather about "maybe next time", I'll save you and me the trouble and just hang up.

Are you guys really that impatient??

Why, yes. Yes we are

 

[Rockslinger]

clients who call and don't leave a message!

Ok, here is a true story. I called this SP several times and left voice messages but no callback number because.................Since we couldn't connect by phone, I finally decided to send her a TERB PM, She responded by saying that she SP only on a very part-time basis and gave me her personal phone. I called her personal phone number and she picked up but she said she couldn't talk because she was having drinks with civilian friends.


Next time, I'll tell you another true but very tragic story involving telephone calls, leaving messages (with a call back number this time) and police involvement with a sex trade worker.

 

[freespirit]

If I don't get through to the SP, then I am going to call another one and try and book with them. I figure rather than clutter up your voice mail with useless blather about "maybe next time", I'll save you and me the trouble and just hang up.

Why, yes. Yes we are

Ok so your euphemism of "not cluttering up my voice mail" really means "I'm just looking for a hole to fuck NOW, it doesn't matter who it belongs to". Ok, good to know.

 

[freespirit]

Ok, here is a true story. I called this SP several times and left voice messages but no callback number because.................Since we couldn't connect by phone, I finally decided to send her a TERB PM, She responded by saying that she SP only on a very part-time basis and gave me her personal phone. I called her personal phone number and she picked up but she said she couldn't talk because she was having drinks with civilian friends.


Next time, I'll tell you another true but very tragic story involving telephone calls, leaving messages (with a call back number this time) and police involvement with a sex trade worker.

There likely won't be a "next time". Basically what you are saying is because of one bad experience, you're painting us all with the same brush.

 

[thumper18474]

Ok so your euphemism of "not cluttering up my voice mail" really means "I'm just looking for a hole to fuck NOW, it doesn't matter who it belongs to". Ok, good to know.

Sad but true....
Sometimes we only have a certain window of opportunity to enjoy a lady's company..could be a lunch hour rendezvous..between meetings....just passing thru...or a serious case of blue balls that needs tending to...RIGHT NOW!...LOL.....or a hundred other scenarios....
Sometimes the little head wants what the little head wants....and thats relief.

Hence the need for a Plan B..C..D..sometimes an E too....

 

[TRossi]

I don't like to leave messages period. It doesn't matter if the phone call is work related, personal, or to my fav SP. I'd rather try to call again later. That said, I usually text my fav SP... that way, if she is busy with other clients or her personal life, she can reply whenever is convenient for her.

 

[cuttysark]

Ok, here is a true story. I called this SP several times and left voice messages but no callback number because.................Since we couldn't connect by phone, I finally decided to send her a TERB PM, She responded by saying that she SP only on a very part-time basis and gave me her personal phone. I called her personal phone number and she picked up but she said she couldn't talk because she was having drinks with civilian friends.


Next time, I'll tell you another true but very tragic story involving telephone calls, leaving messages (with a call back number this time) and police involvement with a sex trade worker.

...... From the guy who does not see escorts

 

[nobody123]

Ok so your euphemism of "not cluttering up my voice mail" really means "I'm just looking for a hole to fuck NOW, it doesn't matter who it belongs to".

Surely nothing so crass and indiscriminating! Still.... some of us are impulsive, last-minute bookers. So that means that in the (likely) event that our first choice of SP is not available, yeah, we will move on to our next choice. And in my case, that means not bothering with a message. I'm sorry if that seems like an egregious offence. But I wasn't just euphemizin', I was speaking literally. I hate voice mail, especially useless voice mail. So even though I may be projecting, I assume others don't want unimportant non-messages filling up their inbox.

 

[Rockslinger]

Basically what you are saying is because of one bad experience, you're painting us all with the same brush.

It was a bad experience but it wasn't the sex trade worker's nor my fault. EDITED: I edited the original post so as not to identfy the sex trade worker.

 

[trytolikeme]

If the SP doesn't pick up I text her and If she doesn't reply I move on.

 

[Ceiling Cat]

People do that all the time, not just with SPs. If there is no live person at the other end, they just hang up.

 

[Conway_Stewart]

Ok so your euphemism of "not cluttering up my voice mail" really means "I'm just looking for a hole to fuck NOW, it doesn't matter who it belongs to". Ok, good to know.

Yes. This is exactly what we do.

 

[Imperius]

Surely nothing so crass and indiscriminating! Still.... some of us are impulsive, last-minute bookers. So that means that in the (likely) event that our first choice of SP is not available, yeah, we will move on to our next choice. And in my case, that means not bothering with a message. I'm sorry if that seems like an egregious offence. But I wasn't just euphemizin', I was speaking literally. I hate voice mail, especially useless voice mail. So even though I may be projecting, I assume others don't want unimportant non-messages filling up their inbox.

+1

Hobbyists are advised all the time to have a "Plan B" (and C, D, etc) if their first choice is unavailable. Given that we may only have a small window of opportunity, if we don't get a positive response right away, we may move on.

And yes, we are often that impatient. We want it all... and we want it NOW!

 

[Rono]

really means "I'm just looking for a hole to fuck NOW, it doesn't matter who it belongs to". Ok, good to know.

My first response is just to say, "Yes, that is correct".

But, really the guy wanted to fuck YOUR hole at that particular moment. If you are not available, then he moves on to the next. You sound surprised to learn this like it is something new. Perhaps even disappointed as if you talked to some guy in a bar and he moved on to another woman because you went to the can or something.

 

[exploration]

freespirit, i love your picture

and one day I will definitely reach out to you. And no worries, i'll leave a message if i dont get you right away

 

[John Henry]

Ok so your euphemism of "not cluttering up my voice mail" really means "I'm just looking for a hole to fuck NOW, it doesn't matter who it belongs to". Ok, good to know.

Sorry to disappoint you but yes that's how it's normally is . I get the urge to see someone NOW . Not tommorrow or days down the road . When ever I have made future plans with a girl it seems that now I have to see her and I hate that . Really I don't understand what's the problem . How many times have girls brushed off guy's saying that they will see who they want to . No different here . You don't answer the phone then it's next . Leave a message , NO WAY . I'm not waiting around all day or night to see if she'll get back to me . To me that's wasting my time and my time is just important as any girls time .

I do the same thing when I'm calling a business and get the dam answering machine . No live person to talk to , hang up and call another . There are many cases where the girl screen's her calls ( she is right there but doesn't feel like answering ) . That happens too you know ! If the girl wants to work then take the phone where ever she goes .

One thing for sure , I'm not chasing some babe around and wait for her to get back to me . No way .

I'm not looking for someone to talk to , take out to dinner or to make buddy buddy with . Doesn't sound very nice but that's the way it is .

Plan A not answering , then it's off to plan B and so on ...

I'm looking for a hole or 2 and your looking to make some cash . Fact of life .

 

[esoterica]

clients who call and don't leave a message? Do you think we're just sitting on our business phones waiting for them to ring? It could be that I was in the bathroom or with a client. Why do clients call and not leave messages?

Not judging.............just asking. It's very frustrating!

This following applies to all people, SPs, plumbers or family.

One of the few modern technologies I hate is voicemail. Hate using it as a sender and as e recipient.