Answering PM's
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I wouldn't bother answering people who don't contribute. A lot of messages have been pretty creepy.
Have never asked anyone for info via PM myself.
Have never asked anyone for info via PM myself.
I have noticed the same with a lot of people asking me to PM them information.
The best way for me is if its someone who does not contribute anything to the board and by that I mean they don't write any reviews, I immediately delete their message.
There is absolutely no reason for me to give anyone information who is not willing to openly share the information they have.
Same here.... You never know who they are and some could be LE. I always check track records of those who pm me and yet still got burn sometimes. Now I only hand pick who i wanna deal with. There are lots of guys fishing infos here thru PMs, some saying they are getting this and that from that girl, am I getting the same from my girls and such. Then they used your info to mess you up or demand the lady using ur info. I only gave out vague answer to those who I think I cannot trust. Now I stay away from guys who are playing nice guys in here. I'd rather deal with guys who talk straight to my face and gave me shit.
My approach as well.If it is a name I recognize as a long term contributor...I answer...If it is someone without a track record...I direct them to search functions etc or give very vague answers. I figure I owe that much caution to the lovely ladies I see.
Well then I must say this... as a rule I don't answer much, if they are looking for a certain service that I know is not available I sometimes advise them of this but I very seldom go into detail....and I never unless advertised give out an address or #......
I've had someone PM me several times asking about a certain lady. He's started several threads asking about her despite having reviewed her himself. Also, a newbie popped up sending me a PM or two for info about her and I was certain it was the same guy. Looking at his posting history roughly a third of his posts have been about this lady over a few years. No one else that I can recall has started a thread about her.
Came to the conclusion he is a spouse, boyfriend or stalker. Just plain creepy.
Funny thing is I have met the lady but have never engaged her services.
I have told people that if they have a question for me they might as well ask it on the board as they won't get a different private answer.
Miss Jessica hit the nail on the head, the caution shown here is truly appreciated by us ladies. For those unsure about what to disclose, a quick list is...
1. No prices as she may have given you a special rate.
2. No services outside of what she advertises as you may have gotten better mileage than most.
3. No location for security purposes.
The gold standard is if she doesn't say it in her ad, don't give it out privately if asked...
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1. No prices as she may have given you a special rate.
2. No services outside of what she advertises as you may have gotten better mileage than most.
3. No location for security purposes.
The gold standard is if she doesn't say it in her ad, don't give it out privately if asked...
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VERY good advice.
You never know "who" is at the other end of that PM discussion.
On another note.... I use the PM functionality of this site regularly... to warn other members, (both hobbyists and SP's alike), and as a means of adding to an already ongoing discussion, but in private with members I trust. I have also used it to discuss upcoming dates and intricacies with SP's etc.
I share some info if the questions aren't about going beyond her advertised menu. If they try to dig into extras they might receive, I'll just say ymmv.
Mostly I talk about her attitude whether positive or negative because that can't be conveyed by her ad.
I don't see how this is wrong on a board set up to share information. I understand why some escorts wouldn't like this because they have no control over what I say.
Mostly I talk about her attitude whether positive or negative because that can't be conveyed by her ad.
I don't see how this is wrong on a board set up to share information. I understand why some escorts wouldn't like this because they have no control over what I say.
This not wrong and if you are asked by a member here that has a posting history, it isn't a problem in most cases. It's usually the new members that cause worry because they are an unknown. If you don't recognize the poster then it's better to err on the side of caution. Years ago I knew a provider who had multiple handles and would PM men to find out what kind of a reputation she had and justified it as research into what she needed to improve on. But she didn't limit it to just asking about herself, she would ask about girls that the member had reviewed if she felt they were in direct competition with her and she collected a vast amount of info on her sister providers. She then started to use it in unsavory ways and caused more headaches than you can imagine. You just never know who is behind the unknown handle...
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