Be sure to get a DNA test, Maury can do it for you............Lord Loki, You are NOT the father.
All kidding aside, I would have this done, you know her history, wouldn`t want to go through the pre nup only to find out the kid isn`t yours.
I may have a kid later in life with a thai lady, be damn sure I`d be getting one done. Anytime you marry a prostitute this should be a given.
I married a client and had his child. No pre nup. No paternity test necessary because the child is undoubtedly his (I spent every moment with him between the time I retired from this profession and the time I opened my business well after the child was born). Our child was blessed with some of his father's handsome features and a skin tone that is a blend of both parents.
We are currently divorcing now. No pre nup necessary because I left him with everything he wanted or needed. I only took what mattered to me-
my freedom and
independence back...and of course my half of our amassed library.
I didn't even take what I put in when we began the relationship. Our initial cohabitation agreement awarded me half of the furnishings and appliances etc we purchased (we split the cost to completely furnish the house prior to moving in) and a cash sum of somewhere around $10,000 to get me set up. We took the part about children out, because we originally were not planning any (Our choice in furniture reflected that decision- oops!) Basically, we procrastinated getting it signed and forgot about it until I was pregnant with our son at which point we threw it out. I left him with the majority of the furniture, took not a single penny and even signed over a trailor that he required for work a few months after our seperation.
Just because someone chose to work in this profession and later left it to settle down with a client, does not make her a golddigger or a greedy bitch that will try and take everything upon divorce. Everyone does this for their own reasons and it's not always about making money and living extravagantly. I always lived very simply and I banked the rest. I left because I wanted to be with someone I loved and to see what it was like to try out a so called "acceptable" life where I didn't have to move far away from my friends and family in an attempt to hide my occupation. Money had nothing to do with my decision to leave the business and play "normal". In fact, when I left I had enough in savings to live well for at least a year. Instead, I got a job at a chair factory so that I could feel I was paying my half of the living expenses. I did however take the small luxury of taking most of the pregnancy off of work so I could take a few courses. During the pregnancy we decided that I should become a stay at home mom. I'll admit, I tried it but I was soon itching to feel useful beyond the home-there was only so much breastfeeding, babyfood making, laundry,cleaning etc that I could handle. So, I opened my own business before my child was 7 months old and put my effort into running it and expanding it. I worked much longer hours than the normal 9-5 jobs, even if only a portion of them was out of the house. It became a well known local business and I constantly strived to make it better, bigger. I didn't do it because we needed the dual income- at that time my husband did all the providing. Any money I earned was just sort of there for us to spend on whatever we wanted. I did it because I WANTED TO. I absolutely loved pulling in new clients and playing around with little marketing projects. I used to set ridiculous goals every month of how many houses I could sell my services to. Hell, I even did all the bookkeeping for it in the beginning even though my husband had an available bookkeeper taking care of his company that could have easily done mine.
I just want to say that I'm sick of hearing all these SP stereotypes/ accusations. Lately I've read garbage like SP's do this because thet CAN'T handle a real job...I'm pretty sure that was in that ridiculous thread about there not being slim SP's and why don't they excercise? Well it's a total crock. There are plenty of SP's that are juggling this AND school or work. There are also plenty of slim SP's... and lots that excercise constantly.
Mr and Mrs. Loki express that they are very happy together and are celebrating a wonderful life event and there is so much criticism of their lifestyle because they have money? And accusations being tossed around like just because they have the means they will toss their child to a nanny the moment it cramps their style? The amount of money does not determine the type or quality of parent. I've seen bad parenting in both ends of the spectrum. Picking on them for having money is stupid.
For the record, I've met Loki and I found we had clashing personalities. How many of the people bashing him have ever spent any time with him? I'm not going to wish him any ill or bash his life decisions (I'm pretty sure I read something someone wrote about hoping he loses everything). I have witnessed him being not only generous but very thoughtful and considerate to someone we both knew. Who cares if he married a hot young SP? That is their choice and no one's right to judge. They are both adults and whatever they decide to do is up to them- why constantly judge?? I see Mrs Loki all the time in the chat and don't find her to be offensive or degrading to anyone. Why consistantly put her down? Even is she WAS a golddigger (which I'm not saying she is), why the hell does anyone care? I understand it is not socially acceptable considering the age difference and the whole SP/client stereotype. BUT WE ARE ON A REVIEW BOARD WHERE MEN (MANY OF THEM MARRIED) RATE PROSTITUTES!!!! Really, how much further away can we get from socially acceptable?
*breathes*... rant complete.
