Nothing wrong with me. I know people who truly suffer from sex addiction and I can tell you it is actual suffering. I can tell from your 2 posts that you have not even come close to the amount of suffering these people have. Don't need to be a doctor to figure that out, and I did not give you a diagnoses. Although addiction is one so did you see a doctor and get diagnosed so that you can actually say you are a sex addict? I highly doubt it.Holy shit. Wtf is wrong with you? You think you're able to diagnose something from 2 posts a complete stranger made over the Internet? You should be a dr w brains like that.
The people who truly suffer from sex addiction get quit annoyed when people use the term so freely when in reality it is just a lack of self control. Those are the people who care, but it is nice to know you are only thinking of you and what you think and how you feel and tell hell with anyone else. All about you you YOU!And who cares if I used the word "addiction"??? I explained what I am going though so if its not an addiction, fine, so now what? Does that make your advice to "grow some balls and stop..." any more useful?
I did help!!!! I helped the most. It is NOT sex addiction. That is the biggest help you can get on a site based on sex. Being told the truth. It is not sex addiction and so long as you continue to use that excuse for your behavior, you are never going to get the "proper" help you need or want.I will never understand people who can't help but shit all over others when they smell weakness.
Whatever I've got, addiction or obsession, I realize I need help. You're clearly not helping so why not go find another thread to shit on and leave this thread for people (current and future) who are, have been or will be where I am now?
spoken like a wise man... it's incredible how much money you can save in 5 minutes with youjizz.com and a tissue...This is going to sound simplistic and crude, but make a rule for yourself. Tell yourself it is ok for you to see an SP but only if you still want to after jerking off.
At the very least that should significantly cut your spending.
this hobby only becomes a problem if it consumes your life. just randomly seeing an escort every few weeks is not a problem at all. everybody has their vicesGuys. I need some help. I have been trying to quit the hobby for over a year now. I am too paranoid about stis and make too little money to continue. And yet, every couple of weeks I find myself $160-250 poorer, filled with regret and fear. I have tried quitting on my own but I know now that I am not strong enough. I can't go to sex addicts anonymous because there isn't one near where I live that I can conveniently get there without raising suspicion from the people in my life.
I need help. There has got to be hundreds of guys like me out there, on this forum.
I don't have anyone I can really share this with but if there's some people out there in the same situation, maybe we can be our own support structure. I honestly feel the if I had someone to talk to while I am feeling the urge to hobby, someone who knows what it feels like and won't judge me, I would have the strength to get past this.
Please, if you're in the same position, pm me.
(I made this account after deleting my previous one thinking I could move on.)
lol thats the smartest thing ive heard him say.spoken like a wise man... it's incredible how much money you can save in 5 minutes with youjizz.com and a tissue...
Exactly! Every couple of weeks...... give me a break.this hobby only becomes a problem if it consumes your life. just randomly seeing an escort every few weeks is not a problem at all. everybody has their vices
Very true, but again it takes will power and self control to turn to porn over the real thing.spoken like a wise man... it's incredible how much money you can save in 5 minutes with youjizz.com and a tissue..
In all honesty, if you want help and think it is serious enough, go to your doctor. He is the best place to start.Guys, I am not tryin to blame anything but myself. This is my problem resulting from my doing.
And I sincerely appreciate the suppor that's been given. I am my looking for anything more than what's already been provided, nor was I expecting anyone to, what was it, "hold my hand and stroke my hair" or whatever... My comment about being a doctor was wimpy in reference to people saying its not an addiction or that unless I visit a sp 3 times a day it's not a problem. I've recognized I have a problem and I want to solve it... What does it matter if my problem is smaller than the next guy's? Does that mean I shouldn't bother until I'm like him? C'mon.
Anyway, I probably got as much from this thread as I'm going to get.
I'll see what I can do about this taking into consideration all the suggestions provided. And Ms.femmefstale, there was some good stuff in your replies so thanks for that. Thanks very much to heathertouch. I appreciate you're sticking up for me and supporting my approach.
Anyway, with any luck, I'll deal with whatever people wan to call this. If anyone come across this in the future and needs support, hopefully I'll be in a good place to provide it.
Dude, listen to her, she make a lot of sense.Nothing wrong with me. I know people who truly suffer from sex addiction and I can tell you it is actual suffering. I can tell from your 2 posts that you have not even come close to the amount of suffering these people have. Don't need to be a doctor to figure that out, and I did not give you a diagnoses. Although addiction is one so did you see a doctor and get diagnosed so that you can actually say you are a sex addict? I highly doubt it.
The people who truly suffer from sex addiction get quit annoyed when people use the term so freely when in reality it is just a lack of self control. Those are the people who care, but it is nice to know you are only thinking of you and what you think and how you feel and tell hell with anyone else. All about you you YOU!
As for so now what???? Grow some balls and stop - OR - learn to live with it because it is what you want - OR - do to a doctor to get diagnosed and helped. How is that not useful? Those are your options. Sorry I didn't include the last one because I knew it was pointless. Again, you are not upset with my advice, you are upset that I didn't hold your hand and stroke your hair and tell you everything will all right. Big difference. Reality it what it. You have only those 3 options. I told you what they are. Simple.
I did help!!!! I helped the most. It is NOT sex addiction. That is the biggest help you can get on a site based on sex. Being told the truth. It is not sex addiction and so long as you continue to use that excuse for your behavior, you are never going to get the "proper" help you need or want.
I don't understand why people ask for help and then because they simply don't like the answer or the way it was presented, they dismiss it like it is nothing. What you have is lack of will power added to the fact that you are clearly lacking something in your life that is making you turn to this hobby to fill it. The lacking is not just sex BTW. It is not rocket science, it is easy to figure out from the outside and is the same for all people when they turn to something and it comes an obsession - since you now want to use that word.
I will also add that I don't understand why if you really want help, why ask a bunch of pervs who mostly want to be here. You need the ANTI Escort Board. Contact your local church, I am sure they can point you in the right direction. They will probably sugar coat it all nice for you too as well as blame the devil so you have no responsibility in this issue you have either.
yikes! everyone is different. Sex addiction to you might mean fucking 10 guys twice a day, while to that religious guy, sex addiction might be jerking off once a week. No need to judge someone because he/she has different views than you.Oh, I am sorry but am I suppose to hold your hand and walk you through your issue with chicken soup and ice cream like mama did when you were a kid???? Give me a break.
You are saying something that you are not. You are looking for help for something you are not. Maybe if you truly found out what your issue was, you could find the RIGHT help that you need. But hey, I am not being helpful enough because I didn't say it all nice and sweet like????
Sorry. You are not a sex addict. That is probably the best help you have gotten in this whole thread, because now you can focus on the real issue.
wow! just wow! isn't alcohol or drug addictions the same then? Its the inability to control yourself. Just like alcohol or drug addictions, sex affects your brain too and put you through withdrawl periods if you cut it off cold turkey (although not nearly as intense ofcourse). If only you'd take more time to read up on the net about the human brain, how it develops, alters, functions etc, rather than just taking whatever information people shove down your throat and then trying to sound like a self-righteous fool on here xDThe people who truly suffer from sex addiction get quit annoyed when people use the term so freely when in reality it is just a lack of self control. Those are the people who care, but it is nice to know you are only thinking of you and what you think and how you feel and tell hell with anyone else. All about you you YOU!
As for so now what???? Grow some balls and stop - OR - learn to live with it because it is what you want - OR - do to a doctor to get diagnosed and helped. How is that not useful? Those are your options. Sorry I didn't include the last one because I knew it was pointless. Again, you are not upset with my advice, you are upset that I didn't hold your hand and stroke your hair and tell you everything will all right. Big difference. Reality it what it. You have only those 3 options. I told you what they are. Simple.
I did help!!!! I helped the most. It is NOT sex addiction. That is the biggest help you can get on a site based on sex. Being told the truth. It is not sex addiction and so long as you continue to use that excuse for your behavior, you are never going to get the "proper" help you need or want.
I don't understand why people ask for help and then because they simply don't like the answer or the way it was presented, they dismiss it like it is nothing. What you have is lack of will power added to the fact that you are clearly lacking something in your life that is making you turn to this hobby to fill it. The lacking is not just sex BTW. It is not rocket science, it is easy to figure out from the outside and is the same for all people when they turn to something and it comes an obsession - since you now want to use that word.
I will also add that I don't understand why if you really want help, why ask a bunch of pervs who mostly want to be here. You need the ANTI Escort Board. Contact your local church, I am sure they can point you in the right direction. They will probably sugar coat it all nice for you too as well as blame the devil so you have no responsibility in this issue you have either.
Thank you! Whether it be drugs,alcohol, food,sex.....whatever....i can not judge what amount is harmful to another. And no the help won't come from this thread., of course but it's a start and possibly has helped him and maybe others. I've been in recovery for 18 years and when someone reaches out, why bash them down....? I have met alcoholics who drank once a week and others who drank every day but the feelings and suffering were the same. Maybe Libbey is a sex addict .....maybe he isn't.. ...who cares but him. That's all that matters. Some great advice was given.yikes! everyone is different. Sex addiction to you might mean fucking 10 guys twice a day, while to that religious guy, sex addiction might be jerking off once a week. No need to judge someone because he/she has different views than you.
Masturbate.Guys. I need some help. I have been trying to quit the hobby for over a year now.