I don't believe that is the case at all. So I will politely agree to disagree.Not picking on you specifically. This is just our society's mindset. It is always the cyclist's fault. Here is another example. When a woman gets raped, it is always the woman's fault.
As for the women's fault. I don't believe that either. It is not her fault that she got raped, but being a women, I am not going to irresponsible enough to possibly put myself in a situation where that can happen if I can help it.
What society lacks is accountability for your own personal actions.