When will I be a "Mature Gentleman"?

karth

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It seems as if this term is used rather loosely between ladies.
I've heard everything from 25+, 50+, only men who wear dress shoes, etc.

I look on the younger side of life but I always show up
in business casual, clean shaven, polite, fresh, etc.
But I've been let down a few times because I'm not a "mature gentleman". Ugh.

Is it my babyface? I knew I should've been a Lumberjack :(

Ladies, define "mature gentleman". Please.
 

danmand

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If you ask, you are.
 

train

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If you are old, grumpy and argumentative like danmand and Mrs CALoki (and half a dozen others), call yourself old like oldjones or have onset dementia :D musically and/or politically like Woody you are a "Mature Gentleman".

On the other hand if you just have some gey hair you are "distinguished".
 

FatOne

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I am not mature. A mature person knows his country's national anthem and I can never remember past.. "My county is of thee, Austro Hungary obay your king.

Also I really upset with those damn kids on my front yard, how mature is that. It has gotten to the point where I've had to stop making milkshakes.
 

simon482

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Being mature is the energy you exude. Having confidence in who you are as a man and not being bogged down by silly things others have told you. If you are solid with who you are, comments that don't feel true for you will bounce off of you. Good luck honey :)
yeah i was making a joke. calm down.
 

FatOne

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MissCroft

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Being mature is the energy you exude. Having confidence in who you are as a man......

So very true. I find it doesn't necessarily depend on age - I've met very young men who are mature beyond their years (and classy, charming, etc.) and older men who seem to be lacking in that department. Maturity and confidence are big turn-ons for me and when it's not there, it can be a turn-off. Just because someone is paying me doesn't mean I have to deal with their immature BS. Sorry - a tiny bit of a rant! LOL
 

Amber Rosa

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So very true. I find it doesn't necessarily depend on age - I've met very young men who are mature beyond their years (and classy, charming, etc.) and older men who seem to be lacking in that department. Maturity and confidence are big turn-ons for me and when it's not there, it can be a turn-off. Just because someone is paying me doesn't mean I have to deal with their immature BS. Sorry - a tiny bit of a rant! LOL
Nice MissCroft! I like your assertiveness and sentiments :)
 

danmand

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If you are old, grumpy and argumentative like danmand and Mrs CALoki (and half a dozen others), call yourself old like oldjones or have onset dementia :D musically and/or politically like Woody you are a "Mature Gentleman".
Grumpy is a state of mind, independent of age, and being argumentive is a Terb attribute.
 

TRossi

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If you have to ask, then you've still got a little ways to go.

Maturity is not determined by age. Unfortunately, I don't think any SP can 'define' the term for you. It's more of a sense they get about you when you first contact them or first meet them.

Also, notice how it's Mature Gentlemen, they're willing to meet and not simply Mature Men?
 

FatOne

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Grumpy is a state of mind, independent of age, and being argumentive is a Terb attribute.
Some would say it is more than an attribute, more of a requirement.

I've met very young men who are mature beyond their years (and classy, charming, etc.) a
One can be mature without being classy and charming. One can also be classy and charming and be an immature git.
 

ogibowt

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"mature gentleman"?..when you can cum only once
 

mrsCALoki

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If you are old, grumpy and argumentative like danmand and Mrs CALoki (and half a dozen others), call yourself old like oldjones or have onset dementia :D musically and/or politically like Woody you are a "Mature Gentleman".

On the other hand if you just have some gey hair you are "distinguished".
Wow no one ever called me a gentleman before lol
 

Ian

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I never describe my hair as grey its, "Arctic Blonde"
 

mrsCALoki

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If you have to ask, then you've still got a little ways to go.

Maturity is not determined by age. Unfortunately, I don't think any SP can 'define' the term for you. It's more of a sense they get about you when you first contact them or first meet them.
For me it is man with class and who knows who he is. :)
 
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