Newbie Question About Prostate Massage... Sorry :(

[Ember.GFE]

Ok, so this may make me sound like such a newbie (try not to laugh please ), but nobody is giving me a definite answer.


I've been getting a lot of requests for "prostate massage". I honestly don't know what it involves so I never agree to it. :fear:

One time, a potential client requested it, and I had asked him what he expected me to do. All I got was an angry reply, because somehow (being an escort and all) I'm expected to know everything about sex and fetishes. Sorry, I didn't mean to sound rude, but escorts have the right learn on the job too


xo Ember

 

[d_jedi]

Short answer.. sticking your finger up his ass.
I would suggest not offering this service if you don't know what you're doing..

 

[LurkingInMyTent]

I'm sure that you can get pretty good information on-line with a little effort, but the one question is how long are your fingers? I've had a couple of partners try this with me and they could barely reach the prostrate, much less massage it. They were both rather petite women with small hands.

Also, as for anything anal - lots of lubrication and use either medical examination gloves, or slip your finger(s) inside a condom.

 

[benito]

Not quite as simple as that. You stick your finger up his ass (using latex glove or condom on finger and lots of lube) and find his prostate gland, then you gently massage it while playing with his cock. If you massage it properly you can make him cum without even touching his cock. I agree with d-jedi that you shouldn't do it if you dont know what you are doing. I have had several ladies say they know what they are doing and then proceed to ram their finger in and out of my ass like they were fucking it. Not very pleasant. Best one I had was an mpa who had been a nurse and knew the anatomy. She used two fingers- it was fantastic and unforgetable.. If you learn how to do it properly you will have a skill thet will increase your popularity immensly. If you like I will be happy to let you practice on me until you get it right.

 

[MyHobbyist]

just "MILK" it

 

[Mod100]

The G-Spot or Sacred Spot of a man is his prostate gland.

How to:-



http://www.whitelotuseast.com/SacredSpotMassage.htm


If you wish to practice just pm me.

 

[Ember.GFE]

Short answer.. sticking your finger up his ass.
I would suggest not offering this service if you don't know what you're doing..

Thanks! I knew it had to do something with that, but I couldn't put my finger on it

 

[Ember.GFE]

If you like I will be happy to let you practice on me until you get it right.

If you wish to practice just pm me.

I'll keep it mind

 

[Mod100]

Thanks! I knew it had to do something with that, but I couldn't put my finger on it

Grown.

There are a number of SPs here that offer this service and it would be a good addition for you. Also a lot of the MPAs offer this. Emily at Muse (owner/partner) is nice and would probably be able to help.

100

 

[Azprint]

I believe there are toys for it as well? Strap on looking thing?

 

[katcalla]

I would recommend making your way to a good sex shop (not Stag type) and ask staff to help you with finding books/DVDs on the subject. Tristan Taormino has a great DVD about anal pleasure for men which features everything you need to know about prostate massage.

 

[mrsCALoki]

Not quite as simple as that. You stick your finger up his ass (using latex glove or condom on finger and lots of lube) and find his prostate gland, then you gently massage it while playing with his cock. If you massage it properly you can make him cum without even touching his cock. I agree with d-jedi that you shouldn't do it if you dont know what you are doing. I have had several ladies say they know what they are doing and then proceed to ram their finger in and out of my ass like they were fucking it. Not very pleasant. Best one I had was an mpa who had been a nurse and knew the anatomy. She used two fingers- it was fantastic and unforgetable.. If you learn how to do it properly you will have a skill thet will increase your popularity immensly. If you like I will be happy to let you practice on me until you get it right.

And if the prostate is not smooth or seems bigger than last time, tell him to go see his Doctor.

 

[oldjones]

I try to pay close attention to my manicure before meetings, as do the ladies I am sure. But this thread seems a proper place to ask the men about nails: Natural or enhanced?

 

[TeasePlease]

And if the prostate is not smooth or seems bigger than last time, tell him to go see his Doctor.

I try to pay close attention to my manicure before meetings, as do the ladies I am sure. But this thread seems a proper place to ask the men about nails: Natural or enhanced?

Good points both.

If not done properly, a pm could really mess up your ass in a life-threatening way.

 

[GPIDEAL]

Dear Ember,

Sometimes knuckle depth insertion with an in/out motion can give a sensation to make a guy cum, but only if he wants that. It's not a prostate massage, but for guys who like rim jobs it could be equally pleasurable.

If I'm feeling light or empty and in the mood, a PM can induce a faster or the necessary orgasm to finish the session when one is 'stubborn'. There's also something hot & nasty about a girl with her finger deep inside a a guys ass.

I call both the knuckle depth massage or the PM as my 'reset buttons', cuz they re-boot me for an orgasm, if I'm not cumming in conventional ways. RJ's are also another way to get me hard, and even cum fast with simultaneous oral stimulation or HJ.

 

[Klute]

Perhaps you should register for an upcoming workshop at "Come as you are". See link
http://www.comeasyouare.com/default/index.cfm/toronto-store-information/sex-workshops/


Note the Prostate Pleasure workshop with Jon Pressick on November 26, 2012. Only $25.

With Jon Pressick What sexual practice has noted health benefits? If you guessed prostate massage then you’re spot on - p-spot that is! This workshop covers anatomy, techniques, toys and health benefits—while at the same time showcasing the incredible pleasure and intimacy of prostate massage. Anyone who is interested in maximizing pleasure, whether they have a prostate or not, is welcome to attend. When: Monday, November 26, 2012 7:30-9:30PM Where: Come As You Are Cost:$25/person (Sliding Scale Available) | Learn more about Prostate Passion Workshop.

 

[GPIDEAL]

Ember,

There's a toy called an Aneros which specifically stimulates the Prostate.

http://www.aneros.com/learning-center/

I have one but have rarely used it, although it's better than a butt plug or dildo. I guy can use it himself, and it's got an ergonomic shape which makes it special. I suppose you can put a condom on one of these and use it. They are equipped with mini-handles, so you can slide it in (and out if they want). Due to it's special shape, it's not painful or discomforting.

So using such a 'tool' may take some of the learning curve out of doing it digitally. Maybe I'll bring mine and let you use it on me