From penetration to ejaculation: how long is ideal for you?

[prestokeys]

So let's not include the foreplay (which you may assume have already happened), and let's not change positions in sex. So penetration, then go to town, and then finally the release. What is the minimum number of minutes you would like it to last? I think premature ejaculation is considered 2 minutes or less.

My answer is 30 minutes, but unless I am changing positions, I rarely can go past 20 minutes before cumming. I just cannot get in that extra 10 minutes.

 

[kynorth]

Hard to answer but I picked 20 mins. I'd be interested in the insight from our lady friends on this board - I've been told from a number of them before that after a certain point it's like "WTF, get on with it already".

Typically by 20 minutes we've had lots of variety, if she's going to cum she has, and I've worked up a good release. I'm sure that if we went 60 minutes there would be even more variety but I think there's a point of diminishing returns.

Besides, most porn clips are 10 minutes so isn't that considered normal??

My $0.02.

 

[pu55yz]

30 to 40 min is ideal for me i mean including all positions from doggy 10 minute of that everything follows after. I mean that's good enough time for the girl to cum. It does take me awhile as well to cum.

 

[prestokeys]

I have gone over 30 minutes before, purposely by holding back each time I approach the point of no return, but it's just not fun anymore after 30 minutes and have lost my erection before. It feels like work to get it back, making me think "God! Why didn't I cum when I had the chance!" and I have to struggle to be able to finally cum.

 

[frankcastle]

I won't vote because for me it's not about length of time it's about the orgasm. I can't explain what makes an orgasm more intense than another one but what I can say is that it is not dependent on length of fucking. Hell it doesn't even have to include vaginal penetration. A good hj/bj works just as well if not better IMO.

As for the woman well I can't speak for her.

 

[blackrock13]

How much time do I have? What that principle, that the time it takes to do a task is directly related to the time available; Parkinson's Law.

 

[FatOne]

1 minute. I get what I need and can go back to watching big bang theory or eating pizza.

Ideally 1 minute and be primed for round 2 right away, rapid fire. If I had powers that is.

 

[Ceiling Cat]

I would say from insertion to ejaculation and withdraw, 5-7 minutes is pretty average. When I was 20, I use to be able to do a double header where I would cum after 5 - 7 minutes and continue humping for the second blast. It took about 15 minutes. I use to get complaints that I was in too long. Even up to 30 I still had super powers. I once did an angry hump where I was out for revenge. I humped her for an hour straight going from her three orifices in rotation. I watched the clock and only gave in when it hit one hour. True story.

 

[Mod100]

How long? Oh, about 30 seconds after she starts to orgasm.

 

[FAST]

Out of control

How long? Oh, about 30 seconds after she starts to orgasm.

YEP,...thats a good trigger !!!

FAST

 

[lenny2]

How long would i like heaven to last? 24/7/365.

But things like sleep, eat, work, exhaustion, lack of self-control, "your time is up", "can you cum?", "i need to pee", etc, cum in the way.

 

[S.C. Joe]

10 mins is about right for me, depends on the gal, some seem to get tried in 5 mins - which is OK with me so long as shes good for seconds after a shower or rest

Yeah 15 mins is nice but then sometimes if I hold back -slow down and then pick up again, I can't finish -dicks pretty hard but the full feeling is gone - and an hour later shes gone, the 20's were the best but then for me the chicks are cooler today then in the 80's, well maybe not all but I meet more great ones now then before. Cell phones are so sweet, its easier today to hook up

 

[BlakeLondon]

To the two guys who said over an hour.....it had to have been a Viagra night. if not you both are rocking it with cock out...or is that in? LOL

 

[MrJake]

I'm usually between 2 and 3 hours.

 

[blackrock13]

To the two guys who said over an hour.....it had to have been a Viagra night. if not you both are rocking it with cock out...or is that in? LOL

Maybe they just think of dead kittens to pass the time or aren't young bucks trying to prove themselves and can control themselves longer. I remember one guy over a few wobbly pops, claim he could make love to a woman all night long, but only once.

 

[S.C. Joe]

"I'm usually between 2 and 3 hours."


Drugs or your 19, lol


..........

It can depend on the gal as well, some are great to get and keep you going longer

 

[babemagnet]

I seem to remember reading somewhere that women need at least 20 to 30 minutes of thrusting to get off. Back in the day, there seemed to be no limit to what they could take. As long as you could go. Anyway those days are gone. If they say anything else, they are just lying or being polite. Anyway. Ideal would be the all nighters of my youth.

 

[S.C. Joe]

I seem to remember reading somewhere that women need at least 20 to 30 minutes of thrusting to get off. .

Who knows, it might be how quickly relax they become...I would guess it "feels good" right from the start unless the guy is rough.

Sometimes feeling good is fun, sure its like you got cheated if you don;t lose it and it could had felt better but it still was some "fun"..maybe gals get to be like that, just enjoy the feeling for a while and don't climax some of the times.

 

[calvin & hobbes]

It all depends for me. If I'm bare ( with a S.O. of course ) then about 7-10 minutes. If I'm covered then about 15-20 minutes. If I don't blow for the first build up ( ie slow down or stop or hold back ) then even though I'm still hard I can go 45 to an hour and still might not blow. I did that one time with an escort and was able to go over an hour of non-stop pounding. She finally said "ENOUGH" and told me to stop and she couldn't take anymore. She said she hadn't been fucked like that since she was in high school. Don't know if that was a good or bad thing.

 

[LKD]

weak sauces... some of you guys need to learn the art of tantric sex, learn to hold in orgasms as long as you want.

It depends on how turned on/hard I am, which could be due to many factors like how pretty the girl is, how good she is during play (ie: does she lay there bored like a dead meat, or is into it), how tight she is, etc. I'd say it lasts atleast 8 to 15 mins at the least... most is like 45mins with different positions not including round 2

I'd be more interested in hearing from girls... how long they like it? what is too short/too long for them?