any pua's on terb....

Terminator2000

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Theres a guy at work thats driving me crazy. Most of the women at my workplace are drop dead gorgeous. Not only. But they are also all married. This guy not only lies like theres no tomorrow. But hes also chasing after every single lady in the entire building. Which is fine. What bothers me is that im onto him. I know his entire game which he spits out while im standing nearby as he says every word to them. Now. I cannot be around him every minute hes at work to catch all his lines but its mostly verbal game. Hes also a pretty ugly asshole. I also can detect every one of his liez but never let him know that i know. I also havent told him im onto his game even tho he also lied that hes into pickup.

As i stand beside him. I listen to him as he drops dhvs after dhvs while talking to the ladies shamelessly. All of them married. He also has a girlfriend he told me and said hes engaged to be married with his fiance in november. I dont know if thats not what you call a scumbag. Then i dont know what is. He spits off how he travels here and there and etc etc etc. And the ladies eat it all up.

Im sure all the male members whom have been practicing pickup understand his patterns. Ive been studying pickup for more than 3 years and im only juat scratching the surface. And i can tell every single dhv that he drops when talking to them. I even listen to him dropping dhvs shamelessly to the beautiful ladies while their husbands are standing there without a clue of what hes doing. Problem is. I like these ladies and ive been working with them for years and find it hard to see them falling for the cheapest pua tricks with this guy going around trying to bang them behind the curtains. Also. Its making the workplace environment poisonous with all the politics and behind the back talking and potential for backstabbing.

Problem is im not as good a pua as he is and not able to dhv like he does in some areas...

Maybe a little help or advice from some puas would be very much appreciated.
 

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Theres a guy at work thats driving me crazy. Most of the women at my workplace are drop dead gorgeous. Not only. But they are also all married. This guy not only lies like theres no tomorrow. But hes also chasing after every single lady in the entire building. Which is fine. What bothers me is that im onto him. I know his entire game which he spits out while im standing nearby as he says every word to them. Now. I cannot be around him every minute hes at work to catch all his lines but its mostly verbal game. Hes also a pretty ugly asshole. I also can detect every one of his liez but never let him know that i know. I also havent told him im onto his game even tho he also lied that hes into pickup.

As i stand beside him. I listen to him as he drops dhvs after dhvs while talking to the ladies shamelessly. All of them married. He also has a girlfriend he told me and said hes engaged to be married with his fiance in november. I dont know if thats not what you call a scumbag. Then i dont know what is. He spits off how he travels here and there and etc etc etc. And the ladies eat it all up.

Im sure all the male members whom have been practicing pickup understand his patterns. Ive been studying pickup for more than 3 years and im only juat scratching the surface. And i can tell every single dhv that he drops when talking to them. Problem is. I like these ladies and find it hard to see this guy going around trying to bang them behind the curtains. Also. Its making the workplace environment poisonous with all the politics and behind the back talking and potential for backstabbing.

Problem is im not able to dhv like he does in some areas...

Maybe a little help or advice from some puas would be very much appreciated.
IANAPUA, but education can help...if the women in your office aren't aware of standard pua techniques, drop hints about funny books you've read lately, (like 'The Game' by Neil Stauss, that's mainstream enough) and talk about those techniques like negs, dhvs, etc.

Maybe they'll figure out that this guy is doing the same thing to them? But you'll have to be willing to give up your own use of those techniques though because they'll catch on if you try the same
 

Ohyesuare

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Has it actually worked though, has he even got to bang any of them? Maybe they can tell its bullshit just like you can.
 

Terminator2000

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1. The fact that this pua sh*t works on married women bothers me and encouragez them to stray on their husbands bothers me.

2. The fact that hes a lying scumbag and ive been studying pua for 3 years and hes still better at it.

3. The fact that i like these ladies, have been working with them for years and they suddenly stop talking to you cause they suddenly fancy him and dont want you to know their little secret that theyre interested in him even though theyre married.

4. The fact that ive been studying this sh*t for 3 years and i still suck at it and hes better at it. And not only . Its working so effectively for him.

5. The fact that hes not following the rule, dont sh*t where you eat. Which is a rule i would break also. So this makes me a hypocrite. Also, see #3.
 

Terminator2000

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Has it actually worked though, has he even got to bang any of them? Maybe they can tell its bullshit just like you can.

No. You can tell it works if you watch. The ladies are good at hiding it but if you watch the subtle signs of how they seek to initiate conversation with him and become so receptive when hes around. And their body language and how they watch you when theyre with him hoping you wont figure it out even tho theyre married hoping you wont tell anyone or gossip. One key sign is proximity. How close they allow themselves to get to him and the other sign is how receptive they become to talking to him and/or conversation.


It just goes to show. Its not how nice, good or honest you are. Its only all about how good a pua you are. Thats all that matters. This is the perfect example of a nice guy versus a bad boy.
 

Terminator2000

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Has it actually worked though, has he even got to bang any of them? Maybe they can tell its bullshit just like you can.
And thats the worst part
If he has banged any one of them. Youll never get to know until you find out in the worst way like theyre hiding somewhere. And they could be talking via cellphone, bbm, text and there is no way you can ever know. Also, he could be saying sh*t and lies about you to turn them against you which ive caught him doing afew times already.
 

Ohyesuare

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Ya its true, I have seen some ugly, overweight guys have beautiful ladies wrapped around their finger because they are a good pua and fun to be around for the ladies I guess? Just keep watching him and maybe you can learn, or better yet tell him you are not worthy and you want to learn from the great master. It seems like too much effort when if you have the cash you can just go pay for it.
 

Terminator2000

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Ya its true, I have seen some ugly, overweight guys have beautiful ladies wrapped around their finger because they are a good pua and fun to be around for the ladies I guess? Just keep watching him and maybe you can learn, or better yet tell him you are not worthy and you want to learn from the great master. It seems like too much effort when if you have the cash you can just go pay for it.
Thats the whole point of this thread. How the ugly overweight guys get the beautiful ladies wrapped around their finger
 

Samurai Joey

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No. You can tell it works if you watch. The ladies are good at hiding it but if you watch the subtle signs of how they seek to initiate conversation with him and become so receptive when hes around. And their body language and how they watch you when theyre with him hoping you wont figure it out even tho theyre married hoping you wont tell anyone or gossip. One key sign is proximity. How close they allow themselves to get to him and the other sign is how receptive they become to talking to him and/or conversation.


It just goes to show. Its not how nice, good or honest you are. Its only all about how good a pua you are. Thats all that matters. This is the perfect example of a nice guy versus a bad boy.
Just because the (ostensibly married) women at your workplace seek to initiate conversation with your male co-worker or enjoy his "game" doesn't necessarily mean that they are having an affair with him. It's possible that they enjoy the flirtatious behaviour and play on it, but may never actually cross the line into infidelity.

It's also possible that at least some of the women may indeed be onto his BS like you are, but are simply playing along for amusement.
 

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Just because the (ostensibly married) women at your workplace seek to initiate conversation with your male co-worker or enjoy his "game" doesn't necessarily mean that they are having an affair with him. It's possible that they enjoy the flirtatious behaviour and play on it, but may never actually cross the line into infidelity.

It's also possible that at least some of the women may indeed be onto his BS like you are, but are simply playing along for amusement.
Terminator, I have a good relationship with 80-100 women at work. A great relationship with about 15 of them. All of this helps in the business world. I socialise a little with some of them. Have visited quite a few when they have been off on mat leave. Get invited to their kids bday parties. I get teased about all of this by some of the guys at work. If they actually think that there is something going then they seriousely underestimate these ladies. I doubt that your office Lothario is getting anywhere, and might in fact be a source of amusement or a nuisance. He might end up in HR one day.

I think you need to look at what you wrote and how you feel about this guy. You need to be responsible for how you feel, yet you are granting that power to him by comparing his outside to how you feel inside. Examine if the Green Eyed Monster is bringing out the worst of the White Knight in you. Trust me, all men have this in them to some degree. Who does not want to rescue the Fair Damsel and slay the Dragon. "Celticman raises hand here". Its what we do about all of this that matters. Besides, the vast majority of women do NOT need to be resued. Trust me :) Why not quietly ask one of the women what she thinks is actually going on. Good Luck !!!
 

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the hobby needs more capitalism
*pretends to get all mad and flustered because he knows thats what the terb members want to see cause they find it super entertaining when terminator gets all mad and flustered...*
Nice try. Your first and second post in this thread scream butthurt.
 
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