Cam, you are suffering from the typical Newbie misconception. There is a veritable cornucopia of women out there waiting to look after your every need. You don't need to "settle" for any old woman. This isn't the real world. It's Wonderland for Big Boys.
So be specific and someone will direct you to exactly what you need.
Having said that, sometimes the most fun can be had by stepping out of your most familiar territory. I usually like very lean, almost skinny girls, like you. Yesterday I tried a new girl while I was out of town... complete shot in the dark. It turns out she had a few extra pounds on her, big boobs and a big round ass. And we had a ball.
I suggest that you start by someone who is the opposite of your ex... just for fun.
Congrats on the divorce by the way. And glad you have enough money left for a little leisure time!
You might try seeing the recently returned Callista Foxxx. She is an advertiser here. While I haven't seen her since her return, if she's anything like she was last time, you're in for a serious ball-draining.
http://misscallistafoxxx.com/