Does it come with experience? Should I get slightly buzzed before I visit? Don't know about you guys but I need to establish some sort of connection before I can make love to somebody.
How do you get comfortable/establish chemistry with an SP in such short time?
- Thread starter DemLatsSoClose
- Start date
it's definitely not something you can read in a book to learn how to do. you basically have to be yourself and see how things go. sometimes it happens instantly others it takes more then one visit.
didn't for a second think you were negative, i see you as having a sarcastic in a funny way sense of humour. sort of like a dry wit which is rare and hard to pull off. i was in socal and saw a lord of the rings collectors edition pez set, it had everyone. if i had known i would have gotten it for you. i would have given it to you in trade for gummi worms as they are my favorite of the gummi, even more when you tie them in a knot and then chew on the knot. next time i am in socal the truck stop i go to has a 1 pound gummi bear.
While this seems a bit of a goofy post, I like a bit of a "connection" too and have been hobbying for 1/3 my life, so here's what I've learned.
1. Choose well, read reviews here, and look for descriptions of something that is more than just a suck and fuck.
2. Think of it as a date. By this I mean, get excited, shower, dress good (no Armani suit required, but a nice shirt and a clean pair of your best jeans). Goes without saying, but shower and shave beforehand.
3. Basic stuff, but when you meet, there is a person in front of you. Treat her as such, and she will do the same.
4. Talk a bit, and be honest. No don't divulge all of your deepest darkest secrets, your t4 income, and your sin# but do be yourself. Don't be a fake.
5. Listen to and be interested in her. Odds are, she is pretty interesting. Most people a if you make th effort.
6. Have fun. Sex is fun, laugh. Don't go in with an expectation of "ticking boxes" of stuff you want to do- go with the flow, and enjoy being with a cool fun person.
Golden rules! It makes paid sex more fun and when used well in civi world (esp 3 4 5) chances of free sex will be much increased too LOL !
I'm worried she'll convince me to become a nihilist.Used to like her, but now I'm scared she will criticize my knitting skills.
