debris: are you short or horrifically ugly? I expect to reach that mark. Single, not sexually attractive to women & not changing anytime soon.
Partyman: I'm 5'11" which used to be tall but whatever growth hormones are in the milk now-a-day seem to make the kids all taller than me now. Ugly? I'm no Brad Pitt, I'd say average - look younger than my age, fit, healthy, good hair.
I have attractive female friends who are married to men shorter than they are, who make less money than they do, who aren't particularily interesting or exciting, who aren't in super dupper shape - yet they are married to very attractive women (such that I'd marry them!).
I really am not up to date on your posts and such like other posters seem to be so I pass no judgement. I can understand why you have asked (apparently) similar questions - basically asking "what is wrong with me?" Terb is not such a good forum for soul seaching, you will not find too many people who can relate - dating and relationships come very easy for most people (the finding and getting into one part, not so much the making it last part but remember things that come easily rarely last), I've asked myself the same "what is wrong question", I still don't know the answer.
From all outward appearances no one would suspect such a dismal dsr record - a dry spell only surpased by the Leafs. It would be easier if I could point to one thing like you point to height (or maybe someone else got on the hight thing...doesn't matter) that explains everything but I can't and I suspect neither can you. I urge you to check out the wikipedia entry for love shyness, it might provide you with some answers. Some of the posters here are alluding to the c- word that you are lacking (confidence). Pretty common response, the importance of which is not to be overlooked, but it is not the Rosetta Stone that will make everything else fall into place.
Good luck, stay strong.