Ladies have diff sex drive and climaxing rhythm than men. My experience (BTW, i'm an Asian guy with some exp with Asain ladies in CV life) is to BUILT UP the love-making by going slowly from romantic setting (as per HER taste) and steer steadily towards sex with LOTS of simulatings. The most important thing is you have to know WHAT she likes. Good luck.
My gf doesn't cum
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Oh oh ..your cover is blown now that you are an Asian. Damn.. I still have to figure out what part of Asia you are from? lol.
With a name like 'mohan' he is obviously South Asian, EI, or would like us to think he is. Didn't you know that?
Sorry you're wrong dude, it's a HANDLE not a name,
. I do not play this game of eliminating possibility, or you'll guess out WHAT i am, hahaah. KJ, on the thread that i got really bashed about (you did post on too) i explained that i am Asian already, like 3 months ago.No matter which part of Asia, we ar kind of related KJ, check in your pants. It's called BROTHERHOOD.
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Ok, but you can't deny that choosing a handle with 'mohan' in it wasn't done to deliberately make us think that you were EI.Sorry you're wrong dude, it's a HANDLE not a name,
No matter which part of Asia, we ar kind of related KJ, check in your pants. It's called BROTHERHOOD.
I picked a handle mainly for the purpose of easy-recalling, randomly from ...yellowpages, to be honest. I did not know then that i would be so "involved" to almost 2,000 posts in such a short time. If i had known it, i would choose a handle that would mislead you guys more, something like Wiseguy, Toughdude, Agreeable...and such, LOL. Yah! could i change my handle to LOL'er? Anyway, i look up your "handle", which meaning you want to "mislead" us?:
punter (plural punters)
-One who bets (punts) against the bank (banque).
-One who oars or poles a punt (pontoon).
-One who punts a football.
-(UK, slang) one who gambles. See speculator.
-(UK, slang) A customer of a commercial establishment, frequently of a pub or (alternatively) of a prostitute.
All is for fun, right? Maybe EI i am,
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P.s: personally i think that EI is generally the least knowledgable on Asian ladies topic, for the meaning of Asian used here NOT including EI, Pakistanies, Sri Lankans...
I've tried a lot of clit stimulation, g spot fingering, vibrators, sucking and licking that thing until my mouth is numb. Just a never ending climax.
I think the suggestions about it being mental are spot on. Not sure if it's a barrier/block, or just something missing. Definitely no fantasies or any way I can turn her on with any words.
By the way, she's very well educated and hard working with a 6 figure job.
Thank god Loki's eye sight will be terrible by the time I look like thatOMG! MrsCALoki of the future!
As her if she has any fantasies that she would like to fulfill. Sometimes, you can discuss them during the height of sexual play to get her off. This keeps those fantasies benign (like pretending to be in front of porno production cameras). Or maybe she really wants to fuck in a room with others doing the same thing, like a swingers' club.
Tell her that you won't judge her and not to hold back.
You mentioned that your GF is Chinese. Is she an immigrant to this country, or is she a 1st or 2nd generation Canadian?
The reason I'm asking is that I'm wondering if she was brought up in a traditional Chinese home (which, from what I understand from what some of my Chinese friends have told me, tends to be very conservative with regards to sexual mores). If so, then it's possible that she is, at least to a certain extent, sexually repressed and very reluctant to talk openly of sexual fantasies.
If that is the case, it may well take considerable time and patience for her to open herself up to this, and let herself feel comfortable enough with her own body or her own sexuality to experience orgasms. Now this is just my humble opinion, so you can take this for what it's worth.
Sounds like you have my fantasy soul mate
Keep trying and one day she will relax enough for it to happen. Worst case you can quit your job and be her boy toy Look at this way at least shes willing to attempt to have good energetic sex either to please you, herself or both which means shes not as bad as some of the ladies who were described in the replies. This GF at least does not see sex as dirty or immoral so that's a good starting point.