I think most of us have problems with attracting women. That's at least part of the reason we are in this hobby. I'm not as successful as I would like to be women, Hell, by some standards, I'm quite unsuccessful. And yeah, after getting shot down a few times in a night, or by a woman that you were interested in, it's tough. It really is, and I understand the self-pity and the misdirected anger. But, honestly, Partyman (and for this post I'm not insulting you, or assuming you're gay), why are you doing this? How is what you're doing, which is spewing bitterness and anger, and self-pity, helping you? Do you honestly feel better about yourself? Are you receiving feedback either here, or through PMs from other people here, that validates you, or makes you feel less alone? It takes a bit of effort to write your posts and click the submit button. You are consciously choosing to post these threads, when you could be doing so much else with your time. I know it doesn't take all that much time, especially when you're basically reitarating things that you've posted hundreds of times before, but it still takes some time. In the time (and I'm also not assuming you're cute-bald, although there's strong evidence that you are) that you've been here, have you gained any real understanding of why you're alone? Do you feel better about your life? Or are you simply caught in a feedback loop where you post your bitterness, look at one or two replies that confirm your biases, ignore the vast quantities of good replies that do offer legitimate advice, and then feel the need to validate your worldview and take the heat off yourself and put it on the height fairy, or on "shallow" woman by posting even more of your crap? Is it some giant self-flagellation mission that you're on?
I'm honestly curious why you keep doing this to yourself and to us? I can't imagine anything more depressing than to keeping whining about my insecurities and faults to a bunch of anonymous people on the interwebs and to keep doing it, not changing any arguments or complaints.