The thrill of the chase ?
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I guess I meant more of ... the unknown when you meet an SP for the first time ... maybe just a stupid question ..
I know what the OP is talking about. Chase may be the wrong term but I know I get all geared up when going to a SC (especially one ive never been to) in wonder of who may be there or what experience I may about to have. Sometimes searching backpage theres a bit of excitment in finding that new gem
sure is...
see someone online you like...you may look around looking at pictures or reading comments...you may get in touch online with the sp to get the "balls" rolling...
nothing wrong with a little sexual anticipation...sucks when it becomes a frustration...but hey...you can't get back yesterday!
see someone online you like...you may look around looking at pictures or reading comments...you may get in touch online with the sp to get the "balls" rolling...
nothing wrong with a little sexual anticipation...sucks when it becomes a frustration...but hey...you can't get back yesterday!
I'm guessing from what I've seen/ heard, there's a bit on both sides! :eyebrows:
Well said! I like the anticipation but when it takes too long it turns into frustration. I think the timing has to be just right.
@Dave_75
I think I know where you are coming from on this. Personally when it comes to hobbying, I find something I like, try and get the details worked out as efficiently as possible, and take on the appointment.
However, I have a buddy with whom I do hobby with from time to time. He seems to enjoy the whole setting up for the appointment aspect. He is meticulous in his reseach. Spends hours at it, checking BP, review sites etc. Sends out emails, PMS, etc. LOL, I am sure some women have come to find him to be a bit of "tire kicker".
At any rate, I was kidding him about this seeemingly obsessive behavour some time ago, and he basically told me the research, setup and anticipation of the appointment are NEARLY as important as the rendez-vous itself.
I don't quite understand it, but to each there own!
Cheers,
To me hobbying (in my case visiting MP as seeing SP is not for me) is like
shopping in the meat market. There is either satisfaction or dissatisfaction.
I've had disappointment in the most reputable steakhouse and surprising
delight in the not so well known place. But I didn't find such experience thrilling
in any way. I simply exercise caution every time I look for another piece of meat
to purchase.
shopping in the meat market. There is either satisfaction or dissatisfaction.
I've had disappointment in the most reputable steakhouse and surprising
delight in the not so well known place. But I didn't find such experience thrilling
in any way. I simply exercise caution every time I look for another piece of meat
to purchase.
I get it it-- I usually reserve the notion of 'the chase' for civi girls (in TERB speak), but I love my SC crawls for the same reason (though I haven't been feeling it lately). I never step out the door with any expectations beyond burning some money, and never with any given dancer in mind. But the online research, planning my route, then hitting clubs (particularly new clubs), and having honest to god naughty fun is what I 'get off' on, even if I don't necessarily 'get off' in the VIP. For a long time I found it a great way to break up the boredom and banality of the normal.
