How many of you GAVE UP on dating figuring your just too undesirable to women?

[DigitallyYours]

You can't keep blaming yourself. Just blame yourself once, and move on.
-- Homer Simpson

Trying is the first step towards failure.
-- Homer Simpson

If you really want something in life you have to work for it. Now quiet, they're about to announce the lottery numbers.
-- Homer Simpson

Kids, you tried your best and you failed miserably. The lesson is, never try.
-- Homer Simpson

Facts are meaningless. You could use facts to prove anything that's even remotely true!
-- Homer Simpson

Go ahead and play the blues if it'll make you happy.
-- Homer Simpson

 

[frankcastle]

You can't keep blaming yourself. Just blame yourself once, and move on.
-- Homer Simpson

Trying is the first step towards failure.
-- Homer Simpson

If you really want something in life you have to work for it. Now quiet, they're about to announce the lottery numbers.
-- Homer Simpson

Kids, you tried your best and you failed miserably. The lesson is, never try.
-- Homer Simpson

Facts are meaningless. You could use facts to prove anything that's even remotely true!
-- Homer Simpson

Go ahead and play the blues if it'll make you happy.
-- Homer Simpson

you can use statistics to prove anything Kent, 75% of all people know that
-Homer Simpson

 

[frankcastle]

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

Michael Jordan missed over 12 000 FG, 1200 3 pointersm and 1400 Free throws and is considered on of the greatest.

In baseball 1/3 at bats is considered good.

 

[andydude]

ive gotta say this is a really good question, during my dry spells i figured it would be good to see an SP so im feeling hot again , just to be able to make sure everything was still working etc. so if i had a hot sex moment with a normal girl i would perform welll. over the years, its definitely developed (ive found a few SP's that i would just love to take out of the biz and make my own) but to that effect, i think its important to remember that what we all crave is that sensuality/caring aspect that a woman can give us (and definitely not an SP for more then an hour or 2) and treat the SP's as a fun hobby/side gig where we can keep ourselves up on our games, maybe even try some things sexually we might not be able to do with a current or future partner. etc. in summary: practice makes perfect!

 

[mrsCALoki]

ive gotta say this is a really good question, during my dry spells i figured it would be good to see an SP so im feeling hot again , just to be able to make sure everything was still working etc. so if i had a hot sex moment with a normal girl i would perform welll. over the years, its definitely developed (ive found a few SP's that i would just love to take out of the biz and make my own) but to that effect, i think its important to remember that what we all crave is that sensuality/caring aspect that a woman can give us (and definitely not an SP for more then an hour or 2) and treat the SP's as a fun hobby/side gig where we can keep ourselves up on our games, maybe even try some things sexually we might not be able to do with a current or future partner. etc. in summary: practice makes perfect!

Andy, we are woman who work as SPs. We are not born SPs. We do not have parts surgically added or removed when we become SPs. Most of us can never imagine being involved with a client, because we have met a lot of clients and cannot imagine being involved with men like that. We also suspect clients lie to us and themselves. So clients realising that we are working, not playing, would be nice.

 

[DigitallyYours]

because we have met a lot of clients and cannot imagine being involved with men like that.

care to elaborate?

 

[39ajaxmale]

Andy, we are woman who work as SPs. We are not born SPs. We do not have parts surgically added or removed when we become SPs. Most of us can never imagine being involved with a client, because we have met a lot of clients and cannot imagine being involved with men like that. We also suspect clients lie to us and themselves. So clients realising that we are working, not playing, would be nice.

A lot about seeing an SP for me is it's a fantastic ego boost. I know that I can't get ANY of you except through this means (partly because I'm married, but let's be realistic, none of you are looking for a married, overweight, balding man with almost no skills in the bedroom.. and if you are, PM ME). It's a true fantasy, just spending time with an SP. Yes, because it's more adventurous sex than we get with our S/O's.. but it's just about BEING with a gorgeous girl as well.

I have a great time, with a great looking lady, who's nice to me, who treats me like a KING for an hour or two. I leave feeling.. fantastic. Hold my head higher, have a smile on my face.

 

[39ajaxmale]

care to elaborate?

Read her other posts. She's retired. When she says 'men like that' she means guys that lie to their wifes, cheat on their s/o's.. and just generally guys that use SP's at all.

 

[mrsCALoki]

Read her other posts. She's retired. When she says 'men like that' she means guys that lie to their wifes, cheat on their s/o's.. and just generally guys that use SP's at all.

Not all. Some men are socially acceptable, have no wives or SOs to lie to, and are not disgusting in aroma, appearance or personality. It is just that there are only a few like that who need to pay for sex. A nice man who is unable to face commitment because of things beyond his control and sees SPs for a safe relief is fine. Damaged but fine.

 

[DigitallyYours]

Not all. Some men are socially acceptable, have no wives or SOs to lie to, and are not disgusting in aroma, appearance or personality. It is just that there are only a few like that who need to pay for sex. A nice man who is unable to face commitment because of things beyond his control and sees SPs for a safe relief is fine. Damaged but fine.

There are more than a few. And I'm not so sure I'm damaged.

I'm not a cheater and never will be. Some of us see girls because we *want* to. There are certain things that I enjoy, but I'm not entirely sure I would ever ask my SO to engage in all my kinks, so I get that out my system every now and then. I don't see anything wrong with that so long as I'm not in a committed relationship and just dating casually with no commitment. I do want to be in a relationship, but it's not like every girl I date is GF material.

 

[mrsCALoki]

There are more than a few. And I'm not so sure I'm damaged.

I'm not a cheater and never will be. Some of us see girls because we *want* to. There are certain things that I enjoy, but I'm not entirely sure I would ever ask my SO to engage in all my kinks, so I get that out my system every now and then. I don't see anything wrong with that so long as I'm not in a committed relationship and just dating casually with no commitment. I do want to be in a relationship, but it's not like every girl I date is GF material.

Perhaps you are one of the ones that are not cheating or repugnant . I did day they exist. I can testify that some exist

 

[Partyman1970]

The topic was originally to focus on those who feel their appearance is so unattractive to women one way or another so they just gave up on trying to date because of super low success rate. I think they fall into 2 categories: very ugly or more commonly, SHORT.

 

[blackrock13]

The topic was originally to focus on those who feel their appearance is so unattractive to women one way or another so they just gave up on trying to date because of super low success rate. I think they fall into 2 categories: very ugly or more commonly, SHORT.

650+ posts in, what you think has been shown to be wrong, and most members agree with that. Almost unanimously the women members have told you you're wrong. When are you going to believe this, work on a personality, and get out there? Your wow-is-me mentality is half your problem, get over it. The more you post, the more members are convinced you're C&B. He was not one of our favorites and a very pitiful case

 

[Powershot]

I know quite a few shorter guys (5'6" and lower) who have girlfriends or are married with kids.. I think the key is they didn't feel sorry for themselves and upset with the world for their perceived handicap. Being short is one thing, but being short and someone no one likes to be around and has little to offer is another.