How many of you GAVE UP on dating figuring your just too undesirable to women?

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frankcastle

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Diggin up this old thread......

I personally know of a few couples where the woman is taller

asian male 5'6" - caucausian female 5' 9"
asian male 5'7" - asian female 5' 9"
caucasian male 5' 9" - caucausian female 5'11"
caucasian male 5'7" - caucausian female 5'8"

none are super fit and most have similar earning potentials
 
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I'm ugly as sin but I still manage to do rather well. Attitude can work wonders, forget about "I'm not worthy".

 
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frankcastle said:
Diggin up this old thread......

I personally know of a few couples where the woman is taller

asian male 5'6" - caucausian female 5' 9"
asian male 5'7" - asian female 5' 9"
caucasian male 5' 9" - caucausian female 5'11"
caucasian male 5'7" - caucausian female 5'8"

none are super fit and most have similar earning potentials
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^^^ Yup.

I think we're looking too deeply into our faults. It's not that serious. There WILL be an attractive woman out there for you provided you're not hideous, if you are. Lower your standards a bit if that's what it takes for you to be happy.

I haven't dated much, I don't chase girls. Never good at it, but girls saw me, came to me. Once a girl decides that she likes you, you can say the dumbest and lamest things in the world and it would hardly change anything. Because she's already decided in her mind, mentally, emotionally that she is attracted to you. All you need to do is... Ask her out.

There's somebody out there for everyone. Not that serious. This is a huge thread for such a simple concept, who the hell is bumping it back up?
 
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I've been away lately. Can someone please summarize the last 32 pages for me and bring me up to speed?
 
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desert monk said:
I've been away lately. Can someone please summarize the last 32 pages for me and bring me up to speed?
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and comments like "short men are not a turn off, but men who act small are "
 
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Participating in long threads on terb is a waste of time.
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One could argue that participating in any threads on TERB is a waste of time; however, I still find reading and participating in them quite entertaining. There are many TERB posters who are highly articulate and intelligent -- and it's a hoot to read some of the posts from the others!
 
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Samurai Joey said:
One could argue that participating in any threads on TERB is a waste of time; however, I still find reading and participating in them quite entertaining. There are many TERB posters who are highly articulate and intelligent -- and it's a hoot to read some of the posts from the others!
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long threads = Participants do not read earlier posts. too much repetition. Low signal to noise ratio.
 
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DigitallyYours said:
long threads = Participants do not read earlier posts. too much repetition. Low signal to noise ratio.
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I dont know about you. but i've been following this thread since the first post.

long threads are fine. if you have the time to read on your downtime, you can easily go through every page, like a book. (What? You never read 30 pages of a book before?)

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Its unfortunate that most of the people that participated (notice I said 'participated', not 'contributed') posted useless statistical numbers that didn't help whatsoever and could easily have been fabricated. I didn't even read the stats anyways. Would've been most helpful if the guys that did have success with women posted some 'tips' or 'tricks' to getting ahead with women, instead of holding back and just commenting with sh*t like, "this is true." or "I agree with this."
 
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Terminator2000 said:
I dont know about you. but i've been following this thread since the first post.

long threads are fine. if you have the time to read on your downtime, you can easily go through every page, like a book. (What? You never read 30 pages of a book before?)

EDIT:

Its unfortunate that most of the people that participated (notice I said 'participated', not 'contributed') posted useless statistical numbers that didn't help whatsoever and could easily have been fabricated. I didn't even read the stats anyways. Would've been most helpful if the guys that did have success with women posted some 'tips' or 'tricks' to getting ahead with women, instead of holding back and just commenting with sh*t like, "this is true." or "I agree with this."
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Tips? I can do tips:

1) Having a SP see you as an attractive man and falling for you is 1,000 times harder that a civilian girl. We dislike being hustled. Stop it.

2) Do not question us about our private life. That is why it is called private.

3) Do not question us about your performance or how we liked it. Just enjoy the experience.

4) Do not shave the day you come to see us. A friend was telling me a client came in with razor cuts on his shaft. Tiny bits of Kleenex in place. I thought it was funny. She was disgusted.

5) Be on time, be clean, do not haggle about money, and never call us just to chat. This is a business. With a little luck a pleasant one, but a business.
 
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Tips? I can do tips:

1) Having a SP see you as an attractive man and falling for you is 1,000 times harder that a civilian girl. We dislike being hustled. Stop it.

2) Do not question us about our private life. That is why it is called private.

3) Do not question us about your performance or how we liked it. Just enjoy the experience.

4) Do not shave the day you come to see us. A friend was telling me a client came in with razor cuts on his shaft. Tiny bits of Kleenex in place. I thought it was funny. She was disgusted.

5) Be on time, be clean, do not haggle about money, and never call us just to chat. This is a business. With a little luck a pleasant one, but a business.
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LOL. I think he meant tips with women in general, not what to do/not do when seeing an SP.
 
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frankcastle

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think the main tips were......

be confident not arrogant
practice chatting women up any chance you get
accept there will be failures
dont read too deeply into iois
work on the things you can change accept the things you can't
put yourself in places to meet single ladies
 
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scouser1. , this is not a short guy thread but since so many postings, it did come up not surprising as all are aware it is a biggie with women to outright reject guys based on height. The thread is not even meant to be to offer advice on how to improve ones chances or prospects. This thread meant for those who have decided they are at the very bottom of the scale & express in what aspects , characteristics make them this way. The thread could have revealed how many feel this way & the variety of ways they are presently undesirable. NOT asking or suggesting their situations are unreversable or ways to reverse the situation. Just a suvey thread. Well it didn't really turn out that way.
 
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Partyman1970 said:
scouser1. , this is not a short guy thread but since so many postings, it did come up not surprising as all are aware it is a biggie with women to outright reject guys based on height. The thread is not even meant to be to offer advice on how to improve ones chances or prospects. This thread meant for those who have decided they are at the very bottom of the scale & express in what aspects , characteristics make them this way. The thread could have revealed how many feel this way & the variety of ways they are presently undesirable. NOT asking or suggesting their situations are unreversable or ways to reverse the situation. Just a suvey thread. Well it didn't really turn out that way.
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Probably because nobody is interested in hearing you whine. Sorry it didn't work out.
 
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Partyman1970 said:
scouser1. , this is not a short guy thread but since so many postings, it did come up not surprising as all are aware it is a biggie with women to outright reject guys based on height. The thread is not even meant to be to offer advice on how to improve ones chances or prospects. This thread meant for those who have decided they are at the very bottom of the scale & express in what aspects , characteristics make them this way. The thread could have revealed how many feel this way & the variety of ways they are presently undesirable. NOT asking or suggesting their situations are unreversable or ways to reverse the situation. Just a suvey thread. Well it didn't really turn out that way.
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Actually this thread ending up being an endless series of guys who can barely talk to women without trying to figure out why it's not working and then trying to make excuses that run the gambit of silliness. Then some member try and give them some suggestion and are basically responded with yabbut, yabbut. You looked for support and/or advise and got little of the first and truckloads of the latter.
 
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blackrock13 said:
Actually this thread ending up being an endless series of guys who can barely talk to women without trying to figure out why it's not working and then trying to make excuses that run the gambit of silliness. Then some member try and give them some suggestion and are basically responded with yabbut, yabbut. You looked for support and/or advise and got little of the first and truckloads of the latter.
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Yeah they losers didn't really want to listen to any of the advice. Easier to just shoot it down than take a risk.

Loser = someone who refuses to play the game for fear of failure
 
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