Surprising a friend with an escort - good or bad idea?

[Charley LaRoux]

Hi everyone,

My name is Charley and this is my first post in the lounge. I have had a request from a former client who would like to surprise a friend with a visit to an escort (me).

From what he has told me, this would be his friend's first time 'going all the way'. I am not sure that surprising his friend (apparently there is a group of fellows who have pitched in for the funds), giving him an envelope and sending him on his way to see me is a good idea.

I am worried that his friend may feel ridiculed or embarrassed by this scenario, even if the group of friends are trying to do a good thing for him. I am also worried that he may feel pressured to go through with it, even if he would rather not spend his first time with an escort.

I have advised the former client that a better idea is to have an honest, kind and empathetic conversation with his friend, and ask him if this is something that he would be interested in rather than simply surprising him with it while out with the boys.

What do you think?

Thoughts and advice from both clients and SPs is welcomed.

xx Charley

www.CharleyLaRoux.com

 

[69Shooter]

Too many unknowns (other than the usual ones you deal with). I'd tell your former client no.

 

[5hummer]

Sounds like a recipe for a disaster! I'd say 'NAY'

 

[roblestone]

Welcome to the lounge. I think you are right about surprising him. The best way to surprise him would be with a gift certificate to see you rather than the friend not knowing what's up. For various reasons a lot of guys aren't into the hobby. If thought about doing this for a friend of mine, but I'm glad I never did. There are too many ways for it to go wrong IMHO.

 

[durexguy]

If the friend is married or has a GF, it will be a problem. If the guy is single, I say go for it. Especially with a beautiful Redhead.....

 

[Iconic One]

First time "going all the way"? Sounds like he's a virgin. What his well meaning friend is doing is throwing the non-swimmer in the deep end with the added excitement of group of guys who are in on the joke. Stick with your gut and tell your former client to take the sensitive, discreet approach. The whole scenario would be nothing more than humiliating for this poor guy. You wouldn't want to be part of it either, I would imagine.

 

[LKD]

not a good idea... I'd feel awkward if my friend did that for me. This hobbying life is an area I like to keep to myself

 

[mightymouse007]

not a good idea... I'd feel awkward if my friend did that for me. This hobbying life is an area I like to keep to myself

ya I kind of agree with that. This type of hobby is usually a solo thing, and not shared with friends or family for that matter.

 

[SoftHands813]

I think the only situation where this works out well is if the friend is a hobbyist who has always had you (or a redhead in general) on his TDL. Otherwise, methinks not.

 

[rld]

I think there are a number of possible bad outcomes. Don't think you should agree to this one.

 

[lurkerdick]

This is how blackmail happens

Nothing wrong if he's willing and has been asking.

 

[Varmitt]

If he goes with you the first time...he'll go broke trying to match it

 

[richaceg]

The only downside I see is the friend getting addicted to this hobby (which isn't for everyone). I hope I have friends like him...

 

[GlavaMan]

I am assuming the guy is a virgin? If so, I am familiar with this scenario. Had a friend years ago that was a virgin. A group of us pitched in & hired an escort for him. He was very happy!!!

 

[GameBoy27]

Varmitt, you beat me to it.

Charley, I'm afraid you'd ruin this boy for life. Talk about a sex machine, I had to go have a wank after reading reviews of your sessions.

Don't do it, do me instead!

 

[Charley LaRoux]

Hi Everyone,

Thanks for your thoughtful replies. Yes, the friend in question is a virgin, which I don't mind at all actually (I can be gentle, heehee). I am just worried that the friend might feel embarrassed or humiliated or pressured. And also that he may not want his first time to be with an escort.

But then again, maybe I'm reading too much into the situation and maybe the friend would be totally into it. Hard to say. But I do think it would be best to chat with the friend about it first, rather than just springing it on him with a group of guys.

& GameBoy, when's our date? ; )

Thanks again,

xo Charley

 

[massman]

Hi Everyone,

Thanks for your thoughtful replies. Yes, the friend in question is a virgin, which I don't mind at all actually (I can be gentle, heehee). I am just worried that the friend might feel embarrassed or humiliated or pressured. And also that he may not want his first time to be with an escort.

But then again, maybe I'm reading too much into the situation and maybe the friend would be totally into it. Hard to say. But I do think it would be best to chat with the friend about it first, rather than just springing it on him with a group of guys.

& GameBoy, when's our date? ; )

Thanks again,

xo Charley

I wouldnt do it. There is a chance it would backfire and the friend would be really humiliated. I would never have wanted my friends to do this for me.

 

[sleazure]

I think you're right. He's a grownup and if he wanted to lose his cherry with an escort he could have done it on his own already. He could also choose to do so in the future.
Of course, he still has the option of declining the envelope when they give it to him.
If I was in your shoes, I'd let the potential client make the choice. These issues all affect him directly, and not you. What I'm saying is that this is almost an MYOB issue; I wouldn't make it my business, but on the other hand, you *would* make it your business. Since I agree with all of your points, I think you should follow your heart.

 

[5hummer]

Thanks for your thoughtful replies. Yes, the friend in question is a virgin, which I don't mind at all actually (I can be gentle, heehee). I am just worried that the friend might feel embarrassed or humiliated or pressured. And also that he may not want his first time to be with an escort.

Maybe you can Facebook the virgin, and then hook up with him?

 

[WiCkEd LoVeR]

Hi everyone,

My name is Charley and this is my first post in the lounge. I have had a request from a former client who would like to surprise a friend with a visit to an escort (me).

From what he has told me, this would be his friend's first time 'going all the way'. I am not sure that surprising his friend (apparently there is a group of fellows who have pitched in for the funds), giving him an envelope and sending him on his way to see me is a good idea.

I am worried that his friend may feel ridiculed or embarrassed by this scenario, even if the group of friends are trying to do a good thing for him. I am also worried that he may feel pressured to go through with it, even if he would rather not spend his first time with an escort.

I have advised the former client that a better idea is to have an honest, kind and empathetic conversation with his friend, and ask him if this is something that he would be interested in rather than simply surprising him with it while out with the boys.

What do you think?

Thoughts and advice from both clients and SPs is welcomed.

xx Charley

www.CharleyLaRoux.com

I say do it. You get paid, he gets laid (FINALLY!!!). Only thing is you better bring your "A" game. That way every single gal he fucks for the rest of his life will never compare to his first!

In addition, I say you wear a strap-on and pound him hard from the backside just for fun.