Did anyone find it little awkward when you started the hobbie.
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Awkward? No. It's suppose to be a "hobby" so it should be "pleasant." If you feel otherwise then maybe this isn't the "hobby" for you.
Look, this isn't the real word. If you're a lousy fuck (and ugly as sin) the girl is still going to adore you and hope you come back to see her again (assuming you have the $$$ and don't stink). So, what's the problem?
(I would be more worried about getting addicted to the hobby or picking up something nasty from the hobby.)
Look, this isn't the real word. If you're a lousy fuck (and ugly as sin) the girl is still going to adore you and hope you come back to see her again (assuming you have the $$$ and don't stink). So, what's the problem?
(I would be more worried about getting addicted to the hobby or picking up something nasty from the hobby.)
My first time wasnt awkward, but i was nervous as hell. But after initial first few minutes, my mind was set at ease, and had a great time.
OF COURSE ITS AWKWARD WHEN YOU START!
Ever since you were old enough to know your name you have been taught not to get naked for strangers. Ever since you were old enough to know what sex was you have been taught that the only girls who do it for money are dirty, drug addicted, less than human types, or ruthless golddiggers. Ever since you were an adolescent, you have been taught that "paying for it" is proof of your lack of worth as a man. When faced with a cute girl with a hot bod, who may be "out of your league" by conventional standards, you will feel self conscious!!
Hell, I have been in the "hobby" for well over a decade. I still feel a little awkward, especially with a new girl.
BUT!!!!! Be reassured. You are getting naked for a stranger in a mutually agreed upon arrangement. If you chose well (wwhich is easy to do with some research on terb) you stand a very good chance at meeting with a great girl with a head on her shoulders, who is smart and practical about the biz. As for "paying for it" just look at the news. Some of the most desireable, eligible, and manly guys have paid for it. It is more a matter of convenience, and an ability to differentiate a need for sexual satisfaction from a relastionship - the two are related, but not the same. As for the girl being out of your league, and maybe looking at you with less than a lusty stare - keep in mind that there have been tons of guys far more disgusting than you, and also keep in mind that escorts, WAYYYYYYY more than your average civilian hottie at a bar, appreciate a kind, gentle guy, WAYYYY more than they appreciate six pack abs, tans, and big biceps.
Think of it like jumping off the high diving board at the pool when you were a kid. Sure it is bloody scary - awkward, and you have never done it. But odds are in your favour - you will be fine, and tons have done it before you and survived just fine.
Ever since you were old enough to know your name you have been taught not to get naked for strangers. Ever since you were old enough to know what sex was you have been taught that the only girls who do it for money are dirty, drug addicted, less than human types, or ruthless golddiggers. Ever since you were an adolescent, you have been taught that "paying for it" is proof of your lack of worth as a man. When faced with a cute girl with a hot bod, who may be "out of your league" by conventional standards, you will feel self conscious!!
Hell, I have been in the "hobby" for well over a decade. I still feel a little awkward, especially with a new girl.
BUT!!!!! Be reassured. You are getting naked for a stranger in a mutually agreed upon arrangement. If you chose well (wwhich is easy to do with some research on terb) you stand a very good chance at meeting with a great girl with a head on her shoulders, who is smart and practical about the biz. As for "paying for it" just look at the news. Some of the most desireable, eligible, and manly guys have paid for it. It is more a matter of convenience, and an ability to differentiate a need for sexual satisfaction from a relastionship - the two are related, but not the same. As for the girl being out of your league, and maybe looking at you with less than a lusty stare - keep in mind that there have been tons of guys far more disgusting than you, and also keep in mind that escorts, WAYYYYYYY more than your average civilian hottie at a bar, appreciate a kind, gentle guy, WAYYYY more than they appreciate six pack abs, tans, and big biceps.
Think of it like jumping off the high diving board at the pool when you were a kid. Sure it is bloody scary - awkward, and you have never done it. But odds are in your favour - you will be fine, and tons have done it before you and survived just fine.
Never awkward, first time was picking up a woman on the street (back when they used to work the corners downtown...I was hooked so to speak. Been doing it ever since.
The quality of the experience keeps improving and the prices have beaten inflation for sure, hell in 1985 I was dropping 1 or 2 bills for the same service I'm seeing now for the same rates.
Of course now my income is much higher so it is less impactful on my wallet. I love this hobby, beats wood working or stamp collecting LOL.
+1. I don't get that rush anymore at all. I still have a great time to be sure, but I kind of miss that feeling.
It's new and I still have the rush.
It's a exciting intense time and it's addictive.
One of the best hobbies I've had fun with.
Doing great due to the research on terb.
I should have been doing this years ago, LOL
I've had exciting experiences are at AGS and SRMII
Thinking about seeing Melanie_4urpleasure , she has great reviews.
She's stunning. Bedroom eyes.
It's a exciting intense time and it's addictive.
One of the best hobbies I've had fun with.
Doing great due to the research on terb.
I should have been doing this years ago, LOL
I've had exciting experiences are at AGS and SRMII
Thinking about seeing Melanie_4urpleasure , she has great reviews.
She's stunning. Bedroom eyes.
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A little bit, and even now I still get nervous when meeting a new girl. Mainly because I've been burned a few times but B&S. But, when it comes down to it, it's nothing more than a business transaction. Merely paying for a service, like a mechanic. With nice tits, who can suck the chrome off your tailpipe.
Awkwardness/nerves are a good thing, it means you're alive and functioning. It doesn't get any better than that, this side of the daisies. 
