If you got an SP pregnant, would you take responsibility for the child?

[S.C. Joe]

Glad to see over half feel its her freaky fault.

Does the condom always have to break? I thought not, that just sometimes a tiny sperm cell can sneak out, why its only 99.7% effected

But the SP is earning good money, get a freaky abortion for god sake. Its called maintenance, like if you catch a cold from a client you go see a doc and buy some medicine to get better--not spread to germs to others.

One would hope an SP goes to a doc every so often, the sooner for an abortion the better. Unless the SP stayed overtime and kept trying to hang out with the guy, why the f do she want to now have his child?

 

[S.C. Joe]

What if you had thought maybe the SP used a needle to the condom?

You know made these tiny holes though the wrapper cause she knows you earn big bucks and thought U be great one to help support her kid......while her real BF is some punk street kid selling dope to other young ladies.

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This is why repeat dates might be a problem/risk, she might get to know you too well and come up with some crazy idea's......

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Good thing the USA is the shit hole that it is, otherwise dual citizenship for her child might be a draw for us American tourist, ha ha

 

[GrandBlasterK]

If you got an SP pregnant, would you take responsibility for the child?

I guess that would depend on whether she was a virgin. This is an important question I shall ask SPs from now on, just in case. lol

 

[themexi]

I have an idea for a poll...


FoooooGesus is:

1) A total $($^$^#$#
2) a know it all
3) A misguided induvidual
4) Classic White Knight
5) Completely unsuited for logical reasoning or thoughtful debate

 

[Captain Jean-Luc Picard]

Ummm.....let me think...

Fuck no!!!

 

[fuji]

Why are they different words then? Why do most reasonable people Use them to mean different things?????

If you fail at basic English comprehension sorry but I cannot help you. I said the difference between them does not meaningfully change the argument, and it does not.

Not if you use your prepaid phone ONLY for outgoing calls & immediately expected Incoming ones she can't....

Yeah we're well aware that you believe if you hide like a cockroach that you can evade your most fundamental responsibilities.

Oh so ONLY THE MAN can take responsibility then?

Nope. If you fail at basic comprehension of English I'm sorry but I cannot help you. I said she cannot transact away your responsibility for the child, because that is between you and the child not between you and her. She has her OWN responsibility to the child, separate from yours. You BOTH have responsibility.

NO transaction required. SHE DECIDES unilaterally to abort or adopt it or keep it without involving the father that's it.

Yes she has a right to decide what happens to her own body. Once the child is born though her desires, decisions, etc., are irrelevant--you now have a child and you are both responsible for it.

Um..... since she can TERMINATE it before it even becomes "Live" I think she has ALL the power in the world to determine it's "rights"

False. Once the child is born it has its own rights, wholly independent of the mother. One of those rights is support from you. That is a right that adheres to the child, the mother cannot transact it away.

 

[GPIDEAL]

Watched Kill Bill on Movie Network last night.

Bill: Now... When it comes to you, and us, I have a few unanswered questions. So, before this tale...reaches its climax, I'm going to ask you some questions, and I want you to tell me the truth. However, therein lies a dilemma. Because, when it comes to the subject of me, I believe you are truly and utterly incapable of telling the truth, especially to me, and least of all, to yourself. And, when it comes to the subject of me, I am truly and utterly incapable of believing anything you say.

The Bride: How do you suppose we solve this dilemma?

The issue Fuji is complex as assume for a moment the condom didn't break but there was transfer leakage. How would a client even know he got the SP pregnant? If it was a one time visit and he saw her incall, how would she A) Know it was him and not any other client seen in a 3-day period, and B) Get in touch with him? The agency would perhaps have his booking contact # if he was a regular if they felt inclined to give it to her, but I don't see them giving her all the clients who saw her over a 3-day or 1 week period's numbers to her to call up a dozen or more guys to set up a mass DNA test. If all the agency had was a prepaid cell # the client could toss the phone and no way of tracking him unless his DNA was in the system. Sure they could match the DNA, but you need something to match it to. Even if the client would be willing to support the child, there is a good chance he would never even know he was a dad. If he wanted to be known I suppose the agency could start a thread on Terb saying "anyone who saw X the week of Y - she is pregnant, so if any of you want to phone us to arrange for DNA tests to see if you are the dad, you know where to find us'. Not all clients read the boards though. Some might not believe her that it was them.

Then there is the issue of whether the SP would want to have the baby of a client she didn't know the ID of. I've asked two SPs now and both said they would use the morning after pill if the condom broke, which I think the majority of SPs would do. Of course if it wasn't known that the condom broke, or it didn't actually break but spatter got in during removal, then the pill would be a moot point.

I would, if I knew, get tested to see if I was the dad, sure. If I had Hugh Grant's taste in SPs it might be painful, but since I only see SPs I find very hot and attractive, the kid would probably have good genes. So yes, I'd support the kid financially as per the legal guidelines.

Excellent answer.

For practical purposes, it's likely that an SP would deal with the issue herself, and not make it a federal case so to speak.

If you're not already a dad, and she wants to keep the kid, and you are a client she likes, well then, parenthood might be a workable thing but just bear in mind, that an SP who wants a child, will do it on her own time when she's ready, and will retire or take a sabbatical to have one. If they are in their prime working years, it's unlikely they will stop working unless you can be very accommodating. What are the chances that such a discussion will take place? You'd have to be a good regular and close.

 

[GPIDEAL]

it will happen when trump gives out his financial records.

Or when the Leafs win the Stanley Cup*


*Sorry Fuji, I couldn't resist.

 

[GPIDEAL]

Glad to see over half feel its her freaky fault.

G.I. Joe, even with the first choice for support, those guys would prefer she have an abortion. So we have 78% at this point that wouldn't want her to have that 'unwanted' child.

 

[fuji]

Did you know that ADULTERY was once a crime?

But it's not a crime, nor is it even particularly immoral, in my view. Whereas failing in your most fundamental duty to your own children--I don't think there's much to debate about the immorality of that.

 

[fuji]

What if you had thought maybe the SP used a needle to the condom?

I find that far fetched. I sincerely doubt that she's going to try that on some random stranger whose identity she doesn't even really know.

Maybe if you were a celebrity.

At any rate even in THIS case you have an obligation to your child. Hopefully, too, the SP will be prosecuted for criminal wrongdoing, certainly that's an evil thing to do. But her wrongdoing does not diminish your obligation to your *child*. The child didn't do anything evil.

 

[CapitalGuy]

But it's not a crime, nor is it even particularly immoral, in my view. Whereas failing in your most fundamental duty to your own children--I don't think there's much to debate about the immorality of that.

Of course its not. A fiend who supports torture and murder, like you, would think mere adultery to be completely normal.

 

[fuji]

Of course its not. A fiend who supports torture and murder, like you, would think mere adultery to be completely normal.

I don't support torture or murder, and I do think adultery is completely normal.

 

[Narg]

You mean starting with the fact that I'm not asian and I came by my view by attending graduations at Ivy League universities and counting the number of non-asians who were there? Or would you like to go and look into the articles that have been written examining the question as to why asians dominate the top programs, and whether something should be done about it?

Please explain why you think not being Asian somehow proves you're not a bigot? Other than that, your defence is that you attended at least two graduation ceremonies at Ivy League universities and counted the number of non-asians? Seriously? That's your support for alleging that a majority of Caucasians only get into Ivy League schools by "pulling strings"?

Out of curiousity, what were the results of your counts? Which universities? What percentage of students were non-asian?

You have the gall to attack others in this thread for making assumptions about SPs, yet you offer some weak, unverifiable, anecdotal explanation to account for your own bullshit assumptions?

I'm impressed ... no, wait ... not impressed ... some other word ...

 

[Malibook]

I don't support torture or murder, and I do think adultery is completely normal.

Why would anybody believe that your word is any more credible than your wedding vows?

Perhaps it is time for a poll on a lowlife asshole who would fuck his best friend's wife?



7 You shall not commit adultery.

10 You shall not covet your neighbor's wife

 

[fuji]

Please explain why you think not being Asian somehow proves you're not a bigot? Other than that, your defence is that you attended at least two graduation ceremonies at Ivy League universities and counted the number of non-asians? Seriously? That's your support for alleging that a majority of Caucasians only get into Ivy League schools by "pulling strings"?

Out of curiousity, what were the results of your counts? Which universities? What percentage of students were non-asian?

You have the gall to attack others in this thread for making assumptions about SPs, yet you offer some weak, unverifiable, anecdotal explanation to account for your own bullshit assumptions?

I'm impressed ... no, wait ... not impressed ... some other word ...

I replied on the other thread there is no point to have the same debate on multiple threads.

 

[fuji]

Why would anybody believe that your word is any more credible than your wedding vows?

Perhaps it is time for a poll on a lowlife asshole who would fuck his best friend's wife?



7 You shall not commit adultery.

10 You shall not covet your neighbor's wife

I'm not christian I don't believe those specific arbitrary and pre contraceptive commandments a are useful or meaningful in the modern world.

 

[Malibook]

I'm not christian I don't believe those specific arbitrary and pre contraceptive commandments a are useful or meaningful in the modern world.

So what?

My point was that you lied to your wife as you were getting married, presumably in front of several witnesses, and you would fuck your best friend's wife.
Would you have cheated on her the next day or would you have at least waited until after the honeymoon?

 

[Narg]

I replied on the other thread there is no point to have the same debate on multiple threads.

I'm happy to mock your hypocrisy on two threads at once.

 

[Malibook]

I'm happy to mock your hypocrisy on two threads at once.

Fuji would lie to his wife's face as they are getting married and fuck around on her repeatedly and routinely and look her in the eyes as if he is an honourable upstanding husband.

Fuji would fuck his best friend's wife, and probably anybody else's wife, and look them in the face as if he is an honourable loyal friend.

But if fuji posts on an anonymous internet message board about an extremely far-fetched hypothetical scenario about a stranger hooker and their bastard child, he is obviously absolutely sincere.

Fuji may be a despicable dishonourable lowlife piece of shit but it's not nice to call him a hypocrite. :biggrin1: