Advice Required - Sugar Daddy Fantasy gone bad - long post, but thoughts appreciated!
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You have done nothing wrong...NOTHING
except...just stand up to her and she will leave you alone..
Your next message to her should read....
"Listen you dirty skank..I only hung with you cause I felt sorry for you...Your getting nuthin from me you stupid Bitch. text if you like but we are over..cause I never liked you...SKANK"
I presume you are married?
except...just stand up to her and she will leave you alone..
Your next message to her should read....
"Listen you dirty skank..I only hung with you cause I felt sorry for you...Your getting nuthin from me you stupid Bitch. text if you like but we are over..cause I never liked you...SKANK"
I presume you are married?
i would give her no indicatin at all that she is getting to you/.dont let her know you are freaked out. Tell her you feel she is harassing you and that you are taking steps to discuss the matter with the police as according to your lawyer, you have done nothing what so ever illegal. Let her know you will be filing a p;olice report and that you are considering a peace bond.
one thing is 100% sure that she won't go to the police as she has no case
she took the money from you to help her friend and whatever happened between you and her is between two consenting adults
You have a choice to either change your number or never reply to her.
if you don't reply to her she will leave you alone in few weeks or months ...
for the next time never take a girl like this to your condo instead use a hotel
if you are really that scared from cops then start using 7/11 anounmous phone for this purpose in the future
and please please don't stop your hobby as these things will happen if you are gonna meet people just learn your lessson and move along
she took the money from you to help her friend and whatever happened between you and her is between two consenting adults
You have a choice to either change your number or never reply to her.
if you don't reply to her she will leave you alone in few weeks or months ...
for the next time never take a girl like this to your condo instead use a hotel
if you are really that scared from cops then start using 7/11 anounmous phone for this purpose in the future
and please please don't stop your hobby as these things will happen if you are gonna meet people just learn your lessson and move along
she already got a ticket out of you.Her big scene was probably so you would not
want to mush her again.
want to mush her again.
Yup. She got an airline ticket for some quickie sex.
Or else, she's setting you up for some serious blackmail bs. If so, you should record the messages and call the cops yourself.
You're clean. You did nothing illegal.
I didnt see anything serious in the OP post other than she liked the easy money and is scaring him to make sure they keep on meeting in the future.
on the other hand the sickness talk is all about that she is a bit paranoid like many people gets after a sex with stranger so she was just testing you to check your sexual history.... nothing serious about that talk ... you should have been very confident in your talk with her that you are clean ...btw you should go for testing for your sake too ...
on the other hand the sickness talk is all about that she is a bit paranoid like many people gets after a sex with stranger so she was just testing you to check your sexual history.... nothing serious about that talk ... you should have been very confident in your talk with her that you are clean ...btw you should go for testing for your sake too ...
Delete her and forget about it.In a week she'll have found someone new.I actually feel a bit sorry for her.Sooner or later she's going to end up sticking her hand in the wrong lions cage......
umm...ya WOW! is all I am going to say. Wellllll....I'm in Kitchener and sure could use a "sugar daddy" pending that I'm not too far for you, lol. I would need a few references tho and I could give you some of mine, lol ;-)
haha.. too funny... the whole idea at first intrigued me and i was prepared to go through with it, but wow what a hell of a big problem this turned into!!
thanks for the responses so far everyone, really appreciate it. I was unsure if I had done anything wrong in approaching her online, perhaps I was, but given that she agreed to it and accepted any consequences, and then even after meeting the first time, wanted to meet again, that kind of puts me at ease...
she has yet to get in touch with me, she is still on my BBM, I hesitate to delete her right now still - waiting to see how things progress.
Get a new bb, keep the same phone #... Only share your pin with the 'others' on your contact list. She won't even know you 'disappeared'.
You said it all!The only thing you did wrong was to ask a girl to do a Womans job
2 things could've happened here:
a) She has second thoughts for a newbie or thinks she got something and is acting erratically and irrationally.
b) Tried to scare the OP with a threat of going to the police, maybe to see if he would throw money at her to shut up.
I tend to think that she was trying to scam him.
To the OP: I believe you can block someone on your BBM, no?
P.S. I met a gorgeous young lady at a stag party. She was a sexy hostess. She was game to make more $ and had a sugar daddy before but was speaking in terms of thousands. After many BBMs, I got her down to $1000 for 2 hours (that was the lowest she would go cuz "she's not an escort"). She also expected or would've liked if I booked a hotel room so that she could use it later once we were done. Anyways, even though she seemed like a nice gal (I know people who know her), I didn't go through with it cuz it was very amateurish and there was no guarantee about how good her performance (or even simply as good company) would be, let alone the outrageous price. Avoid such time-wasters.
Agreed.
If she would bug him with threats, I would then mention that she could go to jail for extortion and to leave me alone.
I totaly agree, paying for sex is illegal but so is extortion
call the bitches bluff. bbm her and tell her that its to late, you have already contacted the police and told them everything....now they want to talk to her.
Ummmmmm....no it isn't. Hard to believe people can get something so straight forward so wrong.
reminded me of an allegedly true story in which a Toronto girl told her sugar daddy (from the US if memory serves) that she is pregnant from him and then "gave birth", and when he came from the States she borrowed someone else's baby and showed to him.
I am told that she ended up with at least $50K lump sum payout.
Now that's blackmail.
I am told that she ended up with at least $50K lump sum payout.
Now that's blackmail.
