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[Zombie]

Hey guys,

So last night I was having an awesome duo session and all of the sudden I lost my hardon. Although at the time I was feeling a little dizzy from not having eaten for a while. This has never happened to me before, and I'm relatively young. I know I shouldn't make a big deal about it, but I feel pretty shitty about it. Not really sure why I'm posting this, I guess it's good to get it off my chest.

 

[The Oracle]

Dude that has happened to all of us at one time or another, don't sweat it.

Best thing to do is climb right back on the horse as soon as you can to get your confidence back.

 

[benito]

Its the start of a long downhill slide. Tragic. I havn't been able to get it up in a while, but I have had a lot of luck substituting reality tv shows for sex.

 

[bowser]

Control your diet, sleep, exercise and stress and you'll be firing in no time.

 

[Zombie]

Thanks Oracle and bowser.

Not helping much there benito.

 

[Brill]

Did the girls try to help with some licking and stroking or did they just wait rolling their eyes?
If they did nothing, please post their names.

 

[Zombie]

They did their best, to no avail.

 

[bowser]

I've had this blunder a couple times and I'm young, fit and always pack extra bullits My cause was mental and stress distractions from work, life, family and friends, since confidence is never an issue.

I find if you can peak with the right mental frame (ie. clearhead and horney as hell) and set no expectation ie goals and live in the moment of your session, everything will take care of itself. Funny cos some of my best sessions are single bullit vs. MSOG.

Quit masturbating will help increase your verility, sensitivity, duration and hardness as well.

If confidence is an issue, baby step your way. I agree with Oracle, get back on the horse right away.

 

[Zombie]

I've had this blunder a couple times and I'm young, fit and always pack extra bullits My cause was mental and stress distractions from work, life, family and friends, since confidence is never an issue.

I find if you can peak with the right mental frame (ie. clearhead and horney as hell) and set no expectation ie goals and live in the moment of your session, everything will take care of itself. Funny cos some of my best sessions are single bullit vs. MSOG.

Quit masturbating will help increase your verility, sensitivity, duration and hardness as well.

If confidence is an issue, baby step your way. I agree with Oracle, get back on the horse right away.

Good advice. I'm going to try and skip out on work today to see someone.

 

[Zombie]

I've used cockrings before, but I don't think it would work in stopping this from happening. It's more to keep your existing hardon rock hard and to help prolong the experience. I imagine if you completely loose it, the ring wouldn't do much to stop it.

 

[lickmeplease]

And they created the little blue pill!! Never ever will you have that same problem again!!

 

[The Options Menu]

Good advice. I'm going to try and skip out on work today to see someone.

Also, if you have a SO, could it be feelings of guilt? (That will do it from time to time.)

But as others have said: general stress, weight, performance anxiety, smoking, sleep, diet, exercise, prescription medications (often antidepressants), and / or ejaculating too close to the start of the festivities can mess with your erection. While I don't generally have that problem, in fact I pretty much masturbate in the shower before every civi date just so I'm not a walking hard on, the one I do notice is smoking. When I quit for 5-6 months I get better wood with a shorter rebound time. I also shoot faster .

 

[bowser]

Silk boxers and light cotton pants will help increase your ammo and quicken your on call time. Just don't walk around the office.

 

[Zombie]

All good options here. I have a gf, but I'm about to breakup with her (I was going to a few days ago, but just couldn't do it), so there's no guilt there. I'm just going to chalk it up to an isolated incident.

I just got back from seeing a DL girl at the airport, and I'm happy to report that everything was great. She was young, petite and tight as hell so that made it easy I guess.

 

[Moraff]

You said you hadn't eaten for awhile so your blood sugar was most likely low. Exercise at this point tends to drop the blood pressure (bad for hardons) which I'm thinking was the case here as you said you felt dizzy.

 

[Zombie]

You said you hadn't eaten for awhile so your blood sugar was most likely low. Exercise at this point tends to drop the blood pressure (bad for hardons) which I'm thinking was the case here as you said you felt dizzy.

Thanks for the input. I imagine that's likely what happened. It was pretty dumb of me in retrospect, I booked the time for 7 and hadn't eaten since 12. I was damn hungry afterwards and went and ate two slices of pizza. I'll definitely take the blood sugar thing into consideration in the future.

 

[assholee]

Thanks for the input. I imagine that's likely what happened. It was pretty dumb of me in retrospect, I booked the time for 7 and hadn't eaten since 12. I was damn hungry afterwards and went and ate two slices of pizza. I'll definitely take the blood sugar thing into consideration in the future.

Yes its true. I got a blood test done after I came back from the gym and when the results came back a week later, the doctor said I had very low blood sugar and I had to eat more often. (Hey I do anyways, but the doctors office was on the way back from the gym) I try to aim for around 5 meals a day minimum but everyone is different depending on your body build, metabolic rate, excercise for the day, last time you had a meal and total calorie intake just to name a few. Are you skinny? If you are, you most likely have an ectomorph's body type. I'm also an ectomorph and I eat right before I shower then off to the session.

 

[Thunderballs]

I am sorry to tell you this but it sounds like you have a fatal condition. It's called aging.

 

[Ihavewood]

Blame the girls. You didn't pay them did you? It is an excellent critique of their skill set and tell them so.