My Christmas Gift from Sharla
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I've been asking myself that for some time now.... I was taking a break from things over the holidays, but I will be in touch soon.
If it was you, Art, then I retract my statement about being the favourite. You're EVERYONE'S favourite!
I am a big boy and understand that people have varying opinions on many subjects and that they will not always agree. It is opinion, however, and everyone is entitled to one.
Yay yay!!! here's my opinion............ Yes u are a big boy!!!!!!
Yay yay!!! here's my opinion............ Yes u are a big boy!!!!!!
I appreciate you coming out to elaborate FutureLegend. I am sorry if I came off as defensive. Like I have said, I do not have very thick skin. I don't want to request a no review policy because I see the value you guys get from the ability to review a girl and if anyone had something bad to say I would be glad to take it as constructive criticism, so I hope that members don't feel they would be beaten down if they had something to say about me or my services.
While I cut back at you defensively I have actually been sitting here wondering if I have done something wrong and if I need to say no if someone wants my opinion next time. However I don't see why I should stop doing friendly things for people just to come off as not plugging myself on some random board where people are going to like me or hate and I have no control over that. I am trying very hard to not become some business minded, jaded, lay back and wait for your money kind of girl . . . and not doing simple things like checking for spelling mistakes for my clients because of how it might look would be a good step in that direction.
I am sure people have been emailing you saying I did something wrong. There are usually two sides to every opinionated matter. They are welcome to speak to me through PM to avoid "the cavalry" and I would be glad to try to further elaborate on the issue. It's a little hard for me to explain myself in Your PM box. Or they can mark me as shiller in their books and never come see me. But if they simply made an appointment I am sure they would find that nobody on here is shilling for incentive because it is humanly impossible for me to put more incentive into a session than I already do. I always give my all and do whatever small things I think my clients deserve. In Mike's case, he has been visiting for two years at a consistent rate and given me much personal advice and friendship and was well deserving of a small christmas present. It seems like a better business plan for me to give guys small incentives to return than to book in seven strangers a day. I can appreciate your stance on how that might generate positive reviews but aren't positive reviews warranted for good service and return incentives?
You are certainly intitled to your opinion FL and I would never hold that against you. However in the same breath, anyone else who gave their opinion is intitled to come out to the thread as well . . . cavalry included.
I have never asked someone to review me. I have never given discounts or incentives for good reviews. I have only treated people as I like to be treated. I can't force people to believe that. I can only hope they will consider my side of this situation.
While I cut back at you defensively I have actually been sitting here wondering if I have done something wrong and if I need to say no if someone wants my opinion next time. However I don't see why I should stop doing friendly things for people just to come off as not plugging myself on some random board where people are going to like me or hate and I have no control over that. I am trying very hard to not become some business minded, jaded, lay back and wait for your money kind of girl . . . and not doing simple things like checking for spelling mistakes for my clients because of how it might look would be a good step in that direction.
It might surprise people to know that I have been in this business and around terb for about three years (as a scared to speak up lurker). In that time I have made friends with my clients and I would imagine they come to my defense as they know that I spent a good year and a half debating with them whether my skin was thick enough to have a voice on terb. Yes, in the end we decided I was a big girl and should speak up. However I do find it hard at times to behave by all these unsaid rules and boyz club mentalities and many people have shared that sentiment lately so I cashed in my opinion.
I am sure people have been emailing you saying I did something wrong. There are usually two sides to every opinionated matter. They are welcome to speak to me through PM to avoid "the cavalry" and I would be glad to try to further elaborate on the issue. It's a little hard for me to explain myself in Your PM box. Or they can mark me as shiller in their books and never come see me. But if they simply made an appointment I am sure they would find that nobody on here is shilling for incentive because it is humanly impossible for me to put more incentive into a session than I already do. I always give my all and do whatever small things I think my clients deserve. In Mike's case, he has been visiting for two years at a consistent rate and given me much personal advice and friendship and was well deserving of a small christmas present. It seems like a better business plan for me to give guys small incentives to return than to book in seven strangers a day. I can appreciate your stance on how that might generate positive reviews but aren't positive reviews warranted for good service and return incentives?
You are certainly intitled to your opinion FL and I would never hold that against you. However in the same breath, anyone else who gave their opinion is intitled to come out to the thread as well . . . cavalry included.
I have never asked someone to review me. I have never given discounts or incentives for good reviews. I have only treated people as I like to be treated. I can't force people to believe that. I can only hope they will consider my side of this situation.
SHILL - "A person engaged in covert advertising. The shill attempts to spread buzz by personally endorsing the product in public forums with the pretense of sincerity, when in fact he is being paid for his services." - as defined by Urban Dictionary
Futurelegend, you are more than entitled to your opinions. I may not agree with them, but it's your right to express your views, and I support that! I'm just personally sick of the word "shill" being tossed around so much... and in many instances totally unnecessarily! It just deadens the instance when the term is actually deserved!
Making a post on this site can be very intimidating. I know when I made my first post, I was concerned of the reaction it would recieve. Why? No one likes to be mocked or ridiculed, even in a faceless or nameless forum like terb. And on this site, being called a shill is one of the biggest insults you can call someone! To post a reveiw of a non-mainstream fetish like CM did takes a certain amount of courage, and I respect that. At no point in my initial reading of his review did I feel he was trying to "sell" Sharla. I still feel that way. I also feel calling him a shill was disrespectful and unfair. I personally feel his checking things out with Sharla was his way of getting re-assurance that Sharla was comfortable with what was being presented. I could be wrong, but that's how I took it.
Also, I think most of us on here are thick skinned. To give it, you have to take it, and I feel most of us can. It's those that get personal and insulting with others while trying to defend themselves that are the ones that need to toughen up a bit!
Futurelegend, you are more than entitled to your opinions. I may not agree with them, but it's your right to express your views, and I support that! I'm just personally sick of the word "shill" being tossed around so much... and in many instances totally unnecessarily! It just deadens the instance when the term is actually deserved!
Making a post on this site can be very intimidating. I know when I made my first post, I was concerned of the reaction it would recieve. Why? No one likes to be mocked or ridiculed, even in a faceless or nameless forum like terb. And on this site, being called a shill is one of the biggest insults you can call someone! To post a reveiw of a non-mainstream fetish like CM did takes a certain amount of courage, and I respect that. At no point in my initial reading of his review did I feel he was trying to "sell" Sharla. I still feel that way. I also feel calling him a shill was disrespectful and unfair. I personally feel his checking things out with Sharla was his way of getting re-assurance that Sharla was comfortable with what was being presented. I could be wrong, but that's how I took it.
Also, I think most of us on here are thick skinned. To give it, you have to take it, and I feel most of us can. It's those that get personal and insulting with others while trying to defend themselves that are the ones that need to toughen up a bit!
I agree that CM was not shilling anyone. In fact, I never said that he was. I even went as far as to say that I apologize for unintentionally offending him because once I read Sharla's explanation of why she would have reviewed it, I was more than satisfied by that (although nobody owes ME any satisfaction or explanations at all). I think that it was a well written account of his experience and I'm glad he shared it. In my initial post, I even said that I was sure that he enjoyed his time.
After this discussion, I can even see where someone may feel the need to have their actual review check by the participants, as not to upset someone that they respect and care for.
Truthfully, in my initial post, I was only hoping to point out that by "screening" something before it is posted, one is afforded the opportunity to censor. I went on to say that I do not believe that's what happened here, apologized and elaborated my point.
As far as Sharla's service goes, I have no doubt in my mind that she is an incredible woman and a star in the eyes of many on here. I believe that she conducts herself professionally and I applaud her for going that extra mile to make sure that her company always has a great time.
Happy trails,
After this discussion, I can even see where someone may feel the need to have their actual review check by the participants, as not to upset someone that they respect and care for.
Truthfully, in my initial post, I was only hoping to point out that by "screening" something before it is posted, one is afforded the opportunity to censor. I went on to say that I do not believe that's what happened here, apologized and elaborated my point.
As far as Sharla's service goes, I have no doubt in my mind that she is an incredible woman and a star in the eyes of many on here. I believe that she conducts herself professionally and I applaud her for going that extra mile to make sure that her company always has a great time.
Happy trails,
I'm fine with two out of three, sweetheart ... so you can just drop me out of the conversation about skunks.
THAT, would be an understatement
Even though Kat may be a novice at face sitting, she’s highly skilled in other, more mainstream, areas of pleasing a man.
OK, now you've got me thinking ... what part of my education have I missed?
Been Googling 'skunk' and finding a lot of pejorative connotations, from bad ganja and stale beer to crazy mathafucka and stinky pussy, but haven't found the positives yet.
Guess I'm probably too young and too naive.
Perhaps I just need a tutorial from Helena or Mish.
Or maybe a tutorial with Helena and Mish!
I pulled my gun yesterday and shot a skunk.
Quite quickly I might add. Couldn't keep it in its holster......you know?????
So dissapointing; yet not....YMMV, I might add. Had a date tonight.....YMMV, boy did it ever.
I think I need a turtorial........
Quite quickly I might add. Couldn't keep it in its holster......you know?????
So dissapointing; yet not....YMMV, I might add. Had a date tonight.....YMMV, boy did it ever.
I think I need a turtorial........
Great review Mike. It's interesting that you were so enticed by Sharla's ass and feet, while I was equally taken by her other two large beautiful assets. And she's just as skilled at manipulating them around body parts
Sharla, you're my hero!!! This is exactly what I do and have done, and you put my feelings into words so much better. I'm so happy to know I'm not the only one with these thoughts, and that you conduct yourself in the exact same way. Kudos to you for sticking your neck (or butt hehe) out there and expose the real you. It's not easy to read something that isn't true and have threads like this take over to the point you have to defend your very existence.
CM, I'm so jealous that you got 2 wicked chicks to tease and please you. I can only imagine from your description what fantasy is burned into your memory lol.
Kat - you lucky duck to be with Sharla and CM! Two genuine people coming together to play and enjoy life on a different level of intimacy, and you got to be part of it.
There will always be lovers, and there will always be haters. Enjoy the first and ignore the latter!
Are you serious?? Put the drama away!
Nobody is hating ANYBODY here and nothing insulting or negative has even been said. Perhaps my largest mistake was posting something publicly, rather than send Sharla a PM with my opinion. I have said nothing but nice things about her and CM during this back and forth.
But, I suppose that everyone needs to add their two cents and really that's what these forums are about, I suppose, but exaggerating things like this is bit over dramatic, no?
"Defend your very existence"???? Come on...
There have been many threads on here started as....one's opinion. Then maybe drifted on to some sort of "drama".
As Future Legend says...this is what this Forum is about!!
It's not about existence... It's about one's belief of fact or fiction. You only exsist on this forum in words until you have been sought out as one's individual experience.Until one has tried the "review" ...you can choose to except or not except what you believe is to be true or not. You can choose to read and believe...or you can read and then choose the "exisistance" of the "subject" at hand.
Without saying,,you can be made or be broken on this site very easily. Because we all don't know each other on a "face to face" basis...it can be broken very easily.Someone's Goat..is another ones Gander... we all deliver our own very special services. Some don't offer any at all, hence this Reveiw board!!
At the end of the day.. we are all Human..and do not agree on everyone else's opinion.
This board has brought out the best of us...and the worst of us...I will include myself in both categories!!
Unless this board get's down right insulting or bashing...we still can type what we believe is to be true..or not.
This thread is certainly..different then the "usuall review thread"..BUT....a review was done..and opinion's made...
At the end of the day... it's summed up to be...the same....someone said their experience was this way...someone asked, why it was posted the way it was....
Like Jessica said... there will be lover's and hater's....it will always be that way...
Like Future Legend said...nobody is hating anyone,,,I have my own opinion...(summed up). ( no quotes)
We are all behind a computer..No?? ... Tell everyone , what you think, be prepared for the thoughts, from the opposite side...We don't all think the same..and if you want everyone on your side??? Think again...it's not going to happen...SPEAK out and LISTEN...it will do you good!!!(it has done me).
So let's move on....don't love..don't hate...just have SEX!!!
Like I said...Everyone is entilted to their opinion....This is Shauna Sha's.....Peace Out!!
xoxoxo
As Future Legend says...this is what this Forum is about!!
It's not about existence... It's about one's belief of fact or fiction. You only exsist on this forum in words until you have been sought out as one's individual experience.Until one has tried the "review" ...you can choose to except or not except what you believe is to be true or not. You can choose to read and believe...or you can read and then choose the "exisistance" of the "subject" at hand.
Without saying,,you can be made or be broken on this site very easily. Because we all don't know each other on a "face to face" basis...it can be broken very easily.Someone's Goat..is another ones Gander... we all deliver our own very special services. Some don't offer any at all, hence this Reveiw board!!
At the end of the day.. we are all Human..and do not agree on everyone else's opinion.
This board has brought out the best of us...and the worst of us...I will include myself in both categories!!
Unless this board get's down right insulting or bashing...we still can type what we believe is to be true..or not.
This thread is certainly..different then the "usuall review thread"..BUT....a review was done..and opinion's made...
At the end of the day... it's summed up to be...the same....someone said their experience was this way...someone asked, why it was posted the way it was....
Like Jessica said... there will be lover's and hater's....it will always be that way...
Like Future Legend said...nobody is hating anyone,,,I have my own opinion...(summed up). ( no quotes)
We are all behind a computer..No?? ... Tell everyone , what you think, be prepared for the thoughts, from the opposite side...We don't all think the same..and if you want everyone on your side??? Think again...it's not going to happen...SPEAK out and LISTEN...it will do you good!!!(it has done me).
So let's move on....don't love..don't hate...just have SEX!!!
Like I said...Everyone is entilted to their opinion....This is Shauna Sha's.....Peace Out!!
xoxoxo
Perhaps I can suggest one other option ... for those among us who LOVE to have SEX.
I actually meant that as a GENERAL thing, not this thread specifically, so I apologize for it coming off that way to some readers. I only had to compliment Sharla as she really put into words how I feel.
"Defend your very existence". Again, I mean that as "because Sharla is so honest and open as a person, for anyone to doubt at any point that something may be false is like her having to prove she meant no harm - which is honest in itself" kinda thing. I figured a follow up post would have been needed, and here it is lol.
No drama, please for once....
let's all get back to fucking.
