seekingarrangement.com bullshit site

[IMBob]

Does anyone have experience with this site ?

I paid for one month a few years ago. It's way too expensive at $50/mth.

I met one lady --- she shoulda been paying me. I suspect most of the listings are planted spam. I have my contact e-mail on one profile ( It got filtered out on a 2nd profile) , but no lady has sent me anything directly

And without a full membership you are allowed 10 free messages- but they are heavily censured. The last message I sent was deleted completely. Now it's a game . I just want to bypass the overseers to contact one lady.

 

[Rono]

I used to use the site and also had a few good meetings and hookups. I just found that the girls ask for way too much money and found it easier to use CL with a sugar daddy ad. I would hook up weekly for an afternoon and give 200-300 bucks. Had some awesome experiences doing that. One girl and I put out another ad seeking a woman for a threesome (no pay) and had a blast one afternoon.

 

[scarlet6969]

sorry to break it to you... but if you have sex for money... YOU ARE A PRO

 

[scarlet6969]

lol rub thats true

 

[Soft]

shill

 

[djk]

I used to use the site and also had a few good meetings and hookups. I just found that the girls ask for way too much money and found it easier to use CL with a sugar daddy ad. I would hook up weekly for an afternoon and give 200-300 bucks. Had some awesome experiences doing that. One girl and I put out another ad seeking a woman for a threesome (no pay) and had a blast one afternoon.

When you say an afternoon, how many hours are we talking?

 

[Rono]

When you say an afternoon, how many hours are we talking?

Usually about 3 hours.

 

[fuji]

sorry to break it to you... but if you have sex for money... YOU ARE A PRO

I agree with you in a theoretical sense, but it is indeed a different experience than what you would get from a "regular SP". You are much more likely to wind up being her only customer, and in these situations, she's likely not working "full time" like an SP. The atmosphere, attitude, environment, will all be different than your typical $/hour SP. Much more hit and miss honestly, but the diversity of it and the randomness of it is part of the excitement.

Both have their different places and different pleasures

 

[IMBob]

update.
So I did pay for a month and met an 18 now 19 year old last year. She visits regularly ; at least once a week. Toned. Offered $160 per session - @ an hour. She accepted. Nice arrangement. AFAIK, I'm the only guy she sees.

 

[Mr. Lucky]

This thread needs a new update

 

[marikiss]

Not sure if it's fair to say the girls have an other inflated idea of value. The site advertises to the girls that they will get to meet a RICH sugar daddy who wants to spoil them. So some go a bit nuts. Love seeing the girls that ask for $20000 a month. Best of luck to them.

 

[aprilreign]

The worst of them all is sugardaddyforme.com Guys can have a membership for free and those guys bombard the ladies with endless messages. Someone sent me a message once claiming they had some money to send me with no obligation. I googled his email address and come to find out he was a scam artist who had a trail. Its been more of a headache if anything!

 

[GG2]

 

[aprilreign]

Did he ask you for a small amount in advance to process the request?

No. He told me he wanted to send me some money via FedEx/UPS. He told me to respond with my name, address, dob and some other personal info. There are much easier ways to send money as opposed to FedEx and all the personal info he requested was a huge red flag. Then, his profile said he was in his mid 40's however the guy in the photos was obviously in his 20's.
So when I googled his email address I found a post on a scam website where another woman accepted the check he sent. His request was for her to deposit the check then send him a portion of the check. So much for a 'generous gesture'. Apparently she grew suspicious and did not do as he asked and within a few days the bank contacted her an told her the check was fraudulent.

 

[Possum Trot]

sorry to break it to you... but if you have sex for money... YOU ARE A PRO

I am betting that many of the women seeking sugar daddys are sp's or ex-sp's.

 

[Doug]

I was on a SB site for a while and recognized a number of our terb gals.

 

[hornydavid]

I was on a SB site for a while and recognized a number of our terb gals.

NO! The SBs only see one guy but see him on a regular schedule. They must be the twin sisters to the Terb girls. SPs would never lie about you being the only customer.

 

[freedom3]

I was on seekingarrangement for about a month. My impressions:

-About half of the women only want to be "arm candy" (ie. no sex). Maybe there are guys out there willing to pay big bucks for no sex, but I doubt there are too many. (One ad said "no erection is best".)
-Most of the women expect about $2k or $3k per month. Whenever I asked about how much they wanted per meeting, I was told anywhere from $400 to $600. Plus, they expect a nice restaurant dinner.
-Most of the women are GND. I was thinking that there might be some DDG on the site, but I couldn't find any.

On the whole, it was a waste of time. It had some entertainment value, but nothing ever went anywhere. I will be sticking to escorts.

I wish we had a very high end agency in Toronto. I am glad some agencies have VIP sections, but I would definitely pay ie. $300 for a half/hour for a DDG escort. We really don't have DDG escorts in Toronto. The last one that I can think of that came close was Aspen at Mirage (retired).

 

[wangbang]

I've been on SA for a long time but have never actually paid so I get a lot of emails that I can't respond to unless I pony up $$$.

There are a fair number of impressive looking girls on there plus a lot of dancers and SP's. There are also a shocking number of much older ladies who think they can get big bucks from younger guys. Personally, I'm looking for a DDG SB and I will respond when I get the right email but not if she is a current or retired dancer or SP. She has to be a student so I can feel like I'm doing a good thing while I'm doing a bad thing.

 

[afx]

great website. i have had several multi-hour get togethers in the range of $300 to $500 for the stay. Most of the girls I have met are more attractive than the SP's you'd find on here to be honest with you. I've had month to two-month long 'friend with benefit' type deals - get together once a week for an overnighter for $500. The girls I have been with are definitely first timers to the scene and were definitely only with me (that feeling, where you just know) - good girls, university girls, texts throughout the day constantly, drunken messages on the weekends - basically feels like a gf, but yeah you pay every week.

it MAY help that I am 37 yet look 23 and can act like it to - I've met girls for coffees/drinks for our "see if there is chemistry" date and they go over very well. we end up talking about music, TV shows, just normal stuff and they always seem to be happy that I can at least relate to them (i.e. I know where all the hot clubs are, underground music, DJ's, etc and actually GO to them and just come across much more like a friend/someone they would date as opposed to the usual 40-60 something year olds on the site). That's what they have told me.

YES i have met and seen on there several terb girls (cupids for one) - I even had a girl from Select message me on the site telling me she saw me the week before lol (her pic on the site had her eyes blurred so I couldnt tell) but she knew it was me, told me her name... she actually even remembered my real name (since I used a nickname on the site).

I have also corresponded with girls who think they are worth $1000 a date (for a couple hours) and others who think they are worth $1000's just to "talk to" and hang out with. I politely tell them that I have more than enough "girl" friends that I can do that with and don't need to pay them for that.

I have also seen hundreds of girls on that site who don't deserve to be there (i.e. pretty damn ugly).