Kristina CL
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Her ad sounds like she's high maintenance and rushy! And if she never answers her phone, must not really be too interested. Hate to waste my money on a poor attitude
Don't pick up phone right away = bad review
Touch phone during session = bad review
Someone else answers the phone = bad review
Spend 30 minutes sending pics = no time to answer phone = bad review
I'm curious what you guys think the solution to this problem is. An indy has a hell of a time getting back to the 30+ emails/phone calls that come in every 20 minutes. And I am not exagerating. That's why I rarely ever post adds for more than two hours and didn't post adds for the first two years I was in the business. I was honestly afraid of the backlash you guys give. If you can think of a way for a girl to suck cock, answer phones, send pics, and keep a lovely attitute about it even to guys who email 15 times a night, please let me know.
If her service sucks that's a different story. But give us a little break sometimes. Like I was just saying to a client through email - this isn't a full time job for the smart girls. We are doing university degrees, taking care of children and family, working second jobs. Send a girl an email that says what time you want, where, what you like, and how long you want and I assure you she will bet back to you quicker than if you write - so baby what turns you on and do you have a pic of yourself in red undies with purple nail polish, then maybe sometime next week we can hook up . . . just wait for my next 30 emails.
Sorry, jaded a bit by crazy terbites threatening bad reviews for not getting back to them in 5 minutes . . . when they haven't even had my service.
And while it is funny that she says she needs her beauty sleep till 10am that's a lot sexier than saying "sorry can't take your calls until I haul my 5 year old to school and get my 4 month old into daycare then come home, shower, do my nails for you, and then answer the calls from the 20 other guys trying to get in my pants so they won't review me bad on terb." I'm sure if she said that it would ruin the mood a bit.
Maybe she is flakey. I don't know. But a lot of us girls struggle with this daily and don't explain ourselves because we want to stay upbeat and accomidating for you guys.
*ends rant*
Touch phone during session = bad review
Someone else answers the phone = bad review
Spend 30 minutes sending pics = no time to answer phone = bad review
I'm curious what you guys think the solution to this problem is. An indy has a hell of a time getting back to the 30+ emails/phone calls that come in every 20 minutes. And I am not exagerating. That's why I rarely ever post adds for more than two hours and didn't post adds for the first two years I was in the business. I was honestly afraid of the backlash you guys give. If you can think of a way for a girl to suck cock, answer phones, send pics, and keep a lovely attitute about it even to guys who email 15 times a night, please let me know.
If her service sucks that's a different story. But give us a little break sometimes. Like I was just saying to a client through email - this isn't a full time job for the smart girls. We are doing university degrees, taking care of children and family, working second jobs. Send a girl an email that says what time you want, where, what you like, and how long you want and I assure you she will bet back to you quicker than if you write - so baby what turns you on and do you have a pic of yourself in red undies with purple nail polish, then maybe sometime next week we can hook up . . . just wait for my next 30 emails.
Sorry, jaded a bit by crazy terbites threatening bad reviews for not getting back to them in 5 minutes . . . when they haven't even had my service.
And while it is funny that she says she needs her beauty sleep till 10am that's a lot sexier than saying "sorry can't take your calls until I haul my 5 year old to school and get my 4 month old into daycare then come home, shower, do my nails for you, and then answer the calls from the 20 other guys trying to get in my pants so they won't review me bad on terb." I'm sure if she said that it would ruin the mood a bit.
Maybe she is flakey. I don't know. But a lot of us girls struggle with this daily and don't explain ourselves because we want to stay upbeat and accomidating for you guys.
*ends rant*
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Very well said, no let me rephrase that, EXTREMELY well said, Sharla!
I could not agree with you more, hon, and frankly I don't understand how you ladies can do what you do. Unfortunately, there's always those among us (the hobbyist) that are insensitive, uncaring and downright selfish about our expectations of a lady's time and attention to our requests.
I for one, pride myself in NOT being a member of such hobbyist group. My review of a lady always concentrates on the service that she provides and NOT on how quick she answered my phone call or email.
Take care hon and all the best to you.
I could not agree with you more, hon, and frankly I don't understand how you ladies can do what you do. Unfortunately, there's always those among us (the hobbyist) that are insensitive, uncaring and downright selfish about our expectations of a lady's time and attention to our requests.
I for one, pride myself in NOT being a member of such hobbyist group. My review of a lady always concentrates on the service that she provides and NOT on how quick she answered my phone call or email.
Take care hon and all the best to you.
sharla well put.... but that's part of the biz, which is why lots of ladies don't last to long.... i myself run a business and work full time so i know how it is, time management is so important as well as customer service, but the end of the day it's all about the "mo cash, mo money"....
Well said Sharla. Many tend to think for themselves and forget about the other person and how your actions hurt or help them.
How about getting a website, or posting in Terb's ad section with the time and dates that you're availible, so people won't have call? It's not exactly difficult to do either one of these.
If no one knows when the hell an SP is "working", of course horny fuckers are going to call. It's what you ladies call "the nature of the business."
At the very least, for the ones who use craigslist, how about putting up a schedule, or putting what hours people can call them? You have the time to post your pictures and stats, why not the time of day when people can call? "Call anytime between noon-1pm"......for example. It's not rocket science.
Since it's impossible to reply to that many, and unless you need to book a lot of last minute appointments, why not set up an automated email response somthing like "Thank you for your email. Due to the overwhelming volume of emails I get it is not possible to reply immediatley but I will try to do so within 24-48 hours. Thank you for your understanding"? Why not put something similar on your voice mail? Any guy who has the patience to wait up to 48 hours is serious, those that don't will probably book someone else and try to book you another time.
Some websites have this on the contact page so a guy knows the possible outcome before he even tries to make contact.
Hey Baby.....U can call me any time....but like Sharla said..if I am sucking dick or fawking dick..I will not answer....If I am riding you??? do you want me to talk on the phone??? I can post my schedule...and I have..but between being booked up and maybe some no-shows...My Cl ad still stays up... I for one..Am very busy..I have had clients that have been trying to contact me since June...Now is December...Someone can post call anytime between noon and 1pm..but does she say..she will answer... Stop being being a goof!!!..I will pay you twenty bucks an hour cash..to answer my phone and feel the pain from this end!! Hugs and kissez ..Shauna Sha!!
I apologize for my harshness...BUT!!!..with the discretion factor in this biz...and being Indy... give us a break!! Nuff Said!!
"How about getting a website, or posting in Terb's ad section with the time and dates that you're availible, so people won't have call? It's not exactly difficult to do either one of these."
In fact doing that only increases the number of calls and emails I have to respond to because then there is always an active link to my account and people can message all day and night if they want. Every add I ever make has the hours I am working that day and what hours I will be responding to emails and that I am indy so please be patient . . . and I STILL get men harassing me with 20 emails in a row to get back to them ASAP because their dick is hard NOW. And my first email to a client almost always has my typical hours. I don't think you guys understand some of the shit we deal with.
"That's business" is a well used catch phrase around here, but then you guys wonder why us girls leave the biz prematurely or become jaded. Sometimes you guys expect us to act like a regular "business" but we don't have 30 employes to insure customer service. And where is the return? Shouldn't we be treated like business women in the same respect if this is "just business". What business do you know of where a girls face could be rated out of 10 in a public forum. Or what other job do you know of where a girl can be forced into bare sex without being able to file sexual assult charges because she is already doing something illegal. These are the things we deal with everyday that make us scared to answer the phone at times.
My bottom line here is, have some compassion. Most of us girls deal with a host of problems due to this not being a legitimate biz and we still meet you with a smile at the door once you show up. No, we can't always answer right away but that has nothing to say about our business sence. It's a matter of time and ability.
I get that this is a review board but you guys can be a little egocentric at times.
In fact doing that only increases the number of calls and emails I have to respond to because then there is always an active link to my account and people can message all day and night if they want. Every add I ever make has the hours I am working that day and what hours I will be responding to emails and that I am indy so please be patient . . . and I STILL get men harassing me with 20 emails in a row to get back to them ASAP because their dick is hard NOW. And my first email to a client almost always has my typical hours. I don't think you guys understand some of the shit we deal with.
"That's business" is a well used catch phrase around here, but then you guys wonder why us girls leave the biz prematurely or become jaded. Sometimes you guys expect us to act like a regular "business" but we don't have 30 employes to insure customer service. And where is the return? Shouldn't we be treated like business women in the same respect if this is "just business". What business do you know of where a girls face could be rated out of 10 in a public forum. Or what other job do you know of where a girl can be forced into bare sex without being able to file sexual assult charges because she is already doing something illegal. These are the things we deal with everyday that make us scared to answer the phone at times.
My bottom line here is, have some compassion. Most of us girls deal with a host of problems due to this not being a legitimate biz and we still meet you with a smile at the door once you show up. No, we can't always answer right away but that has nothing to say about our business sence. It's a matter of time and ability.
I get that this is a review board but you guys can be a little egocentric at times.
mikeyli
if i were you i would change my name and wait a while before my next date. these ladies work hard to make us happy, and for you to go off without knowing what it is like to be in their shoes, brave but i'm thinking not to smart.
as for sharla you can show me all that fystiness on friday when i finally meet you
if i were you i would change my name and wait a while before my next date. these ladies work hard to make us happy, and for you to go off without knowing what it is like to be in their shoes, brave but i'm thinking not to smart.
as for sharla you can show me all that fystiness on friday when i finally meet you
Thankyou!!!! we do work hard...many reasons..the guy who is single..the guy who's wife had a dble masectomy..the guy who loves his wife ..but she don''t like sex.... we do our best...put a smile on every day....don;t shit on us....I love what I do..and will defend it to the bitter end!!!!
Shauna........... You shouldn't be apologizing for stating the facts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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