Expectations for the ''Perfect'' SP .

[Phoebee]

O.K. Gents , It is now the right place to let us Know what you are expecting when you are meeting an SP.

in Incalls or Outcalls

What would you like them to wear ?

Attitude / Services

Tv / Music

Time :I know no one likes a clockwatcher, But it is still important to be ''on time ''
When its an Hour appointment or more , Girls precise on time

But for a half Hour , Would you prefer a little warning so you dont get catched off guard by the clock ?


How should the Location look or Feel like ?


I know I am far from mentionning everything important here, But just a few suggestions to give you guys an idea of the answer I am looking for . I am trying to put up a list of the '' Perfect & Example SP '' and will give a copy to each girl that work with us !


Its now time for you guys to speak & tell me whats on your minds xoxoxox



'' When I pay and show up at a SP location, I expect to be whisked away for an hour-long fantasy. A few times I've been greeted by someone looking like they just got off the last Greyhound (with backpack in the corner of the room even!) and would rather find a decent sandwich than be the classy courtesan they are advertised to be. Eroticism is mainly mental. ''

'' Turn off the tv and talking radio. Music ok if low and not a main focus.
Turn totally off the cell phone. Even text vibrations every five minutes is distracting for both parties.
Have a clock viewable so we can check the time.
Mouthwash and shower and clean towel are critical.
I personally do not go back to see ladies who watch the clock or give a five minute warning. ''

 

[OutForFun]

Excellent thread Phoebee. As a grizzled vet of many an encounter I'd like to offer some thoughts...

-TV off before I arrive and off the whole time, I want to feel that I am the object of your attentions, not a TV
-cell phone off
-dress in something sexy and let me be the one to decide when it comes off
-1/2 hour and 1 hour appointments need a different approach, when I'm there for an hour don't start out by rushing things
-room neat and clean, your clothes and luggage should be packed away out of sight
-soft music playing, ideally have a laptop with a variety of music

-in general make it like a romantic get-together with someone special and you'll be getting things started on the right foot

 

[dattyspecialist]

clothes: for outcall should dress to blend in. Clean, tidy clothes, like if you're going out on a date to a nice restaurant, or for a date at starbucks in a bookstore.

incall: everyone will have different tastes on lingire and costumes, i'd say unless specific request aranged, nice panties and bra. Shouldn't be hidden, should see what we're getting.

ambient music is okay, but it should be sensual or relaxing. not talk radio or feel like we're at a rave. TV off.

The place should be tidy. Put away grabage, fold towels, don't have a lot of food containers or bottles around.

don't smoke in the rooms, change clothes if smoking outside, brush teath after smoking. Get rid of smell of moke basically. Brush teeth after eating. Shower between clients.

Don't overbook yourself. Leave at least 30 min between appointments so you don't rush one appointment, or keep the next waiting, or not be fresh. If you need time to recharge between appointments, then make time for that too.

MSOG if time allows should be the standard for hour appointments. If have an hour appointment, don't try to end it before the hour is up. if we cum and still have time the attitude of the attendant should make it clear that she's happy to continue the session with either a massage, cuddling, conversation, or starting more sexual services . If for some reason they don't want to offer MSOG but they took money for the hour they should be prepared to still fill the hour with cuddling, massage, convo or other services.

 

[Phoebee]

Love it ! Give me more !!!!


One questions , because i get many different answers , and the girls are asking me because sometimes they dont know how to approach it
If its a half hour ( which is suppose to be somehow of a quickie .. no msog , not much time for chichat etc. )
Would u prefer for the girl to tell you when theirs 5 min left ? Or get caught of guard when time is up if you didnt realized ?

It happened that 30 min passed by , the girls let the client know, and gets angry because he didnt have time to '' finish ''
And they also understand , that giving a 5min notice , breaks the ''mood''
So what should they do ?

Without being clock watcher , you need to realized that half hour appointment arent made to be '' quickies ''
They are popular especially day time when business man are a little in a rush on lunch break / before or after work ...
The ''half hour'' guys in general take only 15-20 minute .. they usually wanna get straight to the goal , clean up quick & leave !
I should be honest , not all , but ''some '' guys do try to abused the 30min and try to make it 45 ...
If you are planning on taking your time ... please take the hour , especially if you are a TERB member , its only 40$ more ...

For the hour .. I and the girls , totally undertand its a full appointment and should be fullfilled until time is up or until things done even if it takes 15 min extra !

 

[Bluenose]

Recent less than awesome experience:

In a run down building with dimly lit hallways, a completely bare apartment except for four items:

- sheet covering the window
- single size incredibly lumpy mattress on floor covered with a sheet that might have been previously slept in or possibly more
- tiny tinny TV/DVD combo player also sitting on floor and very loudly playing the intro sequence to a DVD over and over and over and over and over
- ash tray on fridge overflowing with fat roaches (the smokeable kind. I swiped one for later)

Very homey, I suppose, for some but somehow the charm was lost on me.

 

[Capital Amatuer]

It happened that 30 min passed by , the girls let the client know, and gets angry because he didnt have time to '' finish ''
And they also understand , that giving a 5min notice , breaks the ''mood''
So what should they do ?

Phoebee, Have the girl mention times, quite often the girl says "you want to see me for 30 minutes ?" She should ask "you want to see me for 30 minutes until 3:00?" if the client arrives at 2:30. Leave a clock in view so both can see it from anywhere in the room. The girl can subtly move or adjust the clock's position when the client arrives so that subconsciouly he is aware its there and registers the time. You probably know which clients need this attention to time keeping.
You wouldn't get an extra free half hour from your lawyer without getting billed!
Briefly, the girls should reiterate the time agreement at the beginning.
I do have a couple of querks; smell clean/pretty (cigarette smoke is not pretty), be freshly showered and give the illusion I'm the only client (for example, no wet/used towels in a pile on the bathroom floor). Basically, the girls should create an illusion that I am there for a secret rendez-vous with my insatiable mistress !
My 2¢ worth !
CA

 

[OutForFun]

In regards to the 30 minute clients, maybe the SP could ask the client up-front if they want a five minute reminder. They can put in nicely - "I don't want this to finish without you being completely satisfied". I also like the idea mentioned by a previous poster of stating not just the duration but the end time as well. Sometimes you book for say 3:30 but there may be delays getting the room number so you don't get to the room until 3:35. It's nice and clear then if the lady states that end time is 4:05 instead of wondering if she still expects you out by 4:00.

 

[DocOdd]

A lot of people want conflicting things, so it's hard to give general answers to some of these. I never do half hour appointments, and usually do two hours or more; especially for the multi-hour appointments I tend to expect that if we're in the middle of something when time ends, we'll finish it before I go. But I can't recall this ever being a problem; in fact, it's relatively common in my experience for multi-hour appointments to include some unnecessary (but appreciated!) extra cuddling and chatting time after official time has expired. I would never expect anything like that for a shorter appointment, as obviously if an SP is taking shorter appointments, she needs to take a lot of them, so she needs to get rid of me to get ready for the next client.

I do make a lot of outcall appointments, since I come to Toronto from out of town, so I always have my hotel room to invite SPs to come to. Over the summer, I had a couple of SPs come by in extremely revealing outfits; I especially remember Erin@select wearing some kind of t-shirt dress which was not only tight and of a fairly thin material, but probably considerably shorter than a woman her height should really have been wearing in public. I absolutely loved it, though due to Erin and a couple of others I know the cleaning staff at my hotel figured out I was seeing SPs (they didn't make any trouble about it). But while I really like the slut look, of course some guys don't. It also would have been less practical if it hadn't been during an especially hot part of the summer.

Really, I like it a lot when an SP makes an effort to figure out what I particularly like, so in addition to the fact that tastes vary, I'd recommend asking individual clients about some of these things. Perhaps starting with the booking, even if that's not talking to the SP directly; being asked, say, if there's anything I'd like her to wear, and perhaps offering a few suggested options, is never unwelcome to me.

 

[bulletproofman]

Here's my dime....
Soft music is OK. TV, no matter what is playing, is not. The room and the bathroom should be clean and tidy - the environment says a lot about who you are as a person. The lady should behave as such - be polite, and provide customer service. That does not mean give the customer whatever he asks. It means have enough inter-personal skills to make the customer feel at ease and wanted.
Nice sexy outfits certainly help the mood but they are by no means a deal breaker.
The rest is up to each provider.

 

[funman]

For call in - No TV on. Soft music on arrival. Clothe on. A warm hug would be nice. I don't mind 5 minutes warning for 30 minutes but 10 minutes or more warning is a bit too soon.

 

[Ice-T]

For me, I prefer incalls so here it goes:

-the sp should be as advertised, no fake descriptions
-a good attitude
-room should be clean and not smell like cigarettes or pot
-nobody else in the room please, clean up the place (chip wrappers, sub napkins etc)
-turn your phone off
-casual dress if fine, go easy on the perfume
-shave
-be natural

 

[TRman]

Hi Phoebee.

Not much to add except, for me, little or no perfume. TV off for sure. I like the idea of asking the client if he wants a 5 minute warning. Dressing sexy is always good. I think having the girl undress me and gentle lead me to the bed is also good. A clock in plain view is a great idea.

I also like the idea of the SP bring a warm cloth to help with the clean up. It adds a pampering to the experience. Definitely NO phone on.


Hope this helps.

TRman

 

[blackram]

-shave
-be natural

Aren't these last two requirements mutually-exclusive?

 

[toine]

Aren't these last two requirements mutually-exclusive?

Shaved and be natural: natural as not playing a persona, being herself, not some kind of vamp...

 

[Amanda Belle]

Very confusing, do you prefer shaved or natural?

I prefer to feel my large labia caresing one another
as i walk wihout any pubic hair
it is far sexier to me,
thus i keep myself shaved and soft as a baby.

I also wish gents would not weat any perfume, i despise colognes and after shave
if you smell like a department store it makes me ill.

This thread is very helpfull, because i prefer to know what turn you off.
It is nice when you
try to exceed the expectations of a gentleman
by bringing champagne and by been gentle generous lover to my body mmmmmmmm!
Moreover please respect the time you booked me, or extend the time at your discreetion.

 

[Amanda Belle]

Thank you for teaching me!

Poolasaurus

Katalavenes

Thank you for your critic, living and learning.
Everyone makes mistakes and i am not perfect.
There is allways room for improviment, i appreciate it.

On the other hand i get alone way better with the submissive gents
willing to do as i prefer so the session can be sexually intense.

If you are a dominating macho type we are not a good match, which is all good.

Amanda
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[Ice-T]

Aren't these last two requirements mutually-exclusive?

By "be natural" I meant not acting fake, moaning/screaming like a porn star etc.

 

[blackram]

By "be natural" I meant not acting fake, moaning/screaming like a porn star etc.

Okay, I can agree with that then. I love it when I get back a quiet but unmistakeable reaction to something I've been doing.

Regarding shaving, I like a little fur down there.

 

[Phoebee]

Ice-T , i think 50% will agree with you , but another 50% are actually lookin for that '' p0rnstar like '' experience !
I guess a little talk with the girl when you first get in , to try to explain what are you ''likes'' ''dislikes'' ... what turn you on and your preferences
would be a good thing ! For a me , a good SP , is the one who can adapt and be like a cameleon . Being able to ''read'' & understand a client before your start a session is a very good and important asset ... no one is alike !!!

 

[Amanda Belle]

Phoebee!

Adapting to each client diverse ways
of doing it, would be faking it.
My erotic preferences will turn me on if you are a giving lover and
you cooperate, or you will turn me off if you
are dismissive. Sorry i cannot be a camaleon.
I am a person with a high libido, capable of multiple orgasmic experience
with the right guy and if the situation is right.
Some of you are very giving in bed and some are not!
I prefer the gentle gent giving me as i wish type of male lover.