LOL.And if she doesn't swallow?It's purely innocent.Seriously though,this is rather immature(you men)even asking the question.You know the answer!Like someone else said....not sure who it was.If your SO was doing the same thing.........is she cheating?Even,Steven,admit it,you'd FREAK,if you found out.Available from 5 till 12.LMAO!No,no I'm not!Words to live by
Are we Cheaters?
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According to who?
My wife? You bet!
Me? Nope! Not in the slightest. I spent a lot of time thinking about this and my conscience is clear.
I figure it'd feel more like cheating if I went looking for the "GFE" where you look for a "connection". Don't get me wrong, I have all the respect for the ladies that offer that kind of service. But I'm in it for the good ol' fashioned PSE. I wanna feel like a star for an hour, and I wanna feel like the girl with me only wants me for my c*ck. Plain and simple.
I think we are dealing with this simple concept-Self deception:the deceiving of oneself as to one's true feelings, motives, circumstances, etc.I like men that admit they are cheating and feel a bit of a conscience,it's a turn on.Shows some self respect.Or even better.....don't say anything.
omg!!!!!!!!!!!i DON'T WANT TO REALLY TELL YOU WHAT i THINK OF YOUR ANSWER TO THIS POST.aM i ALLOWED?
wILL i GET THE BOOT IF i SAY YOU ARE AN IDIOT?iF SO,i WON'T SAY IT
tHAT YOU ARE A WEIRD GUY.In other cultures, the number of women you have is a direct correlation to your wealth, if you can afford to keep 10 wives, 20 wives, whatever, all the power to you. It is the western societies who have gradually placed their moralities on the rest of the world and the concept of cheating.
If your wife is attractive, contributing to your relationship and putting out on a regualr basis...then yes..many would see as cheating...
If like me...and she has not put out for over 5 years..and refuses to...then NOT AT ALL. Nature is what it is! Cannot be stopped!
If like me...and she has not put out for over 5 years..and refuses to...then NOT AT ALL. Nature is what it is! Cannot be stopped!
This hobby is only one of dozens of ways that are available to those who decide to cheat on an existing relationship.
In a way, it's one of the more honest ways because while the client may be cheating on his partner, there's no deception between him and the SP; both of them know it's a business transaction and there are no emotional strings on either side. If a married man chooses to cheat by dating other women, he may end up doing wrong by both his partner and the girls he dates. At least an SP has no delusions about why the man is there and is not interested in a relationship with him.
People can argue for ever if it's right or wrong to break monogamy in a relationship. In truth, what's acceptable is slightly different in every relationship as we are all unique and so our our partnerships. It's pointless to argue about that on his forum because this board is not about fidelity and the philosophy of monogamy. It's about adult services available for hire.
In a way, it's one of the more honest ways because while the client may be cheating on his partner, there's no deception between him and the SP; both of them know it's a business transaction and there are no emotional strings on either side. If a married man chooses to cheat by dating other women, he may end up doing wrong by both his partner and the girls he dates. At least an SP has no delusions about why the man is there and is not interested in a relationship with him.
People can argue for ever if it's right or wrong to break monogamy in a relationship. In truth, what's acceptable is slightly different in every relationship as we are all unique and so our our partnerships. It's pointless to argue about that on his forum because this board is not about fidelity and the philosophy of monogamy. It's about adult services available for hire.
How you will feel if you found that your wife also hiring male escort "as hobby" to have bigger and better co*k and want different taste of sex but she still love you, she want to live with you but she want to try a new toy boy once a week. No worries, she also want to relax from time to time. And as long as the man around her is 100% willing, then you should not see the problem with it...right?
It's absolutely cheating, but the question is, does it matter? If there is no emotional attachment, I think that it poses less of a risk to damaging the relationship...IF it is handled properly. Treat it as what it is - a casual physical connection.
Women (for the most part) just don't know how to cheat right - without bringing emotion into it. For the guys that have a girlfriend on the side that they are promising that they will leave their wives and are emotionally involved, man up and leave. You've already made your decision.
I will actually say that once I got over the initial awkwardness of hobbying, it has actually helped my relationship at home. I don't expect anything from my wife and I don't have this built up frustration. Because I am being satisfied, I don't look for an emotional relationship either. My SO has also noticed (I'm sure) my more casual attitude and has shown A LOT more interest in me again. When things are great at home, I don't look anywhere else. When things go off a bit, I return to hobbying. It's worked well for me.
Are you serious? This is a review board. What are you here for? The sports threads? If you are then go join the Sports Illustrated forums. If you've ever read a review to decide whether or not you will see a lady, then shut your mouth.
Believe it or not, YES it would be...as long as I didn't know about it.
I used to feel bad about hobbying because I love my wife and love my life with her and my family. That being said, I do not get emotionally involved with the women that I see in the hobby. I would never want her to know about my "hobby" because I know that it would hurt her and I wouldn't want her to go through that. She actually cheated on me a year ago with a coworker and I decided to stay with her because I decided that it was worth working it out. The difference is, she was getting emotionally involved with him. It stopped quickly and she has worked hard to make things better at home since then.
Women (for the most part) just don't know how to cheat right - without bringing emotion into it. For the guys that have a girlfriend on the side that they are promising that they will leave their wives and are emotionally involved, man up and leave. You've already made your decision.
