Are we Cheaters?
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If you're in a committed relationship and seeing SPs on the sly, then yes, you're cheating. How could it be otherwise? It can't be justified ethically within the confines of a committed relationship (wife, live-in gf, etc.). Living with that knowledge is where the rubber hits the road (so to speak).
This is very rare as females have better record, mostly guys are in this hobby. Probably this is reason male and female escort ratio in market is 1:99
Also interesting to know what MP/SPs think about it?
If you are doing nearly anything sexual without disclosure or getting consent, it is cheating. If you are with someone who would be ok with this even if you were sneaking around, I would guess you would have known it was ok to have it out in the open already.
However, even if you are cheating, if you have the presence of mind not to bring the hobby home with you, you are doing pretty well. Don't cry if you get caught though.
However, even if you are cheating, if you have the presence of mind not to bring the hobby home with you, you are doing pretty well. Don't cry if you get caught though.
All I know is that when we got married in the Maldives I'm pretty sure the minister said that I was free to sleep with other women. He said a bunch of other stuff too that I didn't really understand either. It was very romantic.
Strictly speaking, I would say you are cheaters. You are having sex with other women who are not your significant others.
That being said, as long as I am not friends with your SOs, I don't care. To each his own.
That being said, as long as I am not friends with your SOs, I don't care. To each his own.
Technically doing an SP is cheating ...
but it is not your fault!
It is your Wife's/SO's fault for not giving you what you need.
If she cooked like crap well then you would go to McDonalds for a 'meal'.
If she fuck's like crap well then you go where you can get satisfaction.
I had one GF that wanted sex so much and it was so good that I really did not care to look elsewhere. We smoked pot, watched porn, had sex. I was fully satiated.
If the Wife/SO can't satiate you then why should she demand that you are constantly hungry?
but it is not your fault!
It is your Wife's/SO's fault for not giving you what you need.
If she cooked like crap well then you would go to McDonalds for a 'meal'.
If she fuck's like crap well then you go where you can get satisfaction.
I had one GF that wanted sex so much and it was so good that I really did not care to look elsewhere. We smoked pot, watched porn, had sex. I was fully satiated.
If the Wife/SO can't satiate you then why should she demand that you are constantly hungry?
you are all heathens and will burn in hell. so if you have started you might as well keep going. i mean you can only burn in hell so much..bwaaaaa haaaaaaaa haaaaaaaa
What a stupid question. Are you for real?
Okay I'll play dumb....... So if your s/o looked through an NOW magazine looking for sayy a well hung stud then called to arrange a session with him at a hotel. Then after the wild no holds barred sex for an hour (msog) payed him $200. PLUS a $40. tip so he could CIM (because it turns her on) Would you consider that cheating?
Okay I'll play dumb....... So if your s/o looked through an NOW magazine looking for sayy a well hung stud then called to arrange a session with him at a hotel. Then after the wild no holds barred sex for an hour (msog) payed him $200. PLUS a $40. tip so he could CIM (because it turns her on) Would you consider that cheating?
Yes. We are cheaters. Get over it, it's normal.
My definition of cheating is this: If your SO would disapprove of it if she knew about it, it's cheating.
It is NOT your wife's fault that you cheat. If your relationship with her broke down and you aren't having as much sex as you like that's not only her fault. It's yours too, maybe for reasons you're unaware of. Anyway, I don't believe there is "right and wrong" in a relationship: There's a complex interaction between two people, where cause and effect becomes blurred and murky in one of the deepest, most intimate, and most difficult to fathom of human experiences.
That said, cheating is a natural human condition. It's in our genes, part of who we are, and you repudiate something fundamental about your own being if you suppress your urge to cheat.
Everyone here loves me for saying this, so I am going to say it again:
Have enough class to cheat discretely, so as to protect the feelings of your loved ones. If you get caught you're an asshole, and the probable reason why you got caught is you did something crass like bring your date to the home you share with your wife, or you came home smelling like perfume, or you used the computer you share with your wife to view escort ads or email your girlfriends. Show her some fucking respect, keep your cheating discrete.
My definition of cheating is this: If your SO would disapprove of it if she knew about it, it's cheating.
It is NOT your wife's fault that you cheat. If your relationship with her broke down and you aren't having as much sex as you like that's not only her fault. It's yours too, maybe for reasons you're unaware of. Anyway, I don't believe there is "right and wrong" in a relationship: There's a complex interaction between two people, where cause and effect becomes blurred and murky in one of the deepest, most intimate, and most difficult to fathom of human experiences.
That said, cheating is a natural human condition. It's in our genes, part of who we are, and you repudiate something fundamental about your own being if you suppress your urge to cheat.
Everyone here loves me for saying this, so I am going to say it again:
Have enough class to cheat discretely, so as to protect the feelings of your loved ones. If you get caught you're an asshole, and the probable reason why you got caught is you did something crass like bring your date to the home you share with your wife, or you came home smelling like perfume, or you used the computer you share with your wife to view escort ads or email your girlfriends. Show her some fucking respect, keep your cheating discrete.
I'm single, free and not constrained by any type of female vigilance. I will keep it that way until I rest eternally.
That being said, if I were not, colleague Fuji's words would be the very same ones I would choose to express my thoughts.
Choose your spouse carefully or not at all.
