As an sp, I can tell you that I enjoy DATY. Some men are better at it than others, however, everyone can be taught how to please. And everyone gets off differently. I know what gets me off and I just verbalize what it is that feels good and instruct what to do to get me off. I love getting off on DATY. That is the best orgasm I can have and I love being able to pleasure the man I'm with by being very verbal and vocal when I do let it go. I do not fake it ever. I don't beleive in faking it. Anyway, you can tell when it's fake and I wouldn't want someone to fake it for me. Especially when your paying good money to see someone, you want to see someone who is genuinely enjoying themselves, not rushing to get it done with. And yes, pleasuring me definately makes me want to pleasure you more!!!!! It's way more fun when we are both enjoying ourselves!!!!!