Need some advice

dmb10505

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Yes... oops and edited!

DocOdd, I have heard that information before and it does make sense, but every time I hear it, it is anecdotal evidence. I suppose if I got busy I could probably source some actual study someplace. Are you a Doc, Doc? If so, that I am more than willing to accept your word that there is actual research to indicate this.

To the OP, I took your post to mean that you had pretty much decided to plunge into the hobby. If you are undecided, then the other advice here is worth considering. If you have a great relationship with a lady and you don't want to fuck it up, then resist the urge to get into this. It is terribly addicting, expensive, somewhat fraught with risk and all in all, rarely lives up to the fantasy.
So I haven't fully decided to plunge yet, but I'm close. I am not of the same mind set as some others on here with the whole "pussy is pussy" thing. I want variety. I guess that's why I can't seem to get into the whole marriage thing just yet. The realtionship I have with the lady is good, and sex is as good as it can be after 6 years. I just want some variety!

Thanks for all the insight guys...

DJ - Are you always a dick, or just sarcastic?
 

DocOdd

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A recent dutch study has gotten a lot of attention from various media sources, though for some reason the attention has mostly focused on the high rate of STDs among swingers rather than the low rate among prostitutes. But every study I've seen that looks at anything comparable to the Canadian scene has produced similar numbers (I'm sure I recall a study of Canada specifically though I can't find at the moment, and I know I recently saw a study from Australia).
 

mannix1

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So I haven't fully decided to plunge yet, but I'm close. I am not of the same mind set as some others on here with the whole "pussy is pussy" thing. I want variety. I guess that's why I can't seem to get into the whole marriage thing just yet. The realtionship I have with the lady is good, and sex is as good as it can be after 6 years. I just want some variety!

Thanks for all the insight guys...

DJ - Are you always a dick, or just sarcastic?
Both!
 

dmb10505

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Thanks for all the replies... and I still haven't made up my mind.

Maybe we could start a littel bit of a poll... top 3 SAFE SP and MP's in the Cambridge/Kitchener Area. Safe / Clean is the objective.

I like the sounds of Mariah.. but says she only caters to gents over 30... not many reviews of her...
 

dj1470

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So I haven't fully decided to plunge yet, but I'm close. I am not of the same mind set as some others on here with the whole "pussy is pussy" thing. I want variety. I guess that's why I can't seem to get into the whole marriage thing just yet. The realtionship I have with the lady is good, and sex is as good as it can be after 6 years. I just want some variety!

Thanks for all the insight guys...

DJ - Are you always a dick, or just sarcastic?
To answer your question no not really. I just tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth and some people would rather be cuddled. Since I don't do that I get vilified and called and dick as you say, and sarcastic (except in the sports section where I am hated simply because I shit on the Leafs all the time) but I'm OK with that. I can defend myself. I have over 50 reviews here on terb and am active in the KW scene. I know many of the players and have seen most of them often. I simply have no time for people who are full of crap.

You simply need to go for it. There are a good many excellent SP's and MP's in the KW/Guelph/Cambridge area. Just choose one and go for it.

In this hobby you will meet some excellent providers and get burned by others but that's the name of the game.

p.s. I sent you a PM

Good Luck!
 

dj1470

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Oh now folks DJ isn't so bad as you all think. He's really a Sunday School Teacher and is the Santa at the malls around the Xmas season. That's why he likes ho-ho-ho's
LMFAO!!!!!!!!!

I'm not for everybody but I always tell it like it is even if it hurts.
 

dood

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So I've been on here for years, creeping around. It can be a hobby in itself. But I do apoligize for my lack of posts. I used to frequent MP's and a few SP's in Brantford for years when I was younger. (20 -23). I'm a social guy, girlfriends came and went but I loved going to these places... never with a girfirends consent. I was young and careless, and while never contracting any serious STD's I picked up Chlamydia without knowing and my girlfriend accused me of cheating. I didn't have the heart to tell her but we ended the relationship.

I took some time, got all cleared up and found my current partner. Time went by and I thought of going back to a MP or calling a SP but was too nervous of bringing somthing home. It has been 6 years with the same girl. I've been 100% faithful. We get a long great... but I do love the idea of stepping out with a totally random girl... no emotional connection. Just fantasy and fucking.

So this is why I creep, I find it interesting to still stay somewhat connected to this very addicive hobby, but don't know if I have the guts to try it again.

So here are a few questions I have for both Johns and SP's...

- how often is it you find a girl who still works with Herpes?
- What about cleanliness of beds and sheets? any stories about Crabs or bed bugs?

I would like to find a Sp who can bring some postive qualities... such as

-No BBBJ or unprotected sex
-I dont really care about the work load, provided she is showering and changing sheets between John's
- Not a heavy drinker or drug user.
- Very descreet and understanding of my situation.


Does such a person exist?? Or am I doomed to just sticking around on TERB, creeping and wishing?

PM or post, I just want to here fresh ideas from Johns who are in similar situations and SP's who can help.

Thanks,

:confused:
Few quality providers offer BB sex and it's your choice to have on the BBBJ. The bigger risk is put in the hands of the women giving BBBJ because of STD's that can transfer via the mouth. Most reputable SP's change their sheets and shower between clients because theeir reputation is at stake. The heavy drug user/drinker think is hard to tell but generally if she keeps her life together she's probably not a heavy user of things. The human body shows signs of health that you pick up without realizing it. Most quality SP's are descreet because they're ability to get future work depends on it. Word spreads fast on review boards about women willing to talk.

I think you have little to worry about as long as your SP offers safe GFE experience. That means everything is covered, no DATY and no serious kissing. There are lots of women that appreciate a guy looking for that too man.

I think your bigger issue might not be the disease thing but your own guilt. Often times guilt comes out in the "worry about a disease thing". Let's be real here man..you worry about picking up a disease to give to your wife but you don't worry about getting it yourself? To me, that says guilt. How will you react when you do an SP and then you engage in sex with your wife? When your wife is riding you, are you going to be enjoying it or thinking "what if i caught something". Are you going to push away your wife while you wait to see if you have signs of an STD? If you do..you're probably best to not engage in sex with an SP. But the thrill is strong. Best bet might be a part time provider that has a small regular client base for you.

There are risks to this..I know it all to well. My SO is a prostitute. I'm not some sex freak, or a drug addict or a pooner, just a regular guy. A good SP will be adamant about health because it's her body and health on the line man. I admit I woke up at night a few times thinking about it but I thought about how safe she is..and how unsafe I was when I was just fucking whoever. Date a girl, do her covered for a few weeks and condom comes off as you get comfortable. Or your FWB's..you'd see them, fuck them, uncovered. No one seems to fear that but they fear having sex with an SP..who covers up 100% of the time. The reality is different than the perpection.
 

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How do you handle it? I wouldn't be able to sleep at night if I knew my SO was shagging 5 to 10 guys a day, then coming home to me.
LOL. GOOD providers stop at maybe 3 per day, or even week. There are plenty of men who enjoy the fact their woman makes good money while doing what she loves.

What about the fact you are 'shagging' someone else's wife??? I would hate to know my husband was out finding girls on CL many times a month, let alone a week lol. What was that one thread about...perspective...?
 
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