have you ever lost an erection during sex? what should a girl do to get it back?

[syn]

have you ever lost an erection during sex? what should a girl do to get it back? or not do?

(this is one is more for the old timers on the board who suffer from ED)

syn

 

[Polecat]

If I ever lost an erection with a girl..................no doubt..........I'm with the wrong girl!!!

 

[mojak]

have you ever lost an erection during sex? what should a girl do to get it back?

Send in her HOT girlfriend/twin sister/slutty female cousin/Milfy mother to help get it back?

 

[hamiltondude]

If I ever lost an erection with a girl..................no doubt..........I'm with the wrong girl!!!

Or maybe drunk?

 

[malata]

if it's with a civ, then many creative ways in getting it back, with a SP, could depend on the situation if at all possible in getting woody back.

 

[Shades]

What you don't see in porn movies is the constant attention of the "fluffers" to keep the equipment in operating condition.
For the rest of us mortals...it happens for a whole variety of reasons...including a short attention span!
Relax...don't fret about it. If the girl is good she will give you a "rest" for a few minutes and then start building up your "ego" again!

 

[curiousandlooking]

Usually a phycological issue. Myabe your state of mind.... thinking about something other than raw sex?

 

[Mikehorn]

It's a tough one, it varies. For me, passionate lfk/dfk often helps. The attitude of the girl plays a big role. Do NOT yank on it like you're trying to re-start a dead lawn mower.

 

[afterhours]

have you ever lost an erection during sex? what should a girl do to get it back? or not do?

(this is one is more for the old timers on the board who suffer from ED)

syn

best thing a girl can do is go fetch a friend of hers who is slimmer and has bigger boobs

 

[goalie000]

I have gone soft while performing DATY on the Lady but a little kissing and a bj usually brings it back quickly lol.

 

[getwhatuwant]

In my experience of trying to get gentleman back up, a really slow and gentle blow job with some eye contact generally works like a charm.

 

[roger66]

In my experience of trying to get gentleman back up, a really slow and gentle blow job with some eye contact generally works like a charm.

You got it. I have had it happen and a good BJ usually does the job. Also, some condoms don't allow for the sensation neede to hold a firm erection ( at least for me).

And of course , there is always Cialis

 

[69Shooter]

I've mentioned this on another thread last year sometime... Once, I had an out call and the SP looked a lot like my sister (it was on another continent so I'm sure it was not her). No matter how hard I tried I could not get and keep an erection. Eventually, I just told her I was not feeling well and asker her to leave. There was not a thing she could have done to resovle the matter.

 

[Nickelodeon]

In my experience of trying to get gentleman back up, a really slow and gentle blow job with some eye contact generally works like a charm.

I agree with this approach coupled with self stimulation and jerking into her mouth or face. I can't explain but this combination always works for me.

 

[hinz]

In my experience of trying to get gentleman back up, a really slow and gentle blow job with some eye contact generally works like a charm.

Hehe...pretty standard for SP who values repeat clients.

Not so much for clock watcher, she would probably say sorry dude your time is up.

Still better than many civilians. Don't be surprised when she says hallelujah....no more chores.

 

[Brill]

It might happen if I'm too optimistic about going a second round, it's no big deal at all.

If it happens before I've cum and I'm not drunk, we can do something else until I get hard again. Sex isn't all about having an erection.

 

[Fit_Guy]

I found that my SP's CBJ was a very different sensation than my SO's BBBJ. That threw me off so my session didn't exactly go as planned. Absolutely no problem with my SP's technique; just have to get back on the horse

 

[Swallowme]

I have gone soft while performing DATY on the Lady but a little kissing and a bj usually brings it back quickly lol.

we must be twins then...... same thing happens to me. LOL

 

[oldjones]

Since it's you asking: what does not work for me is a partner's energetic efforts to 'fix' things. What does work—brilliantly—is getting a growing vibe from her that convinces me that she's having a good time. When that gows I grow. Coming alone is no fun.

 

[Cobster]

In my experience of trying to get gentleman back up, a really slow and gentle blow job with some eye contact generally works like a charm.

Single? lol