TERB BBQ Party

lurkerjoe

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I dunno. A bunch of hot ladies and middle-aged, plain looking men haning out at a bbq just seems odd to the outside eye. Just saying...
 

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sorry to be a buzz kill . but how many hobbiest want to be seen out in public with the Ladies? if the have a SO and anyone could spot them.. guess this would just be for the single terbites?
Good point.
That's why we need you to sew up a banner saying "Danish Lutheran Church BBQ" to throw people off track. You can even display your boobies if you want, they are a fairly liberal church. But no handjobs unless you're discreet.
 

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Good point.
That's why we need you to sew up a banner saying "Danish Lutheran Church BBQ" to throw people off track. You can even display your boobies if you want, they are a fairly liberal church. But no handjobs unless you're discreet.
Ok I will get right on that .. can I bring my st andrews cross as well? lol
 

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Let's face it - no one or very few are gonna attend an adult indusrty theme BBQ in a public place. Even myself (the party king who cares not who knows I dabble in the biz), I would never suggest such a thing.

A few years back though a local spa with a large enough prvt space out back did sponsor a BBQ. They supplied all the food and soft drinks etc. I enjoyed it very much. The only draw back for me was that the only ladies their were spa employees... and of course they were 'working' the BBQ.

I much prefer the SC parties cause there is more ladies from all aspects of the biz and while there may be some biz card exchanges - for the most part nobody is really 'working' the night of the party.
well i beg to differ the strippers are clearly working!!
really no matter how much the club owner says it wont be a problem, each time a SC party is thrown the strippers act all catty.
i've been watching your poll and i see only 2 ladies are sure they will be there and 2 say maybe so it's looking like a sausage fest.
for years us ladies in one form or another have said we aren't comfortable being at the SC"s because of the way the club girls act.
i like the BBQ idea in fact i'd love to be helping out with the cooking
 
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Never Compromised

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e strippers act all caddy.
I believe you mean "catty", not caddy.

Yes, the boat cruise thing has been done in the past, but how many guys want to pay $100 for a 3 hour cruise? The booze cruise takes lots of organization and up front money. Who here is willing to put up the cash to sign the contract, then print and sell the tickets?

The issue with the Non-SC venue is either the cost if we are keeping it exclusive for the evening OR "civillians" getting offended that there are "perverts and whores" in the bar. And of course unless the agencies confirm that they will attend, there is always the issue of a sausagefest. And if it is in a bar that is not exclusive, there is always the possibility of someone running into a civilian that they know, and who wants to explain to the wife why you were at that bar with a bunch of hot looking women that your wife's GF described as being prostitutes.

The other issue at this time of year is holidays. This is a very popular time to be out of town.

In the perfect world, we would have a BBQ at a private residence with a pool or lakeside. Who is offering?
 

Never Compromised

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the parties are only held at SC's because it's the easy way out or should i say lazy
Then feel free to organize a party where you want to have it. Don't bitch because someone else is volunteering and you don't like what that volunteer is doing.

IF it means so much to you to have a non SC party, why don't you and EntertainmentMan2000 meet for coffee and plan a party the way the two of you want. You can do the work, sign the contracts, pay for the supplies up front and run it the way you want to run it. No one is stopping you.
 

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Luv - I understand how you feel. I remember the ONE party you are talking about at Xmas time 5 or 6 yrs ago that the dancers did act a bit 'catty'. In all frankness though Dear - don't you think it's time to 'let go' of that? I have been to several parties since then and did not notice any catty behaviour from dancers. In fact they were happy to see us AND the ladies. I have personally taken another lady into the VIP with me and had a great time. At my last B-day party my LF that attended with me went up on stage to give a 'tip' and the dancers chimed in on the thread next day how much the loved 'n enjoyed it.

As for the poll - not all the ladies attending are gonna post or even indicate on the poll. I have it on good information right now that at least one massage place will be attending w/some staff and also one agency. Both will be making announcments soon on the party/poll thread.

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Let's face it - no one or very few are gonna attend an adult indusrty theme BBQ in a public place. Even myself (the party king who cares not who knows I dabble in the biz), I would never suggest such a thing.

A few years back though a local spa with a large enough prvt space out back did sponsor a BBQ. They supplied all the food and soft drinks etc. I enjoyed it very much. The only draw back for me was that the only ladies their were spa employees... and of course they were 'working' the BBQ.

I much prefer the SC parties cause there is more ladies from all aspects of the biz and while there may be some biz card exchanges - for the most part nobody is really 'working' the night of the party.
that's a fair assessment NiteHawk...I do know that you are organizing a party at an SC and I'm sure it will be a great one! I am sure there is a lot of work that has to go into organizing a party and making everybody happy! As for our friend compromised...take a chill pill man! I was just voicing an idea! It will be interesting and who knows, this thread may spark an idea of having a non-SC party venue or it may amount to nothign at all! Cheers!
 
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