Is infidelity ok?

Is infidelity ok?

  • Yes

    Votes: 24 38.1%
  • No

    Votes: 39 61.9%

  • Total voters
    63

j_anderson

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Is it ok to cheat on your wife? When she's not attractive anymore is it ok to cheat on her with younger and more attractive women? Getting a divorce is pretty inconvenient and is emotionally traumatic to the children involved. I mean you only live once, right?.. so as long as she doesn't find out is it ok?
 

afterhours

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Is it ok to cheat on your wife? When she's not attractive anymore is it ok to cheat on her with younger and more attractive women? Getting a divorce is pretty inconvenient and is emotionally traumatic to the children involved. I mean you only live once, right?.. so as long as she doesn't find out is it ok?
the challenge is to find a woman who would stay fuckable for the next 20 years, so that when you leave her, the kids would be all grown up.

there is no other real solution, everything else is a half-assed attempt at good and honest living
 

JEFF247

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I wonder why guys get married. Most don't seem to give a fuck about there SO and cheat or would if given the chance. So why did you get married? So you can have kids and make things even worse?
 

j_anderson

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I wonder why guys get married. Most don't seem to give a fuck about there SO and cheat or would if given the chance. So why did you get married? So you can have kids and make things even worse?
I'm not married. I'm only in my 20s, would never get married this young.
 

lovedoc

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Yes, based on your current condition and beliefs. If light is green, let the bitch go and drown yourself in a sea of love.

 

JEFF247

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I'm not married. I'm only in my 20s, would never get married this young.
At least you realize you don't "gotta get married!" A couple told me they were getting married the other day and I wanted to say "are you outta your fucking minds?" I can only assume they're to lazy to look any further and figure they can "change" one another. I see this alot. The girl wants a baby and the guy wants a mommy figure.
 

elassowipo1

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Sep 17, 2007
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LMAO

If it wasn't for guys cheating on their partners, TERB wouldn't exist, so this may not be the best place to ask.

Disclosure: I've been a cheating SOB since I was a teenager. I am a very bad man.
 

mmmhungry

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Dec 30, 2006
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OFCOURSE its NOT okay...!

you are asking the wrong crowd dude...
If you found out that your GF/SO was cheating on you is that okay with you? As long as you don't find out?
There's no way to justify cheating.
 

Bif_Butkiss

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Apr 1, 2004
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IMHO... No it's not. If you love your SO and if you hope she has as much respect for your feelings as you SHOULD have for her's then the answer to your question should be clear too you. if you have some overwhelming urge to cheat on your relationship, then leave her. In the long run it'll be easier for both of you if you leave.
In another thread here on TERB, a guy who admittedly "hobbies" on his wife whined when he found out that his wife was cheating on him as well and decided to leave him. I hate to be crass but it serves him right. She probably had an idea what he was up too and decided to give it a try herself and found someone who she wanted to be with more than her husband.
 

freestuff

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Jul 6, 2008
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LMAO

If it wasn't for guys cheating on their partners, TERB wouldn't exist, so this may not be the best place to ask.

Disclosure: I've been a cheating SOB since I was a teenager. I am a very bad man.
Sure a majority of johns are probably cheaters but there are other guys as well: single (like myself) or in an open relationship.
 

afterhours

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Jul 14, 2009
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No, that's why an open relationship is the IDEAL SOLUTION!
So much drama in this life because of trying to fulfill on the unrealistic idea of long-term monogamy :/
good luck raising kids in an open relationship
 

rhuarc29

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Apr 15, 2009
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I think the fact that the terb community is voting 2-to-1 for "no" is a pretty good indicator of the correct answer.
 

scarlet6969

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my parents are still very much in love after 35 years of marriage they have a very close bond and never argue .... my dad wouldnt ever think of cheating on my mom he always tells people how proud he is to have her and she is the most beautiful woman on earth!
 

afterhours

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he always tells people how proud he is to have her and she is the most beautiful woman on earth!
that is a commendable strategy that all the cheaters should employ
 
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