Oh what to do in Durham on a tuesday night

hrndg

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Large! I don't get why these girls think it's acceptable to work 9-4 or 10-6 here, like you do know what line of work your in right? Last I checked it wasn't called ladies of office hours..
 

SecretRendezvous

Durham's Best Kept Secret
As someone who closes at 10pm, I can tell you I tired the late night until 2am thing and it was fun of idiots, druggies and assholes. That is about as honest as I can be. Why should a lady weed through that to find one good client.

Also - why should a lady stay up all hours of the night when she can make her money and be home by dinner and enjoy her life? Last time I checked even a hooker is human and therefore deserve to have a life like others. Sorry it doesn't fit into your schedule. Seems to fit in most others just fine.
 

Davenash2

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Cyd, correct on> Escorts are human and deserve a life.

But also>Guys have a right to ask about late shift availability. Many Good guys (like myself, wink) work shift work and are looking for action at any time of the day or night. Even Sundays. Oh no!
Cyd and SR are doing a great job and you can't accommodate all requests, but Cyd, there is a demand for after 10pm and Sunday work. If you tried it and it did not work for your agency fine, but don't knock us for asking...
As far as the "idiots, druggies and assholes" comment.... Can you not prescreen this out or only book trusted clients late if pre booked?

For someone who only hobbies once or twice a month, there may not be enough business for SR to be open late for me.

Guys there is PA (I know only massage, but there is release till 2AM) and many good indy's that can accommodate you. But also, most Indy’s don’t do late shifts if it is your first visit. (Safety first). Don’t call last minute, if you want a late rendezvous!
Try:
Heidi
Melanie
Anessa

You can’t go wrong with these ladies.
 

SecretRendezvous

Durham's Best Kept Secret
Cyd, correct on> Escorts are human and deserve a life.

But also>Guys have a right to ask about late shift availability. Many Good guys (like myself, wink) work shift work and are looking for action at any time of the day or night. Even Sundays. Oh no!
Cyd and SR are doing a great job and you can't accommodate all requests, but Cyd, there is a demand for after 10pm and Sunday work. If you tried it and it did not work for your agency fine, but don't knock us for asking...
As far as the "idiots, druggies and assholes" comment.... Can you not prescreen this out or only book trusted clients late if pre booked?

For someone who only hobbies once or twice a month, there may not be enough business for SR to be open late for me.

Guys there is PA (I know only massage, but there is release till 2AM) and many good indy's that can accommodate you. But also, most Indy’s don’t do late shifts if it is your first visit. (Safety first). Don’t call last minute, if you want a late rendezvous!
Try:
Heidi
Melanie
Anessa

You can’t go wrong with these ladies.
My harshness was more towards horndog because of the crass comments made by him. Yes I understand the frustration, but there wasa hint of rudeness in his reply and I felt the need to reply back in kind.

Sunday Market, I know is huge, but to avoid burn out, ladies need one day of rest.

Late night, there is not as much late night business as you would think. Most of our business is actually done during office hours. That is when the men can get away to play. For the less then 15% that make up this market and need late night, or Sunday, the other 85% need daytime or early evening. What is a girl to do?

Seriously think about it for a second. How much business to you think is out there on a tuesday night after 10pm?

Not a whole heck of a lot to make it worth it to stay open and be available. Even for indies.

As for screening, yes you can, but to know that someone is high is hard to tell on the phone and we end up sending more away at the door.

I completely understand that there is a need out there for men to see ladies outside of our business hours, but I have tried it and men have ruined it. I can honestly say that is the same for other ladies out here too.

I will be making a post shortly to about some do's and don'ts before the men here in Durham ruin it for some other things as well.

There are many men, few ladies and if people coninute to just think about themselves, thier money, thier time and not others or how there actions affect others, this hobby is going to continue to go down hill. It was only about 3-5 years ago that this place was hopping with girls from pickering to peterborough. Now there really is nothing. All the girls moved on into to Toronto or out of the business completely. That should show clients something.

Sorry about the spelling and stuff, on a mini laptop, no spell check and my eyes just are not what they used to be. lol

PS - you are right, a regular has a better chance of getting something late night if he pre-books and the ladies you have listed are awesome! There are other agencies open late night as well as part of thier regular hours. So there are options out there, just not alot anymore
 

hrndg

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wow, alright. I didn't mean to be rude Cydney, I was just agreeing with my fellow TERB brother that on the surface it seemed ridiclulous to have so many excellent SPs in our area but at a time when we would have thought was their busiest, they would be closed. I understand your point, of course you are on the inside and see this far more often than I do, but I'm a professional, gentleman who works too much to have an LTR so I very much enjoy such services and thus never would have thought about the druggy, loser crowd and their subsequent non-sense. I was simply saying that from our point of view the optics of it are much like a night club closing at 8pm. But now you've told me how it works from your position.
 

Davenash2

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Thanks Cyd,
You got the inside knowledge of a bussiness woman, who knows what happening in Durham region. Keep up the good work!

I am sure it will be enlightening when you post "I will be making a post shortly to about some do's and don'ts before the men here in Durham ruin it for some other things as well."
I guess you have been dealing with a lot of aholes!
 

rdmnut

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I will be making a post shortly to about some do's and don'ts before the men here in Durham ruin it for some other things as well.
Wow, thats a real high horse you got there. I can't wait for the insight. To be honest, there are already enough threads and STICKYs focused on "HOW TO VISIT A PROSTITUTE" that I don't think we need another. I will be quite surprised if this new post will add anything new.

Maybe we should start compiling a list of "dos and don'ts" for all the bad prostitutes in Durham...oh wait....I thinks thats been done a million times before as well........

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SecretRendezvous

Durham's Best Kept Secret
Wow, thats a real high horse you got there. I can't wait for the insight. To be honest, there are already enough threads and STICKYs focused on "HOW TO VISIT A PROSTITUTE" that I don't think we need another. I will be quite surprised if this new post will add anything new.

Maybe we should start compiling a list of "dos and don'ts" for all the bad prostitutes in Durham...oh wait....I thinks thats been done a million times before as well........

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I am sorry you feel that way and to a point I agree. There should be no need for reminders/dos/donts. But when I have clients repeatedly showing up early, getting themselves let into the building and then calling for the apartment number or to "let me know they are about to get in elevator" while standing inside the lobby, then clearly a reminder is needed. Only call ANY incall the way you are instructed. For us, that means calling from while you are still parked in your car.

This is suppose to be a discrete business for both client and lady. It is not very discrete if a client is calling from our lobby, then being sent away until his actual appointment time. These early arrivals are also between 15-45 minutes early. It is not discrete when you are publicly asking for the apartment info while in the lobby for tohers to hear you.

These are the type of reminders/dos/donts that I am talking about. It is not high horse lecturing or at least that is not the intent anyway. It is actually common sense that apparently needs reminding to some.
 

Davenash2

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For us, that means calling from while you are still parked in your car.

This is suppose to be a discrete business for both client and lady. It is not very discrete if a client is calling from our lobby, then being sent away until his actual appointment time. These early arrivals are also between 15-45 minutes early. It is not discrete when you are publicly asking for the apartment info while in the lobby for tohers to hear you.

These are the type of reminders/dos/donts that I am talking about. It is not high horse lecturing or at least that is not the intent anyway. It is actually common sense that apparently needs reminding to some.
I am SURE someone might call me a "Fan boy" but Cyd is right! Cyd maybe a sticky for INCALL could be created. Ask Fred. I think it is Fred that runs this board.

Some are 45 min early? Wow! must be out of towners who thought traffic could be bad or really eagar beavers.. I have been early, but I am a good boy and do what I am told.
 

Nighthawkk

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I have to agree with Cyd on this. Having recently been the casualty of an appointment where the girl had just seem some jerk trying to cross boundaries before me, this put her in a not so great frame of mind when I got there. Cyd and I have discussed this privately and yes, maybe they shouldn't have taken my appointment but it also wouldn't have been a problem if someone else hadn't messed with them which then messed it up for me.
Hawkk
 

SecretRendezvous

Durham's Best Kept Secret
Thanks Nighthawkk. And you are totally right.

This is a perfect example. I will be the first to admit that Nighthawkk did not get the session he should have. A regular went way to far in the session before his. A regular who has used us over 25 times over the last 2 years is now blacklisted. These reminders are not just for newbies.

I will post them when I get a chance.

and Hawk sweetie, I have a PM I am still writting out to you, so check for that by the end of this weekend. You are the type of client we want, we enjoy having and who needs no reminders.
 
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